Izingane eziningi ziba nemikhuba.Zingagomela ukuthi zifundelwe indaba efanayo ngaphambi kokulala njalo ebusuku, zihlele amathoyizi ngendlela ethile noma zithande imikhuba ejwayelekile ezisiza ukuba zizizwe zikhululekile futhi ziphephile. Lezi zindlela zokuziphatha ngokuvamile ziyingxenye evamile yokuthuthuka kwengane.
Lesi ngesinye sezizathu esenza ukuthi ukuphazamiseka okubangelwa ukucabanga okungapheli nokuziphindaphinda kwezenzo (obsessive-compulsive disorder), okwaziwa ngokuthi i-OCD, ngezinye izikhathi kube nzima ukuyibona.
Izimpawu zivame ukuqondwa kabi noma zinganakwa njengezimanga, izimfanelo zomuntu siqu, ukuzama ukuphelela noma ukukhathazeka okulula. Eqinisweni, i-OCD ihlanganisa okungaphezu kokuthanda ukuhleleka noma imikhuba.
Izingane ezine-OCD ziba nemicabango ephazamisa ingqondo engazibangela ukwesaba, ukucasuka noma kungabi nokwenzeka ukuyishaya indiva. Le micabango ivame ukudala ukukhathazeka okukhulu, okwenza izingane ziqale ukwenza izinto ezithile noma imikhuba ngenhloso yokunciphisa ukucindezeleka kwazo.
Okwenza i-OCD ibe inselele ikakhulukazi ukuthi lezi zindlela zokuziphatha akuzona izinqumo.
Izingane azizami ukudonsa ukunaka, ukuphatha izimo noma ukuziphatha kabi. Kunalokho, zisabela ekwesabeni nasekukhathazekeni okungenza zizwe kukhona ngempela futhi kuziqede amandla.
Ngenxa yokuthi le micabango yenzeka ngaphakathi, abazali bangase babone kuphela izindlela zokuziphatha ezingaphandle.
Ingane ingase ihlole izinto kaningi, ibuze imibuzo efanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe, ifune ukuqinisekiswa okuqhubekayo noma icindezeleke kakhulu lapho imikhuba iphazanyiswa. Abanye bangase bazifihle izinkinga zabo ngokuphelele ngoba bezwa inhloni, bedidekile noma bekhathazekile ukuthi akekho ozoyiqonda.
Lokhu kungenza i-OCD ibe nzima ukuba imindeni iyibone.
Abazali abaningi ekuqaleni bacabanga ukuthi ingane yabo ivele idlula esigabeni, iba nokukhathazeka okwengeziwe noma yakha imikhuba ezonyamalala ekugcineni. Ngenkathi izindlela zokuziphatha eziphindaphindwayo ngezikhathi ezithile zivamile ebunganeni, izinhlobo eziphikelelayo ezidala ukucindezeleka noma eziphazamisa impilo yansuku zonke zidinga ukunakwa okwengeziwe.
Esinye sezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu abazali abangaziqonda ukuthi izingane ezine-OCD zivame ukulwa ngisho nangemicabango ngemuva kokuziphatha njengoba zenza ngokuziphatha kwazo.
Okwangaphandle kungase kubonakale kungajwayelekile noma ngokweqile kuvame ukuzizwa kuyadingeka ngombono wengane.
Ngaphandle kokusekelwa, izingane zingaqala ukuzizwa zihlukanisiwe noma zinamahloni. Zingase zingaqondi ukuthi kungani zingakwazi nje ukuyeka ukucabanga imicabango ethile noma ukwenza imikhuba ethile. Lokhu kudideka kungathinta ukuzethemba, ubudlelwano kanye nenhlalakahle engokomzwelo.
Izindaba ezikhuthazayo ukuthi i-OCD iyaziwa, iyaqondwa futhi iyaphatheka.
Ukuhlonza kusenesikhathi kungasiza izingane zithole ukusekelwa okufanele futhi zifunde amasu asebenzayo okuphatha izimpawu. Ukuqonda ukuthi i-OCD ibukeka kanjani ngempela kuvame ukuba isinyathelo sokuqala sokusiza ingane izizwe iqondwa kunokuba yahlulelwe.
Kubazali, ulwazi lungakhuthaza ngendlela emangalisayo. Ukubona umehluko phakathi kwemikhuba yobuntwana evamile nezindlela zokuziphatha ezibangelwa ukukhathazeka kuvumela imindeni ukuthi isabele ngobubele nangokuzethemba okukhulu.
Ngoba ngezinye izikhathi okubonakala kuwumkhuba olula empeleni ingane ecela usizo ngezindlela engakwazi ukuzisho ngamagama okwamanje.
Ufuna ukufunda okwengeziwe ngezimpawu, izimpawu kanye namaqiniso e-OCD ezinganeni? Funda yonke indatshana ku-BabyYumYum:
https://babyyumyum.com/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-ocd-in-children/
