Njengabazali, sonke sifuna ukuba izingane zethu ziphumelele ekuphileni.
Sifuna bajabule, babe nempilo enhle futhi baneliseke. Kodwa singawamisa kanjani ukuze aphumelele? Yini esingayenza njengabazali ukuze sibanike ithuba elihle ngekusasa eliqhakazile?
Kulesi sihloko, sizohlola amanye amathiphu angcono kakhulu wokusetha izingane zakho ukuze ziphumelele. Kusukela ekubalulekeni kwemfundo yengane encane kuya enanini lokuzibekela imigomo, lawa macebiso azokusiza ukuthi wakhe indawo enhle ukuze ingane yakho ikhule kahle.
Imfundo Yezingane Esencane
Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ongayenza ukuze uhlelele ingane yakho impumelelo ukuyinikeza isisekelo esiqinile semfundo. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi imfundo yengane ingaba nomthelela omkhulu empumelelweni yekusasa yengane.
Kusukela ekuzalweni kuya eminyakeni emihlanu, ubuchopho bezingane bukhula ngokushesha. Ngalesi sikhathi, bakha isisekelo sokufunda impilo yonke. Ngokubanikeza imfundo yezinga eliphezulu, ungasiza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi banamakhono abawadingayo ukuze baphumelele esikoleni nangale kwalokho.
Ukubeka Imigomo
Enye indlela ebalulekile yokubekela ingane yakho impumelelo iwukubafundisa ukubaluleka kokuzibekela imigomo. Ngokuzibekela imigomo, ingane yakho ingathuthukisa isiyalo kanye nogqozi oludingayo ukuze ifeze amaphupho ayo.
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi izibekele imigomo yesikhathi esifushane neyesikhathi eside. Basize benze uhlelo lokufeza le migomo futhi babungaze ukuqhubeka kwabo endleleni.
Ukwakha Ukuqina
Impilo igcwele ukukhuphuka nokwehla, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zifunde ukusingatha kokubili impumelelo nokwehluleka. Ngokwakha ukuqina, ungasiza ingane yakho ukuba ibuye ezinkingeni nezinselele.
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ifake engozini futhi izame izinto ezintsha, ngisho noma ingase yehluleke. Bafundise ukubaluleka kokuphikelela kanye nokubaluleka kokufunda emaphutheni abo.
Ukukhulisa Ubuciko
Ezweni lanamuhla elishintsha ngokushesha, ukusungula kubaluleke kakhulu kunangaphambili. Ngokukhulisa ubuhlakani bengane yakho, ungabasiza bathuthukise amakhono okucabanga amasha ewadingayo ukuze aphumelele.
Nikeza ingane yakho ngamathuba okuveza izinto ngobuciko, njengomculo, ubuciko, nokubhala. Bakhuthaze ukuthi bahlole izinto abazithandayo nezinto abazithandayo, futhi babungaze amathalente abo ahlukile namakhono abo.
Ukulungiselela ingane yakho impumelelo kudinga inhlanganisela yokukhuliswa, isiqondiso, nokusekelwa.
Ngokunikeza ingane yakho isisekelo esiqinile semfundo, ukuyifundisa ukubaluleka kokuzibekela imigomo, ukwakha ukuqina, nokuthuthukisa ubuhlakani bayo bokusungula, ungayisiza ifinyelele amakhono ayo aphelele.
Njengabazali, sinomthelela omkhulu ezimpilweni zezingane zethu. Ngokulandela lawa macebiso, ungasiza ukusetha ingane yakho ukuze iphumelele futhi uyinikeze amathuluzi ewadingayo ukuze iphumelele emhlabeni oshintsha ngokushesha.
