Ucwaningo lwakamuva luveze lokho ukunikeza ingane yakho izinto eziningi kakhulu engadlala ngazo kungase kubangele okuphambene nomphumela ofisayo - empeleni bangase bangajabuli kangako.
Umcwaningi wokuthuthukiswa kwezingane, uClair Lerner, uphakamisa ukuthi lapho izingane zishawa ngamathoyizi nemidlalo, ziqala ukudlala kancane. Inqwaba yamathoyizi ingasibekela futhi iphazamise izingane, izenze zilahlekelwe ukugxilisa ingqondo okudingekayo ukuze zifunde kulawa mathoyizi.
Okutholwe nguLerner kufanekiswe nguMichael Malone, uprofesa Wemfundo Yabantwana Abancane eNyuvesi yaseCincinnati.
Ucwaningo lukaMalone lubonise ukuthi amathoyizi ambalwa kodwa angcono aholela ekubambisaneni okwandisiwe kanye nokwabelana uma kuziwa emakhonweni okuphila abalulekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amathoyizi amaningi kakhulu acindezela izingane ekudlaleni zodwa kuyilapho ebangela uhlobo oluthile lokugcwala okungakhiqizi.
Pho singafundani kulokhu? Asikho isidingo sokugcizelela ukuthi ubathengele yonke into ohlwini lwabo lwezifiso lukaKhisimusi. Ukuchitha isikhathi nezingane zakho kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ocwaningweni lwase-Oxford University lwezingane ezineminyaka engu-3000 kuya kwemi-5 ubudala, kwatholakala ukuthi ukuphumelela kwezingane ezifundweni kwakuhlobene kakhulu nesimo sasekhaya kanye nokubandakanyeka kwabazali kumathoyizi nezinto zikagesi ezinikezwa zona. Izingane ezazinamathoyizi ambalwa futhi zingenazo izinto zikagesi, kodwa ezazinabazali abachitha isikhathi esiningi nazo, zenze kangcono esikoleni nasezicini eziningi zokuthuthuka ngokomzwelo nezenhlalo, okubonisa ukuthi ukunaka kwabazali kungcono kakhulu kunanoma yisiphi isikrini noma imali yokudlala. thenga.
Futhi uma udinga esinye isizathu sokunciphisa ukugeleza kokupha kwamathoyizi, abacwaningi bathole ukuthi ukubonga nokupha kuyakhuphuka lapho kunikezwa okuhlangenwe nakho esikhundleni sezinto ezibonakalayo.
Uprofesa wezengqondo waseCornel University, uThomas Gilovich uhola izifundo eziningi ezithatha amashumi eminyaka futhi wathola ukuthi injabulo itholakala kokuhlangenwe nakho, hhayi izinto ezibonakalayo.
Ukukusonga konke: Injabulo etholakala kokuhlangenwe nakho kwasebuntwaneni iyigugu kakhulu futhi iyigugu ukwedlula injabulo edlulayo yamathoyizi ngaphansi kwesihlahla sikaKhisimusi. Ukunikeza okuhlangenwe nakho okuhilela isikhathi esichithwa njengomkhaya kunokunikeza amathoyizi kuletha injabulo nenjabulo enkulu kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, bazali abathandekayo, ningakhathazeki ngezipho futhi nigxile ekwenzeni izinkumbulo.
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