NGU: Claire Haiek
Iningi lomama abakhulelwe lilindele okungokoqobo mayelana nokuthi ukuphila kuyoba njani ngemva kokuba nomntwana, kodwa nazi ezinye izinto ongase ungazilindele.
UTHANDO LUHLALA LUSHESHA. Abanye omama bathanda i-bub yabo entsha ngokushesha, kanti kwabanye kuthatha isikhathi eside. Akukhathalekile ukuthi ungomunye wabangaphambili noma bakamuva, inqobo nje uma wonke umuntu ejabule futhi enempilo.
UMUZI WAKHO NGEKE UPHINDE UFANE. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyinhlakanipho ehlanzekile noma ujwayele ukujabula ukuhlala kusofa eduze kwe-Mount Washmore, into eyodwa eqinisekile. Ikhaya lakho NGEKE liphinde lifane. Kusukela kumanabukeni nasekusuleni kuye emsebenzini wesikole wesikole kanye naku-LEGO, impilo yakho isibheke phansi ngokusemthethweni. Futhi kuwufanele SO.
AMANYAKAZI, AMANYAKAZI, AMANABAKAZI! Noma ngabe yini oyilindele enanini lamanabukeni ozowadinga, PHINDA KAPHINDE. Izingane zinemisebenzi emithathu: idla, indle kanye nokulala. Thola uhlobo oluthembekile lwenabukeni futhi uzigcine lapho usezingeni elikhethekile!
UZOSHO IZINTO ONGAWUZILINDELE. Imishwana efana nokuthi "Ungalithinti lelo poo!" futhi "Ivelaphi le sultana?" kuzoba yinjwayelo. Lindela okungalindelekile!
IZELULEKO NEMIBONO EFIKISAYO. Into eyodwa abazali abaningi abasha abamangala ngayo inani elikhulu lemibono ehlukahlukene kuzo zonke izindaba eziphathelene nokukhulisa izingane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kumayelana nokulala ndawonye, indlela oyondla ngayo ingane yakho noma indlela osichitha ngayo isikhathi sakho ungenayo ingane, zilungiselele uchungechunge lwemibono eminingi kanye nabantu abazimisele ukuwazwakalisa. Akukubi konke kodwa inqobo nje uma ufunda ukumunca kuphela lokho okukusebenzelayo futhi ngomusa ungakunaki okunye.
IMIZWELO ENGAPHEZULU INGXESHA EYODWA INGAPHEZULU. Akukhathalekile ukuthi ulindele ukuthi uzoyithanda kangakanani ingane yakho, ukushuba kwemizwa yakho kuzokuqeda futhi ngokushesha uzobona ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukuthanda esinye isidalwa njengoba uthanda ingane yakho.
UBISI LUPHUMA EZIMBENI EMININGI EMINCANE. Uma ucabanga ukuncelisa ibele okokuqala, omama abaningi abakhulelwe babona ubisi luphuma ngomfudlana owodwa. Kungamangaza ukuyibona ifafaza njengekhanda leshawa futhi kuyamangalisa kakhulu!
IMIPHUMELA NGEMVA KOKUZALWA. Yebo, kukhona okulindelekile mayelana noketshezi lomzimba ngemva kokubeletha, kodwa abanye besifazane babika ukuthi bebengalungiselelwe ukuthi ukopha kwangemuva kokubeletha (Lochia) kungaqhubeka isikhathi esingakanani. Izinhlungu zangemva kokubeletha nazo akuvamile ukuxoxwa ngazo, okushiya abesifazane bemangele indlela umzimba wabo osabela ngayo lapho umntwana esegone.
AMAHORMONE OMAMA. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ulungiselela kahle kangakanani ukukhuphuka kwama-hormone ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana, angakuwisa ngempela. Abesifazane abaningi babika ukuthi bachitha usuku lonke bekhala lutho nhlobo. Lawo ma-hormone ayingozi akufanele athathwe kancane.
IZINGANE ZINOMZWA WESITHUPHA. Uke waqaphela yini ukuthi ingane yakho ivuka njengoba nje uhlala phansi ukuze uthole inkomishi yetiye? Noma bedlala phansi bejabule kodwa owesibili uhlezi endlini yangasese bakhala ngokunakwa? Lokho kungenxa yokuthi izingane zinomuzwa wesithupha walezi zinto. Kuyinhlanhla ukuthi bahle kakhulu!
KWANDISA Uzwelo NEMIZWA. Uyakhumbula mhla wawubuka izindaba ungakhali? Ukuba ngumama kukhulisa ikhono lakho lokuhlobana nezindaba futhi kukhulisa ukusabela kwakho ngokomzwelo. Kusenjalo ukhala ngengane egulayo kumabonakude noma uzikhalela uze ulale lapho ufunda ngengozi eyingozi yemoto ebandakanya izingane. Ukuba nezingane kunikeza leyo mizwa umsebenzi omkhulu ngempela.
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