Izinto Ezingu-8 Ingane Yakho Eyohlala Ibonga Ngazo
Izinkumbulo eziningi zobuntwana ziyafiphala njengoba izingane zikhula ziba abantu abadala. Ukucaciswa okuningi mayelana nezindawo oya kuzo noma izinto ozenze njengomndeni zingase zibe yindida. Kodwa kukhona izinto ingane yakho engasoze yazikhohlwa, futhi eyohlale ibonga ngazo.
1. Ukuqinisekisa ngokomzimba. Banga izingane zakho OKUNINGI. Ukuzwa izingalo zakho ezisonge ngazo kubanika isivikelo okungekho okunye okungasithatha indawo. Ngisho nalapho bedlula esigabeni “sokuhlubuka” futhi bebonakala benqaba uthando lwakho, qiniseka ukuthi uyaqhubeka nokulunikeza futhi ubavumele balwenqabe. Bangamahlongandlebe bangabonisa izinto eziningi - bangahle bazame ukuzitholela ukuthi bangobani futhi, ngokwenza kanjalo, bafune ibanga elincane, noma bangase bavumele ukucindezela kontanga futhi abafuni ukubonakala. eduze nabazali babo. Noma iyiphi indlela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibanga labo langaphandle, basadonsa ukuvikeleka okukhulu kwangaphakathi ngokwazi ukuthi ufuna ukubagona ngisho noma bekwenqaba.
2. Ukuchitha isikhathi nawe. Akusho lutho ngempela ukuthi wenzani. Kungase kube nje ukuxoxa nokuhleka ndawonye, ​​noma ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, ukugijima, ukutadisha ndawonye, ​​ukudlala ndawonye noma ukuba nemisebenzi yomkhaya kanye nokuvakasha. Isikhathi siyigugu, futhi izingane zethu zifunda lokho zisuka nje ngoba zisibona sigxile kakhulu ezintweni ezihlukahlukene, futhi ngokuvamile zitshelwa ukuthi “hhayi manje, anginaso isikhathi.” Ukubeka kuqala isikhathi nezingane zethu kubaluleke kakhulu. Akusisizi nje kuphela ukuthi sibazi futhi sibabuke bekhula. Iphinde ibatshele ukuthi BABALULEKILE. Izingane zethu akufanele neze zizwe sengathi zidinga ukuncintisana nekhompyutha yethu (noma yini enye edla isikhathi sethu esiningi) ukuze sizinake. Kudingeka kube yizinto eziza kuqala kithi, futhi kudingeka bazi ukuthi SIFUNA ukuchitha isikhathi nabo, ngisho noma kusho ukudela okunye (empeleni, KUYOHLALA kusho ukudela okunye).
3. Ukuqondwa. Ukuba umzali kungaba nzima, kodwa ukuba yingane nakho kunzima. Babhekana nemizwa nemibono eminingi emisha, futhi benza amaphutha amaningi ohlelweni lokufunda izinto ezintsha. Kulula ngezingane ukuba zizwe sengathi abantu abadala bahlale bazi yonke into (okungelona iqiniso) futhi izingane zihlala zimosha (akulona iqiniso futhi). Ubuntwana buyinto engokoqobo engokoqobo, kodwa futhi iyinselele. Ukusiza izingane zethu zibone ubuhle futhi zinqobe izinselele kuthatha ukuqonda okukhulu. Khumbula ukuthi nawe wawuyingane. Lapho uqondisa ingane yakho, qiniseka ukuthi iyazi ukuthi uyayiqonda. Lokhu kuzobasondeza kuwe manje, kodwa nasesikhathini esizayo lapho bezozizwa bekhululekile ukukukhuluma ngezindaba ezibalulekile empilweni yabo.
4. Ukuba namasiko omndeni. Amasiko omndeni adlala indima ebalulekile ekusunguleni ubuwena bomndeni wakho. Izingane zakho ziyohlale zikhumbula izimiso nezimiso eziyisisekelo zamasiko enu, futhi zizoba nezinkumbulo ezinhle zazo zonke izikhathi enizichithe ndawonye. Iningi lamasiko enu lingase lingene nasemindenini yakusasa yezingane zenu. Amasiko awabhekiseli nje emisebenzini yamaholide neyokuzalwa kanye nezibiliboco - amasiko ansuku zonke, amaviki onke kanye nenyanga nawo abalulekile. Mhlawumbe unobusuku bomndeni isonto ngalinye, noma indawo yokungcebeleka lapho ufunda ubusuku ngabunye ngaphambi kokulala. Lawa futhi amasiko asebenza ngendlela yawo enhliziyweni yengane yakho futhi abe “yikhaya”.
5. Okwenziwe ekhaya… noma yini. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ikhekhe lokuzalwa, inothi elibhalwe ngesandla, noma isipho se-DIY, ingane yakho izozazisa kakhulu izinto ozenzele yona mathupha. Ukuthi ayabiza noma cha akusho lutho; awanakushintshwa. Ngisho noma ungeyena ubuqili noma ikhekhe liyi-gloppy encane, ingane yakho izozizwa ithandwa ngendlela ekhethekile ngoba uthathe isikhathi sokuyenzela okuthile futhi wenze okuthile nayo yodwa engqondweni.
6. Ukudla komkhaya. Ningakhohlwa ukudla ndawonye njengomndeni. Yebo, kusho ukuhlela kabusha isimiso sakho ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi wonke umuntu uqondana ekhaya ngesikhathi esifanayo noma ukudla kwasemini noma isidlo sakusihlwa, futhi izingane zakho zingase zikuvimbele ukuyeka imisebenzi ethile ukuze zikwazi ukuba nesikhathi somndeni, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bazokwazisa. Ukuba ndawonye ngesidlo sasemini noma sakusihlwa kusiza ukuniqinisa njengomndeni. Kuyisikhumbuzo sokuthi ubumbano lwenu njengomndeni lubalulekile, lubaluleke kakhulu kunemicimbi edlulayo, emnandi noma ngabe imnandi. Ngemva kweminyaka, izingane zakho zisazokukhumbula konke owawukhuluma futhi wahleka ngakho phakathi nesidlo somkhaya wakho, kanye nezifundo eziningi ezibalulekile ezizifunde ngaleso sikhathi.
7. Ukubungaza impumelelo. Qiniseka ukuthi uyayibungaza impumelelo yengane yakho. Bayohlale bezwa ukugcwaliseka okukhethekile ngokwazi ukuthi ubuziqhenya ngabo. Enganeni, ukwazi ukuthi abazali bakho bajabule ngawe kusho lukhulu futhi kuhamba ibanga elide ekusizeni ube nokuzethemba okunempilo. Qiniseka ukuthi unikeza ingane yakho lelo thuba nokuvikeleka. Kungase kube ukumane uthi “umsebenzi omuhle” lapho beqeda imisebenzi yabo yasekhaya noma bebakhipha isikhathi esithile ukuze bathole okuthile okukhethekile, noma benza uphudingi olumangalisayo ukuze babahalalisele ngokuthile.
8. Ukwazi ukuthi uyabathanda njengoba benjalo. Noma bengaphumelelanga. Nalapho bengaziphathi kahle. Kubalulekile ukuthi bazi ukuthi BAnele. Zinike isikhathi sokukwazisa ukuthi uthanda kangakanani ukuzwa becula (hhayi ngoba benephimbo elihle noma bezuze umklomelo - ngoba nje becula ), noma ukuthi uthanda kangakanani ukubabuka bedlala ibhola (futhi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi banekhono elingakanani bakhona noma cha). Yebo, uyababungaza impumelelo yabo, kodwa awubathandi ngoba bephumelele. Uyabathanda ngoba nje beyibo.
Cabanga emuva ebuntwaneni bakho. Yini enye oyikhumbula kahle obonga ngayo? Engeza noma yini efika engqondweni yakho ohlwini lwalokho ofuna ukukudlulisela ezinganeni zakho!
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