Ibhulogi yakamuva Ngiyabonga: Abantu abangu-5 engibongayo ngabo sebelungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/thank-you-5-people-im-grateful-for/Kwesinye isikhathi kulula kakhulu ngathi abanakekeli abangabazali ukuthi sibambeke ezenzweni ezingezinhle zokubhekana nezinhlelo ezahlukahlukene ezisizungezile.Ukulwela izinsiza ezilinganiselwe, ukuhlale uphishekela imibiko, izinto zokusebenza noma isikhathi esimisiwe ngisho nokwenqatshwa kwezidingo zengane yethu kungase kudumaze futhi kukhathaze.Kungase kube sengathi sifuna inyanga endukwini nje ngokubuza ukuthi ingane yethu inelungelo lokukuthola ngokusemthethweni.Kungaba njengefu elikhulu elimnyama elisibekele.Kodwa ifu kwesinye isikhathi livala izikhathi ezinhle lapho othile exhumana nathi, lisihlinzeka ngalokho esikudingayo noma 'ukuthola' ingane yethu kanye nezidingo zayo.Ngakho-ke ngithanda ukuthatha isikhashana ukubonga abantu abasezimpilweni zethu engibabongayo:Ngiyabonga kudokotela wezingane, othe ngesikhathi esimisiwe, wangibuza ukuthi ngingathanda ukubizwa ngokuthini ('angikwazi ukuvele ngikubize ngomama ngaso sonke isikhathi'), wathatha isikhathi sokukhuluma nendodana yami ngomoya ophansi - indlela esheshayo, futhi yaphendula ngokushesha kuzo zonke izenzo okuvunyelwene ngazo.Ngibonga umelaphi wenkulumo nolimi othokozela ukusebenza nendodana yami. Ukuzwa laba ababili behleka behamba phakathi nezikhathi zabo kuyayithokozisa inhliziyo yami. Iseluleko nobungcweti bakhe, ikakhulukazi eminyakeni yokuqala, kwangisiza ukuba ngiqonde kangcono ubunzima bokucubungula ahlangabezane nabo kanye nesidingo sokumnikeza isikhathi sokuphendula.Ngiyabonga kumelaphi wezomsebenzi ongifundise mayelana nokutholwa ngokufanele (ukuqwashisa ngomzimba noma umuzwa womzimba wethu) nokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani lokhu ezinganeni ezinokukhubazeka kobuchopho nezinye izidingo zezinzwa. Lokhu kwangisiza ukuba ngiqonde ukuthi kungaba yi-discombobulating kanjani endodaneni yami lapho izinto zivela ngokuzumayo endaweni yayo yomuntu siqu. Ngiphinde ngithokozele ukusungula kwakhe izinto lapho sidinga ukuxazulula inselele ethile evela empilweni yomndeni.Ngibonga uthisha ozinike isikhathi sokubheka indodana yami kanye nathi njengomndeni ngenkathi sisanda kuzihlukanisa ekhaya nge-covid.Ngibonga umnakekeli wethu owazi ukuthi angeseka kanjani ingane yami ngayinye eqaphela izidingo zayo ngazinye. Labo bantu abaqaphela ukuthi kungase kuhlasele ukuba nomuntu ekhaya lakho futhi balungise ukuziphatha kwabo ngendlela efanele kwenza ukuphila kube lula kakhulu.Lezi zinto zivame ukuba zincane futhi azibizi imali eyengeziwe.Izinto engizibongayo zibandakanya abantu ukuba nozwelo nozwela, bakwazi ukuxhumana njengomuntu nokwenza umsebenzi wabo ngendlela efanele. Incane, yebo, kodwa imivuzo ibalulekile kithina nasemindenini yethu.Kukhona ukukhishwa kwamahhala kochwepheshe bezemfundo, bezempilo kanye nokunakekelwa kwezenhlalakahle ekusekeleni inhlalakahle yomnakekeli wabazali lapha.Singase singaziboni njalo lezi zinto ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke kodwa ngokuma futhi sizindle kanye ngesikhathi sibona kunezinto eziningi okufanele sizibonge. Futhi lokhu kungaba nomphumela omuhle enhlalakahleni yethu engokomzwelo.Ubonga ngani?Ungathola amathiphu empilo yomnakekeli womzali engeziwe ku-www.affinityhub.uk.Okuthunyelwe Ngiyabonga: Abantu abangu-5 engibabongayo bavele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog .************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/
