Thatha indlela eyakhayo yokuba umzali ekuvikeleni ubuxhwanguxhwangu futhi uvimbele izingane ekubeni iziqhwaga noma izisulu zokuxhashazwa. Nawa amathiphu ambalwa:
- Phatha izingane ngomusa, ukunakekela, nenhlonipho. Izingane eziphathwa kahle zivame ukuphatha kahle ontanga.
- Bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi abanye kufanele baphathwe kanjani. Bonisa indlela yokwamukela umuntu emzini wakho noma umbingelela lapho nihlangana epaki. Siza izingane ziqonde imiphumela yezenzo zazo.
- Ukuqala besebancane, ngaphandle kokusola, veza imiphumela yolaka: "Lapho ushaya u-Ian, kumphatha kabi. Bheka, uyakhala."
