Ibhulogi yakamuva ethi Kidz to Adultz isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/kidz-to-adultz/ Kamuva nje sihambele umbukiso wemishini/izinkonzo zabakhubazekile eManchester obizwa nge-Kidz to Adultz. Sesiyihambele minyaka yonke manje kusukela u-Amy azalwa. Enye yezinto ezingalindelekile nezingcono kakhulu ngayo isici senhlalo. Unyaka ngamunye odlulayo, inethiwekhi yethu nomphakathi kuyakhula futhi kuxhumeke kakhulu. Ngahlangana ne-blogger ye-Firefly, umnikazi wenhlangano esiza abantulayo (PEEPS - HIE), kanye nomngane, umama ka-Heidi, kanye nomama… Sarah Land. Besikhuluma ngohambo lwezempilo oluyinkimbinkimbi lokukhulisa izingane (noma ngabe yini othanda ukulebula ngalo) futhi besikhuluma ngokuvakasha kwethu kokuqala kule mibukiso. Sacabanga ngezinsuku zethu zakuqala njengabazali kuleli zwe elinokukhubazeka. Sasisezigabeni “zokulinda futhi sibone”, singenalwazi lokuthi ikusasa lethu lizohlanganisani. Ngikhumbula ngihamba embukisweni futhi ngizizwa ngikhungathekile ngokuphelele. Impela ngeke siyidinge iveni yesihlalo esinamasondo? Kungani kunemibhede yasesibhedlela enama-padding kuyo? Kungani yonke into ibukeka njengezokwelapha kanye nemishini? Angiqondi noma yikuphi kwalokhu… mhlawumbe lokhu akukona okwethu. Ngakho-ke ngaphandle kokubheka indawo yokudayisa iFirefly (okwakuthi ngalesi sikhathi besesivele siphethe ZONKE izinto zabo njengoba isenze sakwazi ukusebenzisa izinqola zokuthenga, ama-park swing njll) yasenza sazizwa sihlukanisiwe nakakhulu, sesaba futhi sididekile. Ngokushesha phambili kuze kube namuhla, u-Amy cishe uneminyaka engu-8 ubudala. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu lapha manje kuhluke ngokuphelele. Sibona "umbhede obheke esibhedlela" bese sithi WOW buka imibala engena ngayo!! Siyawabona amaveni ezihlalo zabakhubazekile futhi sihlabeke umxhwele ngazo zonke izindlela ezihlukene zerempu kanye nokuhlelwa kwezihlalo. Cishe yonke indawo yokudayisa lapha ibalulekile kithi manje… futhi uyazi ukuthi yini? Asizizwa sihlukanisiwe, sisaba futhi sididekile. Sizizwa sijabule - yiziphi izingcezu ezinhle zobuchwepheshe ezize lapha namuhla ezingenza izimpilo zethu zibe lula, zibe mnandi kakhulu, ziphephe njll. Wathi kimi uSara. "Yini eshintshile kithi sonke?" futhi lona kwakungumbuzo omkhulu. Ngicabanga ukuthi impendulo yisikhathi. Isikhathi singumlaphi. Ngikhumbula ngitshelwa izikhathi eziningi ukuthi izinto zizoba lula. Ukuthi sizozivumelanisa nezimo. Ukuthi usizi luzophela. Ngikhumbula ngivutha intukuthelo futhi ngizama ukucindezela izinyembezi lapho ngizwa lokhu. Ubani wayengakwazi kanjani lokho? Bengingalindele ukuthi yithina esidinga YONKE imishini yezokwelapha ebizayo. Angikaze ngicabange ukuthi ngingajabula lapho ngigeza i-hi-lo, noma i-easel efinyeleleka ngesihlalo sabakhubazekile. Kodwa sesikhona. Sesifikile kude. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kufike ukwamukelwa, ukuqonda, ukuqaphela, nezinye izinto eziningi. Kusenezinsuku lapho kuba khona izigameko ezibuhlungu. Kunezinsuku engifuna ukukhala ngazo nje ngingaqondi ukuthi “kungani sisi?”. Kunezinsuku engifisa sengathi izinto zingaba lula kithina sonke. Kodwa sisendaweni ehlukile manje. Siyazi ukuthi ikusasa aliqinisekile, futhi u-Amy usedlule eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-8 kunalokho abaningi abangakwenza empilweni yakhe yonke. Asithathi neze usuku olulodwa nje, ngisho nezinsuku ezinzima ngempela. Anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi impilo yaba lula, ngicabanga ukuthi sesijwayelane futhi saqina. Impilo yethu isagcwele ama-aphoyintimenti, abaphathi, imithi, uhambo lwe-ambulensi, ukulaliswa esibhedlela, ukulwela izinsizakalo nemishini, ukwesaba ukuhoxiswa kwezinsizakalo ezibalulekile njll. U-Amy usesinda kakhulu manje, imishini yakhe inkulu futhi izidingo zakhe zempilo zikhule kakhulu. phakathi neminyaka; futhi nokho engingacabanga ngakho manje yilapho umsebenzi wethu wokunweba/wokuzivumelanisa nezimo wenziwa endlini yethu futhi ekwazi ukuphumuza imilenze yakhe ebuhlungu kubhavu wakhe we-hi-lo. Impilo ayibukeki ukuthi besiyihlele kanjani, futhi sengifundile - ungalokothi uhlele!! Okuzokwenzeka kuzokwenzeka. Ongakwenza nje ukuba nethemba lokuthi obathandayo eduze kwakho bazokweseka endleleni, ubonge ngayo yonke into encane, nokwazisa izinkumbulo ezijabulisayo ozenzayo phakathi kwezinxushunxushu. Okuthunyelwe okuthi Kidz kuya ku-Adultz kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog. ************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
