Ngaphakathi kwefilimu yezithombe ezifinyeziwe ze-Paramount ethi “Yours, Mine & Ours,” umfelwa onezingane ezingu-8 ugijimela isinqandamathe sakhe sasekolishi eliphezulu, umfelokazi onezingu-10 zakhe. Aba-2 bakhanyisa kabusha uthando lwabo futhi bashade ngaphandle kokuvumela izingane zabo zingene emishadweni kuze kube sekupheleni. Kuba nokungqubuzana kwendlela yokuphila, futhi ngokushesha izingane zenza isu lokubhidliza umshado.
Nakuba i-“Yours, Mine & Ours” ingumdlalo wamahlaya, ithinta inqwaba yezinkinga zokuphila zangempela ezibhekene nosingamzali nezingane. Ukuhlanganisa imindeni akuvamile ukuba lula; cishe amaphesenti angamashumi ayisithupha nanhlanu okuphinde ashade ahilela intsha evela emshadweni owandulelayo, futhi amaphesenti angu-60 okuphinde ashade aphumela esehlukaniso, ngokuhambisana nolwazi lwe-US Census Bureau.
Abazali banamandla okuqinisekisa ukuthi izingane ziyaqaphela ukuthi zibalulekile futhi ziyathandwa futhi ziyafiswa - ngabo bobabili umama nobaba kanye nezingane zakubo ezintsha. Ukwenza bonke abantu abasha bazizwe befakiwe kuzosiza ukukhuthaza inguquko ehlanzekile. Ochwepheshe babazali banikeza izincomo ezilandelayo:
Yiba ovumelana nezimo.
Imindeni inezindlela ezihlukile zokwenza izinto, futhi umndeni wakho osanda kuhlanganiswa uzofuna ukwenza ukuvumelana okuningi - kusukela ekukhetheni imisebenzi yomndeni kuya ekumiseni izikhathi zokulala. Thambekele ekuyekeleni imikhuba ethile yakudala.
Setha imihlahlandlela emisha eyisisekelo.
Khuluma ngesitayela sakho somzali nozakwenu omusha bese uveza indlela yokukhulisa izingane engase ifaneleke kakhulu emndenini wakho omusha.
Vula izinhlobo zokushintshisana ngamazwi.
Faka izingane ezinqumweni zomndeni. Gxila kulokho abakushoyo futhi ukuthathele phezulu okubakhathazayo.
Ufuna izindlela ezintsha zokuhlangana njengomndeni wakho.
Yiba nomhlangano mayelana nalokho abanikeli bomndeni wabo abangathanda ukukwenza njalo. Imibono evelayo ingase ikumangaze.
Gcina umuzwa wakho wamahlaya.
Ukuhlanganiswa kwemindeni kuyinto engathi sína futhi, ngezikhathi ezithile, ikhumbula kahle, kodwa kuvumela ukukhombisa ohlangothini olulula lwendaba. Izingane eziningi ezisencane zingase zihlobane nemigilingwane nemizwa edlalwa kwethi “Okwakho, Okwami Nokwethu.” Uma izinto zingahambi kahle ekuqaleni, thinteka muntu. Ngobuningi bothando, ukuqondisa nokuqaphela, umndeni wakho omusha uzoqina ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. – NU
