Isizathu sokuqala: Ujwayelekile. Njengoba amaphesenti angu-15 ezingane asamanzisa umbhede wawo lapho eneminyaka engu-6 ubudala, odokotela bezingane abavamile ukubhekana nokuchama ngaphambi kwale minyaka. Izingane ezingakaze zibe nezinyanga eziyisithupha zobusuku obomile ngokuvamile zivele zilele kakhulu ezingavuki lapho isinye sigcwele. Bangase futhi benze umchamo omningi kunokuvamile ebusuku noma babe nesinye esincanyana kunesilinganiso esimaphakathi. Izakhi zofuzo zidlala indima enkulu: Izingane ezinabazali abamanzisa umbhede ngemva kweminyaka engu-6 kungenzeka zime cishe eminyakeni efanayo nabazali bazo.
Ezinye izici, ezihlanganisa ukuqunjelwa nokuphelelwa umoya lapho ulele, kungabangela noma kube kubi nakakhulu ukuchama embhedeni. Uma ingane yakho isiqala ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngokuzimela, ungase ungaboni ukuthi ivinjiwe, ngakho-ke mbuze. Ebusuku, lalela imisindo yokuhona noma yokuhefuzela. Ukucindezeleka kungase kube nendima futhi: Ukungezwani komndeni, ubuxhwanguxhwangu, noma ukucindezeleka ngokwezimali konke kungaba nomthelela. Futhi uma ingane yakho isiqalile ukumanzisa umbhede ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha noma ngaphezulu zobusuku obomile, noma uma nayo iba nezingozi zasemini, khuluma nodokotela wakho wezingane. Lezi zinkinga zingaba izimpawu zenkinga yezokwelapha, njengokutheleleka ngomgudu womchamo noma ngisho nesifo sikashukela.
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