Lombuzo ungifikisela izinyembezi. Izingane zingase zibathukuthelele noma zibathukuthelele abazali bazo, futhi ngokuvamile zingase zivivinye imingcele—kodwa azibazondi abazali bazo. Lo mbuzo uvame ukuvela lapho omama noma obaba sebephelelwe amakhono abo okubhekana nesimo, ngokuvamile ngenxa yokucindezeleka noma ukucindezeleka.
Ezinye izikhathi zokukhula kwengane evamile zizama kabi. Izingane eziningi ezisanda kuzalwa zihlushwa i-colic phakathi nezinyanga ezintathu zokuqala zokuphila, lapho zikhala amahora amaningi futhi azikwazi ukududuzwa. Izingane ezisacathula emhlabeni wonke zidlula esigabeni lapho zishaya khona, zikhahlela, noma zilume lapho zithukuthele. Izingane ezikule minyaka azikwazi ukuthi abanye abantu bangezwa ubuhlungu, ngakho-ke zidinga nje ukususwa esimweni kuze kube yilapho sezikwazi ukuzola. Izingane ezineminyaka emibili ziyaziwa ngokufuna izinto ngenkani, kodwa ezineminyaka emithathu ubudala zingaba njalo nakakhulu—futhi zikwazi ukuveza izimfuno zazo. Yiqiniso, intsha ingase ithukuthele futhi ithukuthele kangangokuthi iwumbono nje.
Uma uzithola uthayipha lo mbuzo kubha yokusesha, sicela uthole usizo. Udokotela wezingane noma uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo angasiza ekutholeni ukuthi kwenzakalani. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngaleso sikhathi—futhi noma yini ingane yakho engase ikuthethise yona—izingane zakho azikwazi ukukuzonda.
