Uma uzizwa usuzodlala i-ballistic enganeni yakho, nazi izinto ezingu-10 ongazizama esikhundleni salokho.
1. Zinike isikhathi sokuphumula
Phuma ekamelweni bese uqonda kwelinokhiye (vikela ingane yakho nge- umbhede noma indawo yokudlala enesango uma incane). Uthola isikhashana sokukhululeka, futhi ukushaqeka kwengane ngokunyamalala kwakho kungase kwanele ukumisa ukuziphatha. Thatha imizuzu emihlanu ukulalela ingoma, vala izindlebe zakho noma uphinde uphinde uthi “izingane ziyizipho eziyigugu” ngokuphindaphindiwe.
2. Yenza i-reel evelele
Kweyakho isikhathi sokuphumula , cabanga ngesikhathi esimnandi nengane ngayinye. Kamuva, lapho ususebenza, susa leyo nkumbulo ejabulisayo eshalofini futhi ugxile kuyo njengoba ukuphila kwakho kuncike kuyo.
3. Kwenze ngawe
Siyazi ukuthi yibo, hhayi wena! Kodwa ngokuzikhawulela kuzitatimende ezithi “Mina” (ngikhungathekile; ngiphatheke kabi njengamanje), ugxila kulokho ongakwazi ukukulawula esikhundleni sokunqwabelanisa ukugxeka.
4. Yenza umgunyathi uze wenze
Ungase ungakwazi ukudambisa imizwa yakho, kodwa ungenza sengathi ngenye indlela. Sebenzisa izwi elithambile, elilulazayo (amaphuzu ebhonasi okukhohlisa ukumamatheka okuhle) uze uzizwe uzolile.
5. Banikele
Kuncike ekutheni nobabili anizolahlekelwa i-sh*t yenu, sekuyisikhathi sokuncika kumlingani wakho futhi nishaye umoya ezinganeni. Uzobuyisela umusa ngoba kuyohlala kukhona isikhathi esilandelayo.
6. Phenduka ube umlingisi
Isiteshi se-Opera Man noma ungene ku-Valley Girl yakho ehamba phambili, ngisho noma kuyinto yokugcina ongathanda ukuyenza. Ubuwula bunendlela yokudambisa ngisho nezimo ezicasula kakhulu.
7. Buza imibuzo
Wabatshela: “Ucabanga ukuthi kungani uBaba ethukuthele kangaka manje?” Ngaleyo ndlela basesha ukuziphatha kwabo esikhundleni sokuzama nje ukuthola into ezokugcina ungaqhumisi.
8. Khalisa i-alamu
Uzophephetha! Yazisa izingane zakho ukuthi ususondele onqenqemeni futhi usuzoqala ukumemeza. Uma zingakheki. Hheyi baxwayiswa.
9. Ishaye ihlombe
Uma uthukuthele futhi uyazi, shaya izandla zakho? Ukukhululwa ngokomzimba kokushaya izandla zakho ndawonye (kanzima, uma udinga) kungasiza ukukhipha intukuthelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungcono kunokubhaklaza isicabha.
10. I-Crowdsource
KULUNGILE ukuthi izingane zibone ukuthi abazali abanazo zonke izimpendulo. Babeke kanje: “Ngiphatheke kabi ngoba awukakalungeli ukuya enkulisa. Kufanele senzeni?” Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi banombono omuhle noma cha, bazozizwa benamandla kunalapho ubelesela.
Umthombo: http://www.todaysparent.com/family/parenting/10-ways-not-lose-your-sht-when-your-kids-misbehave/
