Amagama athi "Nginomona" anele ukwenza abazali abaningi bazizwe bekhandlwa. Noma ngabe kuwukusikisela umdlalo, ukunikeza ithebhulethi, ukuhlela umsebenzi noma ukuthola okuthile abangakubuka, abaningi bethu sesijwayele ukukholwa ukuthi isithukuthezi yinkinga edinga isixazululo esisheshayo.
Ukuba umzali wanamuhla kuvamise ukuza nengcindezi yokugcina izingane zimatasa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Phakathi kwesikole, ezemidlalo, izikhathi zokudlala, imisebenzi yokuthuthukisa ubuchopho nobuchwepheshe, izingane zifinyelela ezokuzijabulisa ezingaphezu kwanoma yisiphi isizukulwane esandulele zona. Nokho, naphezu kwawo wonke la mathuba, isithukuthezi sisekhona.
Iqiniso liwukuthi isithukuthezi akuyona into abazali okufanele bayesabe. Eqinisweni, singabamba iqhaza elibalulekile ekusizeni izingane ukuba zakhe ubuhlakani, ukuzimela kanye namakhono abalulekile empilo azo azowasebenzisa kahle kukho konke ukuphila kwazo.
Kungani Isithukuthezi Sithole Idumela Elibi
Abantu abadala abaningi bahlobanisa isithukuthezi nokuvilapha, ukuchitha isikhathi noma ukungajabuli. Njengabazali, ngokwemvelo sifuna izingane zethu zizizwe zibandakanyekile futhi zikhuthazekile. Lapho ingane ithi inomona, kungase kuzwakale njengophawu lokuthi kufanele senze okwengeziwe.
Nokho, isithukuthezi akukona ukungabi bikho kokufunda. Ngokuvamile kuba yisiqalo sakho. Lapho izingane zingashiywa ngaphandle komsebenzi ohlelekile noma ukuzijabulisa okusheshayo, ubuchopho bazo buqala ukufuna izindlela zokugcwalisa leli gaba. Le nqubo ikhuthaza umcabango, ilukuluku lokwazi nokucabanga ngendlela yokwakha. Lokho okuzwakala kungakhululekile ekuqaleni kungaba yinhlansi yokuthile okunengqondo.
Isithukuthezi Sikhuthaza Ukudala
Cabanga emuva ebuntwaneni bakho. Eminye yemidlalo nezinto ezijabulisayo ezikhumbulekayo cishe zaqala lapho kungekho okuhleliwe. Ingubo yaba indawo yokucasha eyimfihlo. Ibhokisi lekhadibhodi laguqulwa laba imoto yomjaho. Insimu yaba ihlathi elilindele ukuhlolwa.
Izingane ngokwemvelo zisebenzisa umcabango wazo lapho zinikezwa ithuba. Lapho wonke umzuzu uhleliwe noma wonke umzuzu othulile ugcwele isikrini, kuncane kakhulu ithuba lokuba kuvele ukucabanga okudala.
Isithukuthezi sicindezela izingane ukuba zisungule, zicabange futhi zakhe. Lawa makhono abalulekile hhayi nje ebuntwaneni kodwa futhi nasekuhambeni kwesikhathi empilweni lapho ukuqamba izinto ezintsha nokuxazulula izinkinga ngokudala kubaluleka kakhulu.
Izingane Zifunda Ukuzijabulisa Zona
Esinye sezipho ezinkulu abazali abanganikeza izingane zabo ikhono lokuzijabulela inkampani yazo. Lapho izingane zifunda ukuzijabulisa zona, ziba zimbalwa ezincike kubantu abadala ukuze zikhuthazeke njalo. Ziqala ukuhlola izinto ezizithandayo, zakhe imidlalo futhi zithole imisebenzi ezijabulela ngempela.
Lokhu kuzimela kwakha ukuzethemba nokuzithemba. Izingane zifunda ukuthi ziyakwazi ukuthola izixazululo lapho zinesikhathi samahhala esikhundleni sokulindela omunye umuntu ukuba anikeze ukuzijabulisa.
Isithukuthezi Sisiza Ukuthuthukisa Amakhono Okuxazulula Izinkinga
Lapho izingane zingenaso isikhathi somsebenzi osheshayo, zibhekana nenselele. TInselele ilula: yini okufanele ngiyenze manje?
Nakuba kungase kubonakale kungabalulekile, ukuthola izimpendulo kulo mbuzo kudinga ukwenza izinqumo, ukucabanga okunzulu nokuxazulula izinkinga. Izingane ziqala ukuhlola izinketho zazo, zicabange ngamathuba futhi zenze izinqumo mayelana nokuthi zifuna ukusichitha kanjani isikhathi sazo.
Lezi zinqumo ezincane zisiza ekuqiniseni amakhono azobasiza esikoleni, ebudlelwaneni nasemisebenzini yesikhathi esizayo.
Kwakha Ukubekezela
Akukona konke okusempilweni okujabulisayo noma okuhlekisayo. Ukufunda ukubhekana nezikhathi zesithukuthezi ikhono elibalulekile empilweni.
Izingane ezijwayele ukuhlale zimatasa zingase zikhandleke lapho zibhekana nokulinda, isikhathi sokuphumula noma izimo ezingazijabulisi kakhulu. Ukuhlangabezana nesithukuthezi kufundisa ukubekezela futhi kusiza izingane zikhululeke kakhudlwana ngesimo sokuthula.
Zifunda ukuthi imizwa engakhululekile akudingeki igwenywe ngokushesha nokuthi zingakwazi ukuyinqoba ngempumelelo. Leli khono lokubekezelela ukungakhululeki libamba iqhaza ekuqineni ngokomzwelo nasemkhubeni wokujwayela.
Isikhathi Samahhala Sisekela Ukuthuthukiswa Kokomzwelo
Izingane zivamise ukusebenzisa isikhathi esingahleliwe ukuze zicubungule okuhlangenwe nakho, imizwa nemicabango. Phakathi kokudlala okuzimele, ukufantasy noma izikhathi zokuthula, izingane zingase zicabange ngezinto ezenzeka muva nje, zicabange ngezimo ezihlukene noma zibhekane nemizwa ezingakayiqondi ngokugcwele.
Le ndawo yengqondo ibalulekile ekukhuleni ngokomzwelo. Njengoba nje abantu abadala ngezinye izikhathi bedinga isikhathi sokucabanga nokuzindla, izingane ziyazuza emathubeni okwehlisa ijubane futhi ziqonde umhlaba wazo.
Ukuxhumana Phakathi Kwesithukuthezi Nokuzethemba
Lapho izingane zakha ngempumelelo ubumnandi bazo, zithuthukisa umuzwa wempumelelo. Zithola ukuthi azidingi omunye umuntu ukuba azixazululele zonke izinkinga noma ahlele wonke umsebenzi. Ziqala ukuthemba imicabango namakhono azo.
Lokhu kuzethemba kuyakhula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ingane efunda ukubhekana nesithukuthezi iba nesifiso esikhulu sokuhlola izinto ezintsha, ukuthatha isinyathelo futhi ibhekane nezinselele ngendlela enhle.
Abazali Bangaphendula Kanjani Lapho Izingane Zithi Zinomona
Ngokuzayo lapho ingane yakho imemezela ukuthi inomona, zama ukuzibamba ukunikeza isixazululo ngokushesha. Esikhundleni salokho, cabanga ukuphendula ngelukuluku.
Buza imibuzo efana nale:
- Yini ongathanda ukuyenza?
- Ingabe kukhona okuthile obukufuna ukukudala?
- Yini ezwakala ijabulisa kuwe manje?
Lezi zicelo zikhuthaza izingane ukuba zicabangele zona esikhundleni sokuncika kubantu abadala ukuba ziqondise isikhathi sazo.
Kuyasiza futhi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zifinyelela emisebenzini evulekile efana namabhulokhi okwakha, izinto zobuciko, izincwadi, izingubo zokuzilungisa noma imishini yokudlala yangaphandle. Lezi zinsizakusebenza zikhuthaza ubuhlakani ngaphandle kokudinga ukugadwa njalo.
Ukuthola Ukulingana Okunempilo
Impela, isithukuthezi akusho ukuthi izingane kufanele zishiywe ngaphandle kokusekelwa noma amathuba okuthuthukiswa. Imisebenzi, ezemidlalo, uhambo lomndeni nezinto zokufunda konke kudlala indima ebalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ubuntwana.
Umgomo uwukulinganisela. Izingane zidinga okuhlangenwe nakho okuhleliwe, kodwa futhi zidinga nesikhathi esingahleliwe lapho zingahlola khona izinto ezizithandayo nemicabango yazo.
Ngokuvumela izikhathi zesithukuthezi zibe khona, abazali bakha indawo yomcabango, ukuzimela nokukhula komuntu siqu.
Ngezinye Izikhathi Okuncane Kuyinto Ebaluleke Kakhulu
Emhlabeni ogcwele izaziso, izikrini nezinhlelo ezimatasa, isithukuthezi siba yinto engavamile. Kodwa sihlala singesinye sezinsiza ezinamandla kakhulu zokukhuthaza ubuhlakani nokuzithola.
Ngokuzayo lapho ingane yakho ikhalaza ukuthi ayinalutho lokuyenza, buyela emuva ngaphambi kokugijimela ukuvala ukuthula. Lokho okubonakala njengesithukuthezi ngaphandle kungaba yisiqalo somcabango omusha, uhambo oludala noma ithuba lokufunda elibalulekile.
Ngezinye izikhathi izikhathi ezibaluleke kakhulu ebuntwaneni ziqala ngamagama alula, "Nginomona."
