Uma kuziwa ekukhuliseni izingane, ayikho indlela elingana yonke into. Yonke ingane ihlukile ngakho-ke izodinga izinga elihlukile lokuzibandakanya kubazali bayo. Nokho, ngokuvamile kutuswa ukuba abazali bahlanganyele ngenkuthalo nezingane zabo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Esinye isizathu salokhu ukuthi ukuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo nengane yakho kungasiza ekukhuthazeni ubuhlobo obuqinile, obunempilo phakathi kwenu nobabili. Lokhu kungase kubaluleke kakhulu phakathi neminyaka yokuqala yokuphila kwengane, njengoba kulapho kwakheka isisekelo sokukhula kwayo kwezenhlalo nangokomzwelo. Ngokuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo nengane yakho, ungasiza ekusekeleni lokhu kuthuthukiswa futhi udale isibopho esiqinile esizohlala ukuphila kwakho konke.
Esinye isizathu sokuzibandakanya ngentshiseko nengane yakho ukuthi kungasiza ukukhuthaza ukukhula kwayo kwengqondo. Izingane zifunda kangcono ngokuzibambela mathupha, ngemisebenzi yokuhlangenwe nakho, nokuhlanganyela nazo ngenkuthalo kungabanikeza amathuba eziwadingayo okuhlola, ukufunda, nokukhula. Lokhu kungabandakanya imisebenzi efana nokufunda, ukudlala imidlalo, nokuzibandakanya emisebenzini yezandla neminye imisebenzi eyenziwa ngezandla.
Kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukusebenzelana ngenkuthalo nengane yakho akusho ukuthi udinga ukuhlala uzulazula phezu kwayo noma ukulawula kancane konke umnyakazo wayo. Esikhundleni salokho, kumayelana nokudala amathuba okuba bafunde futhi bakhule ngokusebenzisa ukuzizwisa mathupha nokubanikeza ukusekelwa neziqondiso abazidingayo ukuze bazulazule emhlabeni obazungezile.
Ukwengeza, kubalulekile ukuvumela ingane yakho indawo nokuzimela ukuze ihlole futhi ifunde ngokwayo. Lokhu kungasiza ukukhuthaza ukuzimela kwabo namakhono okucabanga okujulile. Kuyibhalansi ethambile, kodwa ngokuzibandakanya nengane yakho ngenkuthalo kuyilapho uyinikeza isikhala esidingayo ukuze ikhule, ungasiza ukusekela ukukhula kwayo kukonke ngendlela enempilo neqondile.
Ngamafuphi, ukuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo nengane yakho kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokukhulisa izingane. Ngokubanikeza ukwesekwa, isiqondiso, kanye namathuba abawadingayo ukuze bafunde futhi bakhule, ungasiza ukuqinisa ubudlelwano obuqinile, obunempilo futhi usekele ukukhula kwabo kukonke.
