Uma ukuluma kuba yinkinga

Ukuluma kwenzeka uma kwenzeka, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini enye eyenzekayo, izinhlelo zokunakekela izingane zenza umzamo owengeziwe futhi zisebenze kanzima ukubuyisela ukuhleleka nokunakekela zonke izingane. Lokhu okulandelayo kuyiseluleko esiqinile nesingapheli mayelana nokulunywa kwentsha, sithathwe ku-Prime Times: I-Handbook for Excellence in Infant and Toddler Care kaJim Greenman no-Anne Stonehouse.

Kuzo zonke izimo ezilumayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini imbangela, kubalulekile ukuthi abantu abadala babonise ukuphika okukhulu ngamazwi nangendlela. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuluma kudlulela ngale kwesenzakalo esingavamile lapho abazali nabasebenzi besikhungo kufanele basebenzisane ukuze babhekane nokuziphatha.

Ukusabela Enkingeni Elumayo

Lapho izinguquko ezihlabayo zisuka esenzakalweni esingavamile uma kuqhathaniswa nakanye noma kabili ngeviki ziye kwezehlakalo ezivamile nezilindelekile, izisebenzi zasezikhungweni zokunakekela izingane ze-Bright Horizons zisebenzisa izinsiza ezingavamile kulesi simo, okuhlanganisa ukusetshenziswa kwamanye noma wonke amasu alandelayo:

1. Hlanganani nsuku zonke . Izisebenzi ezisegumbini zihlangana nomqondisi noma omunye umqondisi noma abasebenzi abasekelayo nsuku zonke kuyo yonke le nhlekelele ukuze bathole izeluleko nokusekelwa, futhi balondoloze umbono ongenalo icala eliqondiswe ezinganeni, kubazali, noma kubasebenzi.

2. Bhala yonke into oyilumayo noma uzama ukuyiluma. Shadi zonke izehlakalo, okuhlanganisa ukuzama ukulunywa, futhi ubonise indawo, isikhathi, ababambiqhaza, abasebenzi abakhona, nezimo.

3. Linganisa impendulo yabasebenzi. Linganisa impendulo yabasebenzi ngokushesha esimweni ngasinye sokuluma ukuze kungenelele okufanelekile okuqinisekisa ukuthi:

ukududuza ingane elimele kanye nokwelapha ukulimala
impendulo epholile, eqinile, ephikisayo elumayo enganikezi ukuqinisa okulumayo

Bheka amaphethini okuluma. Hlaziya ishadi bese ufaka iphrofayili amaphethini okuziphatha kanye nesimo semvelo sabantu abaluma kakhulu kanye nezisulu ezivamile.

5. Shintsha indawo yekamelo. Sebenzisa zonke izikhala phakathi nendawo njengendawo yokudlala kanye nemigwaqo yokuhamba ngezinyawo, futhi usakaze imisebenzi ukugwema ukuminyana, ukuminyana, ukuncintisana kanye nesithukuthezi sezingane.

6. Sebenza nezingane ngamaqembu amancane. Gwema imisebenzi yeqembu elikhulu kanye nemikhuba futhi nihlukane ngamaqembu amancane.

7. Yiba nothisha oyedwa "umthunzi" obabayo. Uthisha uzama uku:

Zilindele kusengaphambili izimo ezilumayo.
Fundisa izimpendulo ezingalumi ezimeni futhi uqinise ukuziphatha okufanele ezimweni ezingase zilume.
Hlela uhlelo ukuze luvumelane kangcono nezidingo zengane ngayinye.

Qaphela ingane okungenzeka ilunywe . Lindela izimo ezilumayo futhi ufundise izimpendulo ezinciphisa ithuba lokuba yisisulu.

9. Siza ekwenzeni izingane zizizwe zilondekile. Bheka izindlela zokuthuthukisa umuzwa wezingane wokuvikeleka nokuzinza:

Azikho izinto ezimangalisayo: gcina uhlelo olubikezelwayo futhi uqinisekise ukuthi izingane ziyaqonda futhi zilindele ukuqhubeka kosuku.
Qinisekisa ukuxhumana okuningi komuntu nomuntu nomnakekeli oyinhloko wengane ngayinye
Qinisekisa "izindawo" ezifudumele, ezithokomele, ezingaseceleni.
Gwema izinguquko zabasebenzi.
Thuthukisa futhi ugcine imikhuba yomuntu ngamunye neyeqembu.

10. Uma kufaneleka, shintshela ingane kwelinye igumbi. Cabangela ukuguquka kwangaphambi kwesikhathi kwezingane ezibambeke kuphethini yokuziphatha okuluma ziye endaweni eshintshile uma kufaneleka ngokwentuthuko futhi kuvunyelwe ngokunikezwa ilayisense.

11. Siza zonke izingane zihileleke kakhulu ohlelweni. Funa izindlela zokubandakanya izingane ngempumelelo emvelweni ngokubheka izinketho ezikhona kanye nenani lamathoyizi nezinto zokwakha.

12. Linganisa izikhathi ezisebenzayo nezikhathi ezithule. Funa izindlela zokutholisa izingane ngemva kwezikhathi zenjabulo ngalokhu: izinguquko ezikhululekile, umculo opholile, nokuxhumana okupholile ngokomzimba nabanakekeli.

13. Qoqa izingane ukuze zigweme ukuluma. Hlaziya ukuqoqa izingane ukuze ugweme inhlanganisela engaholela ekungqubuzaneni noma ekulumeni.

14. Cela abanye babone ubhubhane olulumayo. Uma kudingekile, letha izingqapheli zangaphandle ukuze zikusize uhlaziye sonke isimo, hhayi nje abalumayo.

Ukubambelela Ngesikhathi Senkinga Yokulunywa

Izimpaphe zomlingo zisize i-Dumbo yandiza, kodwa azikho izimpaphe zomlingo zokuxazulula inkinga yokuluma. Kwesinye isikhathi akukho okusebenzayo, futhi izingane ziyakhula noma zishiye uhlelo. Ukwenza konke lokhu okungenhla kufanele kusize ekudambiseni noma kufinyeze le nkinga. Ukugcina ubudlelwano obuhle nabazali ngesikhathi sobhadane oluhlabayo kudinga konke ukwethembana nokuthakasela okwakhiwe umkhuba omuhle wohlelo ngaphambi kokuba kulume.