USoraya Sutherlin, umphathi wezimo eziphuthumayo oqinisekisiwe oneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-13 yesipiliyoni esiza imiphakathi yonke ukuthi izilungiselele kangcono izimo eziphuthumayo, uye weluleka abazali ezifundisa izingane zabo izingane izifundo ezimbili ezibalulekile zizobasiza uma beduka, futhi bangaphinde bahlanganise abo umndeni ngokushesha okukhulu.
1. Fundisa izingane zakho ukuthola izimpawu zendawo eziseduze
“Ukuqwashisa ngezimo kuyikhono lempilo yakho yonke ongaqala ukulifundisa beseyizingane ku-stroller,” kusho uSutherlin.
Uma uhamba ngezinyawo zomndeni noma uhamba ngezinyawo, khomba noma yiziphi izihlahla ezikhumbulekayo, izimpawu, nezindawo zezindawo ezifana nezikole, izitolo nezifanekiso. NgokukaSutherland, lokhu kukhuthaza izingane ukuba zenze umzamo wokubheka “phezulu nazungeza”, ngaleyo ndlela zikhuthaze ukuxhumana futhi kwehle namathuba okuthi izingane zingase zilahleke.
"Uma ingane yakho ike yahlukana nawe futhi isencane kakhulu ukuthi ingakwazi ukwazi ikheli layo lomgwaqo, ingase ithi, 'Ngihlala emabhulokhi amane ukusuka esiteshini sezicishamlilo,' noma, 'Ngihlala emabhuloki amabili kude nendlu enkulu, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ene- ifulegi elibomvu.'" kusho yena. "Lezo kungaba yizinkomba ezingakusiza ukukuhlanganisa nengane yakho."
2. Fundisa izingane zakho ukuthola umzali
Njengezimpawu zendawo, iSutherland ikhuthaza abazali ukuba bafundise izingane zabo indlela yokubona abasizi namalungu omphakathi athenjwayo.
Esikhundleni sokweluleka izingane ukuba zingalokothi zikhulume nabantu ezingabazi, abazali bangasiza izingane zabo ukuba zibone usizo ngokuzifundisa “ukuthola umama onezingane” noma ukubona inqola eseduze.
"Nakanjani, ngihlale ngithi, 'Thola umama noma iqembu lomama abanezingane," kusho yena. "Kukhona ukuchezuka kulokho okusekelwe kulokho okwenzekayo emhlabeni, kodwa ngokujwayelekile kuwumthetho omuhle wesithupha."
UMTHOMBO: Umzali24
