Ingabe ungumama ongayedwana onamaphupho amakhulu kodwa olwela ukuwenza abe ngokoqobo? Awuwedwa. Omama abaningi abangabodwa babhekana nenselele yokuzama ukulinganisela imithwalo yabo yemfanelo nemigomo yabo siqu. Nokho, ukuthatha izinyathelo maqondana namaphupho akho kungenzeka ngomqondo oqondile namasu.
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukucacisa izinhloso zakho bese udala uhlelo lokusebenza. Zinike isikhathi sokuzindla ngalokho ofuna ukukuzuza esikhathini esifushane nangesikhathi eside. Bhala phansi izinhloso zakho futhi uzihlukanise zibe yizinyathelo ezincane, ezilawulekayo. Ukuba nohlelo olucacile kuzokwenza kube lula ukulandelela ukuqhubeka kwakho futhi uhlale ugqugquzelekile.
Okulandelayo, yisikhathi sokuthatha isinyathelo. Khumbula, uhambo oluya ekufinyeleleni izinjongo zakho lungase lungabi lula ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa ukuthatha izinyathelo ezingashintshi kuzokusondeza emphumeleni owufisayo. Qala ngezinyathelo ezincane futhi wakhe umfutho. Bungaza ukuwina kwakho, noma ngabe kuncane kangakanani, futhi uqhubeke uya phambili.
Isici esisodwa esibalulekile sokuguqula amaphupho abe ngokoqobo ukuhlakulela isimo sengqondo esihle nesiqinile. Kulula ukudikibala lapho izinto zingahambi njengoba uhlelile, kodwa zama ukuhlala ugxile embonweni wakho wesikhathi eside. Zijwayeze ukubonga nokuzihawukela, futhi uzungeze nabantu abakwesekayo abakuphakamisayo nabakukhuthazayo.
Elinye isu eliwusizo ukufuna izinsiza namathuluzi angakusiza ohambweni lwakho. Isibonelo, ukufunda izincwadi zokuzithuthukisa kanye nokwenza izifundo ezihlobene nezinjongo zakho kungakunikeza imininingwane ebalulekile nolwazi. Incwadi eyodwa esiyincoma kakhulu komama abangabodwana ithi " Umhlahlandlela Wokusinda Kumama Oyedwa: Ukuchuma Ekuphileni Nasothandweni " ka-4aKid. Lo mhlahlandlela ophelele unikeza izeluleko ezisebenzayo kanye nogqozi lokusiza omama abangabodwa babhekane nezinselele zokuba umzali futhi bafinyelele imigomo yabo siqu.
Sengiphetha, ukuguqula amaphupho abe ngokoqobo kudinga inhlanganisela yengqondo, isu, kanye nesenzo. Cacisa izinjongo zakho, dala uhlelo lokwenza, hlakulela isimo sengqondo esihle, futhi ufune izinsiza namathuluzi angakusiza ohambweni lwakho. Khumbula, ukuthatha izinyathelo eziqhubekayo, noma ngabe kuncane kangakanani, kuzokusondeza ekufezeni amaphupho akho. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthatha ikhophi ethi " The Single Mom's Survival Guide: Ukuchuma Empilweni Nasothandweni " ka-4aKid ukuze uthole isiqondiso esibaluleke nakakhulu nesikhuthazo.
