Izingcaphuno ezingu-20 ezikhuthazayo zomzali oyedwa zokukusiza ubhekane nakho

Ukuba nomzali oyedwa kungaba yinto eyinselele, ikakhulukazi uma ubhekene nozakwethu onzima noma uzama ukuzulazula ebudlelwaneni obusha bokuba nomzali oyedwa.

Nokho, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuba nomzali oyedwa kungase futhi kube okuhlangenwe nakho okuvuzayo okukuvumela ukuba nisebenzisane ukuze ninikeze ukukhuliswa okungcono kakhulu kwengane yakho.

Uma udinga ugqozi oluthe xaxa noma ugqozi, lezi zingcaphuno ezingu-20 zomzali oyedwa zingakusiza uhlale ugxilile, unethemba, futhi uzimisele.

1. "Ukukhulisa izingane akuwona umncintiswano. Ukubambisana kwabazali ababili abenzela izingane okungcono kakhulu. Akudingekile ukuthi bathandane. Kumele bahloniphane kuphela." - Ongaziwa

2. "Ingubo yokuvikela engcono ingane engaba nayo abazali abahloniphanayo." - UJane Blaustone

3. "Ukukhulisa izingane akuwona umncintiswano, kodwa kuwubizo. Futhi ukuba nomzali oyedwa akuwona umncintiswano, kodwa ithuba lokukhombisa izingane zakho ukuthi uyazikhathalela." - Shannon Adler

4. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa kumayelana nokwamukela omunye umuntu njengoba enjalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho bangaphambilini." - Ongaziwa

5. "Into ebaluleke kakhulu ekukhuliseni ngokubambisana ukugcina izidingo zengane zihamba phambili engqondweni yakho futhi ubeke izidingo zakho nemizwa yakho eceleni." - Ongaziwa

6. "Ukukhulisa izingane akuwona umoya, yisiphepho. Kodwa uma uzilungiselele, kungaba isiphepho esihle." - Ongaziwa

7. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa akukhona ukuhlukanisa isikhathi, kumayelana nokwabelana isikhathi futhi ungaphuthelwa nakancane." - Ongaziwa

8. "Izingane zidinga uthando nokunakwa kubazali bobabili. Ukuba nomzali akuhlangene nemizwa yakho, kumayelana nenjabulo yengane yakho." - Ongaziwa

9. "Ukuba nomzali kudinga uzwelo, isineke, nokuqonda. Akulula, kodwa kuyafaneleka ezinganeni." - Ongaziwa

10. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa akuyona inketho, kuwumthwalo. Ingane yakho ifanelwe umzamo wakho omkhulu, noma kunzima." - Ongaziwa

11. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa kuwuhambo, hhayi indawo. Kuthatha isikhathi, umzamo, nokuzinikela ukuze kuphumelele." - Ongaziwa

12. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa akukhona ukuthi uwine noma ulahlekelwe, kodwa udala indawo ezinzile nekhulisa ingane yakho." - Ongaziwa

13. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa kufana nomdanso. Kudingeka nivumelane nomlingani wakho, nikhulumisane ngokucacile, futhi niqhubekele phambili nifinyelele umgomo ofanayo." - Ongaziwa

14. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa akukhona ukuthi ubani olungile noma ongalungile, kumayelana nokuthola izinto enivumelana ngazo ukuze kusizakale ingane yakho." - Ongaziwa

15. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa akulula, kodwa kuyafaneleka. Ingane yakho ifanelwe uthando, ukusekelwa, nokuqondiswa yibo bobabili abazali." - Ongaziwa

16. "Ukukhulisa izingane akuwona umncintiswano, ukubambisana. Impumelelo yengane yakho iyona mgomo omkhulu." - Ongaziwa

17. "Ukuba nomzali akusho ukuthi uyavumelana ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa kumayelana nokuhlonipha nokubeka ingane yakho kuqala." - Ongaziwa

18. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa akusona isixazululo esilinganayo. Kumayelana nokuthola lokho okusebenza kangcono emndenini wakho kanye nezidingo zengane yakho." - Ongaziwa

19. "Ukuba nomzali oyedwa akukhona ukuphelela, kumayelana nenqubekela phambili. Yonke imizamo oyenzayo, noma ngabe incane kangakanani, iyisinyathelo esiqonde ngqo." - Ongaziwa

20. "Ukubambisana nomzali akulona nje izwi, kodwa ukuzibophezela. Ukuzinikela enjabulweni yengane yakho, inhlalakahle, nekusasa." - Ongaziwa