Ibhulogi yakamuva Impi yokuhlala ulinganisele isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/the-battle-to-stay-in-balance/ISEXWAYISO SE-TRIGGER: sixoxa ngokufa kwenganeKuyiqiniso lempilo ukuthi ngamunye wethu ngesinye isikhathi uyoyeka ukuba umuntu ophilayo, ophefumulayo. Akunakugwenywa.Futhi nakuba kungezona izihloko ezikhululekile okufanele zixoxwe, kubalulekile ukwenza kanjalo.Sobabili mina no-J sicacile kulokho esifuna kwenzeke ngemva kokufa kwethu. Futhi njengabazali bengane eyinkimbinkimbi ngokwezokwelapha, elinganiselwe ekuphileni kunamaqiniso athile okudingeka sibhekane nawo.Cishe kuyodingeka siyingcwabe ingane yethu, futhi nakuba lokho kuwumcabango olimazayo ukuphila nawo kusho nokuthi sinethuba lokuzilungiselela.Angiqondile ukuthi sizilungiselele ngokwethu, njengoba omunye esimaziyo eke wathi ukwazi ukuthi kukhona okuzolimaza akuvimbi ukuthi kwenzeke uma kwenzeka.Engikushoyo ukuthi singanquma ukuthi sifuna kwenzekeni, lapho sifuna ukuthi umfana wethu athole ukunakekelwa kokuphela kwempilo nokuthi lokho kunakekelwa kungase kubukeke kanjani, nokuthi yikuphi ukungenelela esikwenzayo kanye/noma esingafuni ukuthi abe nakho.Lokhu kuza ngendlela yoHlelo Lokunakekela Okuthuthukile; yinto ebengiyesaba futhi engibalekela ngisho ukuyicabanga iminyaka.Phela indodana yami ayifi ngempela?! Njengamanje uphilile, ujabule futhi uyayijabulela impilo yakhe.Futhi inqobo nje uma kunjalo ngingakwazi ukuba khona kubhamuza lami elithandekayo, elijabulisayo nokuhlala, kahle, ngiphilile.Sinenhlanhla yokusekelwa ithimba elimangalisayo lokunakekelwa kwe-palliative; umxhumanisi kaDude wachaza ukuthi i-ACP ifana nencwadi yefa, empeleni ibizwa ngokuthi 'intando ephilayo' ngabanye.Akusho ukuthi siyamcisha, kodwa kusho ukuthi izifiso zethu ziyaqoshwa ukuze uma kudingeka sigxile ekubeni naye nje.Ngizovuma ukuthi lokho kungisizile ukuba ngibeke izinto ngombono ongcono.Njengomphakathi siba ngcono ekukhulumeni ngempilo yengqondo, kodwa sisakhuluma ngokufa; abantu abaningi kakhulu abanayo i-Will, abakhulumi ngokunikela ngezitho zomzimba, noma bafuna ukungcwatshwa/ukushiswa/ukungcwatshwa ngokwemvelo.Uma ngokukhuluma ngakho ngendlela eyakhayo nangokubeka izinto endaweni singaqinisekisa ukuthi ukudlula kwendodana yethu ekugcineni kunokuthula nokufa okuhle kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka, khona-ke ngokuqinisekile leyo yinto okufanele silamukele ngayo ithuba lokuyenza?Okuthunyelwe Impi yokuhlala ulinganisela ivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
