Njengabazali, sonke sifuna ukuba izingane zethu zikhule zibe abantu abasesimweni esihle, abajabulayo nabaphumelelayo.
Ezweni lanamuhla elisheshayo, lapho ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka kuvame kakhulu, ukuhlakulela ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo kubaluleke kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Ubuhlakani bomzwelo yikhono lokuqonda nokulawula imizwa yomuntu kanye neyabanye, futhi kuyikhono elibalulekile elingasiza izingane zikwazi ukuzulazula ezinseleleni zempilo ngokuzethemba nangokukhuthazela.
Enye insiza enhle kakhulu engasiza abazali bakhulise ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo kwezingane zabo incwadi ethi " The Colors of my Emotions for Children " ka-4aKid. Le ncwadi enemifanekiso emihle iklanyelwe ukusiza izingane ezincane ukuba zifunde ngemizwa yazo futhi zithuthukise amakhono eziwadingayo ukuze ziveze imizwa yazo ngokuphumelelayo.
Kulesi sihloko, sizohlola indima yabazali ekuthuthukiseni ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo ezinganeni, futhi sabelane ngemininingwane evela kokuthi " Imibala Yemizwa Yami Yezingane " engasiza abazali bakhulise ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo ezinganeni zabo.
Ukuqonda I-Emotional Intelligence
Ubuhlakani bemizwa ngokuvamile buchazwa njengesethi yamakhono ahlanganisa ukuzazi, ukuzilawula, uzwela, namakhono okuxhumana nabantu. Ukuzazi kuhilela ukuqaphela imizwa yomuntu siqu kanye nomthelela wayo kuwe nakwabanye. Ukuzithiba kuhilela ukulawula imizwa nokuziphatha komuntu, ikakhulukazi ezimweni eziyinselele. Uzwela luhlanganisa ukuqonda nokwabelana ngemizwa yabanye, futhi amakhono okuxhumana nabantu ahlanganisa ukuxhumana ngempumelelo nokwakha ubudlelwano.
Ukuthuthukisa Intelligence Engokomzwelo Ezinganeni
Izingane azizalwa zihlakaniphe ngokomzwelo; kuyikhono elidinga ukukhuliswa nokuthuthukiswa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Abazali bangadlala indima ebalulekile ekusizeni izingane zabo ukuba zithuthukise ukukhalipha ngokomzwelo ngokudala indawo ezondlayo nesekelayo kanye nokubonisa ukuziphatha okuhle kwemizwa.
Enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu abazali abangathuthukisa ngayo ukuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo kwezingane zabo iwukubafundisa indlela yokubona nokuveza imizwa yabo. Kulapho " Imibala Yemizwa Yami Yezingane " ingaba usizo khona ngokukhethekile. Le ncwadi isebenzisa abalingiswa abanemibala egqamile ukumelela imizwa eyahlukene, okwenza kube lula ngezingane ukubona nokuqonda imizwa yazo. Ngokufunda le ncwadi ndawonye futhi baxoxe ngemizwa ehlukahlukene, abazali bangasiza izingane zabo ukuba zithuthukise amagama azo ezithinta imizwelo futhi zifunde ukuveza imizwa yazo ngezindlela ezinempilo.
Enye indlela ebalulekile abazali abangathuthukisa ngayo ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo kwezingane zabo iwukumodela ukuziphatha okuhle ngokomzwelo ngokwabo. Lokhu kusho ukuveza imizwa ngendlela enempilo nefanelekile, nokubonisa uzwela nokuqonda kwabanye. Ngokulingisa lokhu kuziphatha, abazali bangafundisa izingane zabo indlela yokulawula imizwa yazo ngokuphumelelayo futhi zithuthukise amakhono aqinile okuxhumana nabantu.
Ukukhuthaza Intelligence Engokomzwelo Ezinganeni
Nakuba abazali bengadlala indima ebalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ukuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo kwezingane zabo, kubalulekile futhi ukukhuthaza izingane ukuba zibe ubunikazi bokuthuthuka kwazo ngokomzwelo. Lokhu kusho ukufundisa izingane indlela yokubona nokulawula imizwa yazo ngokuzimela nokuzikhuthaza ukuthi ziveze imizwa yazo ngokukhululekile nangokwethembeka.
" Imibala Yemizwelo Yami Yezingane " ingaba ithuluzi elihle kakhulu lokukhuthaza izingane ukuba zilawule ukukhula kwazo ngokomzwelo. Ngokunikeza izingane ulimi eziludingayo ukuze zichaze imizwa yazo futhi zizinikeze amasu okulawula imizwa yazo, le ncwadi inganika izingane amandla okulawula inhlalakahle yazo engokomzwelo.
Isiphetho
Ukuthuthukisa ubuhlakani bemizwa kuyikhono elibalulekile elingasiza izingane zikwazi ukubhekana nezinselele zempilo ngokuzethemba nangokukhuthazela. Abazali bangadlala indima ebalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ubuhlakani bemizwelo yezingane zabo ngokudala indawo ezondlayo nesekelayo, ukufundisa izingane zabo indlela yokubona nokuveza imizwelo yazo, ukumodela ukuziphatha okuhle kwemizwelo, nokukhuthaza izingane zabo ukuba zilawule ukukhula kwazo ngokomzwelo.
" Imibala Yemizwelo Yami Yezingane " iwumthombo omuhle kakhulu ongasiza abazali bakhulise ukuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo ezinganeni zabo. Ngokusebenzisa abalingiswa abanemibala egqamile ukuze bamelele imizwelo ehlukahlukene, le ncwadi yenza kube lula ngezingane ukubona nokuqonda imizwa yazo.
