Ibhulogi yakamuva Ukuphela Kwenkathi isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/end-of-an-era/Ngemuva kwesiphithiphithi seminyaka emibili edlule (yebo covid, ngisho wena) bekumnandi ukuhlala EGUMBENI ELILODWA njengothisha nothisha we-Dudes wabangaboni kahle (kukhona umlomo uma eke waba khona), bese ngihamba. ngenqubekela phambili ayenze kulo nyaka odlule emlungiselela ukuthi anyukele esikoleni samabanga aphezulu ngoSepthemba.Lezi zintokazi zinesikhathi eside nomfana wami - uthisha wakhe we-VI, isibonelo, uye wamsekela kusukela eneminyaka engu-3 ubudala, ngakho-ke ukuqhubeka nokumshiya ngemuva kuzoba isikhunta.Ehlangene nothisha wakhe, abasizi bothisha (bebaningi) nezinye izisebenzi ezinhle asebenze naye kusukela eqala kulesi sikole, abashiyanga ngisho nelilodwa itshe emizamweni yabo yokuthola okumsebenzele kangcono.Ngisakhumbula iseshini yakhe yokuqala efanele nothisha wakhe VI eminyakeni yokuqala.Weza ezilungiselwe nebhokisi elikhulu lekhadibhodi, lonke limnyama ngaphakathi ukuze akhulise umehluko kuye; wayenezinhlobonhlobo zamathoyizi avela kumapompomu abahalali afakwe amathoyizi acwebezelayo, amathoyizi akhanyayo, izinto ezinemibala egqamile… wayelwa izandla zakhe njengoba zonke izingane zazifuna ukudlala!Ingxoxo yethu naye yagqamisa uthando lwabafana bami lwe-LEGO; ekuvakasheleni kwakhe okulandelayo wakhanyisa amabhulokhi e-LEGO, ukuze ambone ngokuphazima kweso 'evula' futhi asebenzise umbono wakhe ngenhloso kwakungeyona into emangalisayo.Kungaphezu kokwethuka ukushiya laba bantu abamangalisayo abathanda indodana yami sengathi ingeyabo, futhi abayinikeze okuningi kule minyaka engu-8 edlule.Njengamanje ungomunye wabantwana abakhulu, ngoSepthemba usezoba ngomunye wabancane futhi.Kucacela wonke umuntu ukuthi umfana wethu usekulungele ukukhuphukela esikoleni esiphakeme kodwa kuzwakala sengathi ukuphela kwenkathi.Lapho siqeda, uthisha wakhe oyi-VI wamamatheka futhi wathi inkumbulo yakhe ukukhombisa ukuthi umfana wethu usekude kangakanani emhlanganweni wakhe wokuqala naye; 'Lapho ngiqala ukuhlangana naye, kwamthatha imizuzu emi-5 ukuthi akwazi ukugxila entweni ethile. Lapho ngimhlola muva nje, kuthathe imizuzwana engama-40'.Uyaziqhenya? Kungcono ukholwe.Anamehlo omile? Akulona ithuba.Okuthunyelwe Ukuphela Kwenkathi kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/