Njengomzali wengane eneminyaka emithathu ubudala, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlangabezana nokuziphatha okuyinselele okungaba nzima ukukulawula.
Kule minyaka, izingane zikhula futhi zikhula ngokushesha, okungaholela ekuziphatheni okuthile okungaqondakali. Nokho, njengomzali, ungathatha izinyathelo zokulawula ukuziphatha kwengane yakho ngokuphumelelayo. Kulesi sihloko, sizohlinzeka ngamathiphu namasu ukuze abazali babhekane nokuziphatha kwengane yabo eneminyaka emithathu.
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Misa Imithetho Nemingcele Ecacile Izingane ezineminyaka emithathu zifunda ukuhlola imingcele nokuphusha imingcele. Kubalulekile ukumisa imithetho nemingcele ecacile nengane yakho ukuze uyisize iqonde ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha okwamukelekile nokungamukeleki. Qiniseka ukuthi awuguquguquki ekuphoqeleleni le mithetho, futhi uchazele ingane yakho imiphumela yokuyephula.
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Hlala Uzolile Futhi Ulungile Lapho ingane yakho ilingisa, kungase kube lula ukukhungatheka noma ukucasuka. Nokho, kubalulekile ukuhlala uzolile futhi unethemba. Sebenzisa ukuqinisa okuhle ukuze uklomelise ukuziphatha okuhle, futhi uzame ukuqondisa kabusha ukunaka kwengane yakho kokuthile lapho iziphatha kabi. Gwema ukusebenzisa isijeziso noma ukuqinisa okubi, njengoba lokhu kungadala umjikelezo omubi wokuziphatha.
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Nikeza Ingane Yakho Izinqumo Ukunikeza ingane yakho ukukhetha kungase kuyisize izizwe inamandla okulawula futhi kungavimbela ukubanga amandla. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokuthi "Gqoka izicathulo zakho," zama ukuthi "Ingabe uyafuna ukufaka izicathulo zakho ezibomvu noma izicathulo zakho eziluhlaza?" Lokhu kunikeza ingane yakho umuzwa wokulawula futhi kungavimbela impi yezifiso.
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Sebenzisa Ukuphela Kwesikhathi Njengesikhathi Sokuphuma Kwendawo Yendawo Yokugcina kungaba ithuluzi elisebenzayo lokulawula ukuziphatha, kodwa kufanele kusetshenziswe njengendlela yokugcina. Uma usebenzisa isikhathi sokuphuma, qiniseka ukuthi uchazela ingane yakho ukuthi kungani ibekwa ngesikhathi sokuphuma nokuthi izoba isikhathi esingakanani lapho. Sebenzisa ukuphela kwesikhathi ngokuziphatha okuthile, njengokushaya noma ukuluma, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi awuguquguquki ekuphoqeleleni lo mphumela.
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Zijwayeze Ukuba Nesineke Nokuqonda Khumbula ukuthi ingane yakho isafunda futhi ikhula, futhi ukuziphatha kwayo kubonisa ukukhula kwayo. Zama ukuzijwayeza ukubekezela nokuqonda lapho ubhekana nokuziphatha okunzima. Sebenzisa ulimi olwakhayo ukuze ukhuthaze ukuziphatha okuhle, futhi uzame ukuthola izindlela zokuxhumana nengane yakho ezingeni layo.
Sengiphetha, ukubhekana nokuziphatha kwengane eneminyaka emithathu kungaba yinselele, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kuyingxenye evamile yokukhula kwayo. Ngokubeka imithetho nemingcele ecacile, ukuhlala uzolile futhi unethemba, unikeze ukukhetha, ukusebenzisa isikhathi njengesinyathelo sokugcina, nokuzijwayeza ukubekezela nokuqonda, ungakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwengane yakho ngempumelelo futhi uyisize ikhule futhi ikhule ibe abantu abajabulayo nabanempilo.
