Ibhulogi yakamuva ethi Life Isn't Always Fair isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/life-isnt-always-fair/ Wake wazizwa njengoNobi, igundane ku-The Lion King u-Scar alibambe ukuze alidle. "Impilo ayilungile, angithi? Uyabona, angisoze ngaba iNkosi. Futhi awusoze wakubona ukukhanya kolunye usuku." Muva nje sibe nesikhathi esinzima. Ubaba uphuthunyiswe esibhedlela ngemuva kokuwa kabi. Umkami nendodana ekhubazekile bathola inkontileka ye-COVID, ihhavini laphuka, nebhethri lemoto lafa !! Konke lokhu kwenzeka ngesikhathi sizama ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi omatasatasa kanye nesimiso sasekhaya. Isikhathi esibi kakhulu esingenzeka. Nokho, njengoNobi igundane, siye saphila ukuze sibone ukukhanya kolunye usuku. Ilanga libalele naphezu kwezinselelo. Umkami nendodana bangcono kakhulu, ubaba uzinzile, futhi uhhavini nebhethri yemoto kuhlungiwe. Kuthiwani ngawe? Ingabe unazo izindaba zesikhathi lapho konke bekukukhungathekisa? Lapho uthule, noma umemeza ngokuzwakalayo, "Akulungile!" Kodwa usinde ukuze uxoxe indaba futhi ulwe ngolunye usuku? Hhayi-ke, ngibuze abantu abambalwa ngezindaba zabo. Futhi phakathi kwalabo kukhona abanye abaye babona ukukhanya ekupheleni kobumnyama, kuyilapho kwabanye, ukukhanya akukakafiki! Mhlawumbe uzobona okuncane kwakho nomndeni wakho kwenye yalezi zindaba. Noma mhlawumbe uzokhuthazeka ukuthi akuwena kuphela onezinsuku ezinjengalezi. Asisodwa; sidabula izigodi neziqongo zezintaba ndawonye. Akuwena wedwa “Ngesonto eledlule ngamaholidi ehlobo, njengoba ngisindile ihlobo lonke, nginqume ukuzikhipha zombili izingane zami ngalolo suku. Uneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye osebenzisa isihlalo esinamasondo nononyaka owodwa. Ngapakisha zonke izikhwama, amashubhu, ikhithi yezokwelapha. Aphakamise u-'E' esihlalweni sakhe futhi alungele ukulayisha emotweni. Ahambe ayofaka ingane enonyaka owodwa emotweni. Asikho isihlalo semoto. Bekusemotweni kahubby emsebenzini. Cae umama ekhala ngoba ubedinga ukuphuma endlini. Saphuma ngempumelelo ngakusasa!” UNawomi “Ngezinye izinsuku kunzima. Into engihlala njalo engqondweni yami ukufika ekhaya nendodana yami ngiseyingane sithola ipayipi lami lendlu yangasese liqhumile. Amanzi ayegeleza endlini yonke kukhishwe igumbi elilodwa! Ezama ukujuxuza ingane elambile; ngifonele wonke umuntu osebenza ngamapayipi engikwazile ukuthola ukuthi ikuphi imininingwane yami yomshwalense. Ngangingeke ngikwazi nakancane lolo suku ukube umngane wami akazange asizakale. Wahlala nezingane ngenkathi ngithola amanzi amiswa futhi abantu bomshuwalense baphuma njll. Kodwa sibhekana nanoma yini ephonswa kithi. Futhi ekugcineni umshwalense wakhokha bonke okhaphethi abasha futhi wapenda zonke izindonga ukuze kube kubi kakhulu. Bekumele ngihlale egumbini elingaphambili izinyanga ezimbalwa. ” Jade Into eyodwa emva kwenye.. “Ngelinye ilanga ngathatha ubaba wami okhubazekile nendodana eneminyaka emithathu siyodla isidlo sasemini. Indawo yokupaka izimoto yayisendaweni eyehlelayo. Ngesizathu esithile ubaba wayecabanga ukuthi ngibambe isihlalo sabakhubazekile kuyilapho empeleni ngangicinga okhiye bami. Wakhumula ibhuleki lesihlalo esinamasondo wahamba wayoginqa intaba. Ngesimangaliso akazange ashaye lutho wafike wama ebheke ezansi ngemuva kokuklwebha udonga lwendawo yokupaka izimoto. Ngenhlanhla akalimalanga, wanyakaziswa kancane. Ngemva kwesidlo sasemini ngathatha ubaba wami ngaya naye ekhaya futhi ngalanda ingane yami eneminyaka eyisithupha ukuze ngiyobonana nodokotela esibhedlela. Ukuthatha zombili izingane zami ezinezidingo ezengeziwe kufana nokwelusa amakati. Akekho kubo onomqondo wesiqondiso noma ingozi futhi bahlale bephazamisana. Ngemuva kokuqokwa kwadingeka ukuthi siye komunye umnyango siyohlolwa igazi. Ingane yami eneminyaka emithathu ubudala yakhala kakhulu ngoba yayingafuni ukushiya amathoyizi eyayidlala ngawo. Kwakungaphezu kokucasuka; lokhu kwakuwubuso obunsomi obugcwele ukuklabalasa futhi kwathatha mina nabahlengikazi ababili ukumthulisa. Ekugcineni, abahlengikazi bambonisa 'ikhabethe labo lemilingo' lamathoyizi futhi bamvumela ukuba akhethe elilodwa azogoduka nalo. Lapho sifika ekhaya, ingane yami eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala yayixubene nomfutho wegazi ophakeme futhi ikhathele ngokuphelele njengoba icubungula ulwazi lwayo lwasesibhedlela. Lokhu kwaziveza ngokuthi aphushe, agingqike amemeze mina nomfowabo. Wathi esabhuquza, wakhubeka wawa phansi ngekhanda ezitebhisini zasengadini. Ngokujabulisayo wayephila kahle ngaphandle kweqoqo lokusikeka nemihuzuko. Kwesinye isikhathi ufika ekupheleni kosuku olubi bese ucabanga: “Okungenani wonke umuntu usaphila, nenze kahle.” Ngalolu suku kwadingeka ngengeze ukuthi “Yebo yebo…. nje!” Lizzie Adonse umoya kakhulu Hewu! Izindaba eziningi ezimangalisayo. Ingxube enjalo yobuhlungu benhliziyo nethemba, ubuhlungu nokubekezela, umzabalazo, nokuvikeleka. Okubonakala kuyindikimba evamile yalezi zindaba ukholo. Ukukholwa kithi; ukholo kwabanye abantu esingabethemba futhi abavele “baluthole. Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi esizayo uba nolunye ' lwalezo zinsuku', khumbula ukuthi akuwena wedwa. Awuhambi wedwa kulempilo, sibaningi esiba nolunye 'lwalezo zinsuku' futhi silapha ngenxa yakho. Sibonga wonke umuntu ofake isandla. Okuthunyelwe Impilo Ayihlali Ilungile ivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog. ************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -sekela/
