Izidingo ezikhethekile yigama eliyisambulela lezinhlobonhlobo zokuxilongwa, kusukela kulezo ezixazulula ngokushesha kuye kulezo ezizoba yinselelo yempilo kanye nalezo ezithambile ngokuqhathaniswa nalezo ezijulile. Ihlanganisa ukubambezeleka kokukhula, izimo zezokwelapha, izimo zengqondo, nezimo zokuzalwa ezidinga indawo yokuhlala ukuze izingane zikwazi ukufinyelela amakhono azo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani, ukuqokwa kuyasiza. Ingakusiza uthole izinkonzo ezidingekayo, ubeke imigomo efanele, futhi uzuze ukuqonda ngengane yakho kanye nokucindezeleka umkhaya wakho ongase ubhekane nakho.
Izinselelo Nokunqoba
Izidingo ezikhethekile zivame ukuchazwa yilokho ingane ngeke yenza—izinyathelo ezibalulekile ezingafinyelelwanga, ukudla okuvinjelwe, imisebenzi egwenyiwe, noma okuhlangenwe nakho okunqatshelwe. Lezi zithiyo zingathinta imindeni kanzima futhi zingenza izidingo ezikhethekile zibonakale njengegama elidabukisayo.
Abanye abazali bayohlale belilela amandla engane yabo elahlekile, futhi ezinye izimo zibakhathaza kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Eminye imindeni ingase ithole ukuthi izinselele zengane yayo zenza ukunqoba kube mnandi futhi ubuthakathaka ngokuvamile buhambisana namandla amangalisayo.
Umndeni Ngamunye Unokukhathazeka Okuhlukile
Khetha noma yimiphi imindeni emibili yezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile futhi zingase zibonakale zifana kancane. Umndeni obhekene nokubambezeleka kwentuthuko uzoba nokukhathazeka okuhlukile kunalowo obhekene nesifo esingamahlalakhona. Le mindeni izoba nezinkathazo ezihlukene kunezibhekene nesifo sengqondo, izinkinga zokufunda, noma izinselele zokuziphatha.
Izidingo ezikhethekile yigama elibanzi kakhulu futhi zonke izimo zihlukile. Imindeni kufanele igxile ekufuneni usizo nesiqondiso esidingekayo mayelana nezinto ezibakhathazayo.
Izinkinga Zezokwelapha
Izinkinga zezokwelapha zezingane zifaka izimo ezibucayi njengomdlavuza, ukukhubazeka kwenhliziyo, i-muscular dystrophy, ne-cystic fibrosis. Kuhlanganisa nezimo ezingelapheki njengesifuba somoya nesifo sikashukela, izimo zokuzalwa ezifana ne-cerebral palsy kanye ne-dwarfism, nezinsongo zempilo ezifana nokungezwani komzimba nokudla kanye nokukhuluphala. Ingane ingase idinge ukuhlolwa njalo kwezokwelapha, ukulaliswa esibhedlela, izinto zokusebenza, nendawo yokuhlala yokukhubazeka. Ukusungula uhlelo oluhle lokusekela kubaluleke kakhulu lapho ubhekana nokungaqiniseki nanoma yiziphi izinkinga zezokwelapha.
Izinkinga Zokuziphatha
Izingane ezinezinkinga zokuziphatha kungenzeka zingasabeli ekuyalweni ngokwesiko. Ukuxilongwa okufana ne-ADHD, i-fetus alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD), ukungasebenzi kokuhlanganiswa kwezinzwa, kanye nesifo sika-Tourette kudinga amasu akhethekile aklanyelwe izidingo zabo ezithile. Izinkinga zokuziphatha zingandisa ingozi yezinkinga esikoleni.
Izinkinga Zentuthuko
Ukukhubazeka kokukhula kungashintsha imibono yakho yekusasa futhi kunikeze ubunzima obusheshayo ekunakekeleni nasekufundiseni ingane yakho. Ukuxilongwa okufana ne-autism, i-Down syndrome, nokukhubazeka kwengqondo kuvame ukubangela ukuthi izingane zisuswe ku-instream. Ngokuvamile, abazali baba abameli abanonya ukuze baqinisekise ukuthi izingane zabo zithola izinsizakalo, ukwelashwa, isikole, nokufakwa ezikudingayo futhi ezikufanele.
Izinkinga Zokufunda
Izingane ezinokukhubazeka ekufundeni njenge-dyslexia kanye ne-auditory processing disorder (APD) zidonsa kanzima ngomsebenzi wesikole kungakhathaliseki amakhono azo obuhlakani. Badinga amasu okufunda akhethekile ukuze bahlangabezane namandla abo futhi bagweme izinkinga zokuzethemba kanye nobunzima bokuziphatha.
Abazali bezingane ezinenselele yokufunda kudingeka baphikelele. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukusebenza nengane yakho ekhaya kanye nothisha nezikole ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi zithola lonke usizo oludingayo.
Izinkinga Zempilo Yengqondo
Ukuqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ihlushwa ukukhathazeka noma ukucindezeleka noma inenkinga yokunamathela kungase kungalindelekile. Futhi, zonke izingane zizohluka, kodwa lezi zingashiya umndeni wakho ubhekene nokushintshashintsha kwemizwelo, izinkinga, nokungahloniphi. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bathole ochwepheshe abafanelekile ukuze basize. Kuzodingeka futhi wenze izinqumo mayelana nokwelashwa, imithi, futhi, ngokunokwenzeka, nokulaliswa esibhedlela.
Izwi Elivela Kahle
Nakuba zonke izidingo ezikhethekile zezingane zihlukile futhi yonke imindeni ihlukile, kunezinto ezivame ukukhathazeka ezihlanganisa abazali. Lokhu kufaka phakathi ukuthola ukunakekelwa okufanele kanye nokukhuthaza ukwamukelwa emndenini owandisiwe, esikoleni, nasemphakathini. Kwabanye, kungase kudingeke ukuhlela ikusasa elingaqinisekile. Uzophinde uzithole usulungisa imikhuba nokulindela, kwesinye isikhathi kaningi.
Ngenxa yesidingo, abazali bezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile bavame ukuguquguquka, uzwela, inkani, futhi baqine kunabanye abazali. Nakuba kungase kungabi into obuyilindele noma obuyilindele, kubalulekile enganeni yakho ukuthi uzame ukwenza okusemandleni akho. Ungaduduzeka ngokuthi awuwedwa, ngakho zizwe ukhululekile ukufinyelela ukuze uthole ukwesekwa.
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