Kuvamile ukuthi abazali bathele izingane zabo ngamathoyizi nemidlalo ukuze bazigcine zijabulile futhi zijabule. Nokho, ukuhlola kwamuva nje kuye kwabonisa ukuthi amathoyizi amaningi kakhulu angaba nomphumela ophambene, ashiye izingane zingajabuli futhi mancane amathuba okuba zithuthukise amakhono abalulekile okuphila. Ngakho, esikhundleni sokugxila ezintweni ezibonakalayo, kungani unganikezi izingane zakho okuhlangenwe nakho okungathuthukisa ukuhlakanipha nenjabulo yazo?
Imiphumela Emibi Yamathoyizi Amaningi Kakhulu
Umcwaningi wokukhuliswa kwezingane uClair Lerner uthole ukuthi inala yamathoyizi ingakhungathekisa futhi iphazamise izingane, kuzenze zidlale kancane futhi zilahlekelwe ukugxilisa ingqondo okudingekayo ukuze zifunde kulawa mathoyizi. Ucwaningo lukaProfesa Wemfundo Yasezinganeni uMichael Malone lubonise ukuthi amathoyizi ambalwa kodwa angcono aholela ekubambisaneni okwandisiwe nokwabelana, kuyilapho amathoyizi amaningi ecindezela izingane ekudlaleni zodwa futhi abangele ukuchichima okungakhiqizi. Ngamafuphi, ukunikeza ingane yakho izinto eziningi zokudlala kungase kubangele okuphambene nomphumela oyifunayo - empeleni ingase ingajabuli kangako.
Ukubaluleka Kokuzibandakanya Kwabazali
Ucwaningo lwase-Oxford University lwezingane ezineminyaka engu-3 kuya kwengu-5 ezineminyaka engu-3000 lwembula ukuthi impumelelo yezingane ezifundweni ixhumene kakhulu nesimo sasekhaya kanye nokuzibandakanya kwabazali kunamathoyizi nezinto zikagesi ezinikezwa zona. Izingane ezazinamathoyizi ambalwa futhi zingenazo izinto zikagesi, kodwa ezazinabazali ababechitha isikhathi esiningi nazo, zenze kangcono esikoleni nasezindaweni eziningi zokuthuthuka ngokomzwelo nezenhlalo. Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi ukunaka kwabazali kungcono kakhulu kunanoma yisiphi isikrini noma imali yokudlala engathengwa.
Umuzwa vs. Izinto ezibonakalayo
Ngokukaprofesa wezengqondo waseCornell University, uThomas Gilovich, injabulo itholakala kokuhlangenwe nakho, hhayi izinto ezibonakalayo. Ucwaningo lwakhe oluthatha amashumi eminyaka lubonise ukuthi ukubonga nokupha kuyakhuphuka lapho kunikezwa okuhlangenwe nakho esikhundleni sezinto ezibonakalayo. Ngamanye amazwi, ukunikeza okuhlangenwe nakho okuhilela isikhathi esichithwa njengomkhaya kunokunikeza amathoyizi kuletha injabulo nenjabulo enkulu kakhulu.
Ukubaluleka Kwezinkumbulo
Ekugcineni, injabulo etholakala kokuhlangenwe nakho kwasebuntwaneni iyigugu kakhulu futhi iyigugu ukwedlula injabulo edlulayo yamathoyizi ngaphansi kwesihlahla sikaKhisimusi. Ukunikeza okuhlangenwe nakho okuhilela isikhathi esichithwa njengomkhaya akugcini nje ngokuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha nenjabulo kodwa futhi kwakha izinkumbulo ezihlala njalo izingane zakho eziyozazisa iminyaka eminingi ezayo. Ngakho-ke, esikhundleni sokugcizelela ngokuthengela ingane yakho yonke into ohlwini lwayo lwezifiso lukaKhisimusi, gxila ekwenzeni izinkumbulo ezizohlala impilo yonke.
