Ibhulogi yakamuva Indlela Yomnakekeli: Ukusinda Ngamaholide isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/the-path-of-a-caregiver-surviving-the-holidays/“Izwi lakho liyisibani ezinyaweni zami nokukhanya endleleni yami.”— IHubo 119:105Ingabe ukhona umuntu othembele kuwe kuzo zonke izidingo zakhe, iningi lazo, noma ezinye zazo? Noma ngabe yikuphi, uma ungumnakekeli, uzobe uphendule ngoyebo kulokhu.Amaholide amatasa ngokwanele, kodwa lapho othile engumnakekeli, ukuphila kubonakala kungaphezu kwamandla. Umuntu angase akhathale ekuqaleni kukaDisemba futhi ikakhulukazi ngaphambi kukaKhisimusi.Singawajabulela kanjani amaholide futhi sibe umnakekeli umuntu wethu okudingeka sibe yikho?Ngiyazi ukuthi lokhu kulula ukukusho kunokukwenza kwabaningi bethu, kodwa kufanele uzinike isikhathi. Uma ungakwenzi lokho kuzoholela ekutubekeni nasekuphelelweni amandla. Lokhu kungaholela ekuguleni. Singabantu sidinga ukuphumula futhi silulame.Gcina ikhalenda elihlelekile ukuze ukwazi ukuhlela ngendlela efanele futhi ubheke phambili kulokho okudingayo ukuze ufeze lolo suku. Okubaluleke kakhulu, zama ukungacabangi kakhulu ngezinsuku ezizayo. Usuku olulodwa ngesikhathi kanye nesinyathelo esisodwa ngesikhathi.Sebenzisa isikhathi sakho ngokuhlakanipha futhi ulalele lokho amathumbu akho nomzimba wakho okutshela kona. Uma wazi ukuthi udinga ukulala kancane, futhi unethuba lokwenza kanjalo, thatha okukodwa.Khuluma nabanye, futhi utshele abantu osondelene nabo ukuthi uludinga ngempela usizo. Mhlawumbe unikeze abantu abambalwa izinto ongasebenzisa usizo kuzo. Ngale ndlela awubeki kakhulu umuntu oyedwa. Uma ungatsheli muntu ukuthi udinga usizo, ayikho indlela yokuthi bazi. Ngiyazi bekungaba kuhle ukuba abanye bavele bazi izidingo zethu bese besiza. Angithandi ukucela usizo, kodwa ngenzela ukuthi ikhanda lami libe ngaphezu kokhula.Kuthatha isizwe.Ngiyayithanda indlela amaNdiya ezizwe ayephila ngayo. Ingane ayikhuliswa abazali bayo kuphela.Ngokwesibonelo: Esihlokweni esithi “Ukuphila Komkhaya Esikweni LamaNdiya Asemathafeni” kaSally Painter “Abadala bomkhaya bafeza indima ebalulekile. Abesifazane babesiza ekukhuliseni izingane nasemisebenzini yasekhaya. Kungenzeka ukuthi amakhehla asebenza esigungwini samakhosi. Basebenzela umndeni wabo owandisiwe njengothisha, abeluleki, abeluleki bezomoya, kanye nabaphathi besifuba. Abadala basePlains Indian babehlonishwa kakhulu umkhaya wabo. Umkhaya wawanakekela ngothando amalungu awo amadala, futhi wahlonipha ababuthaka ukuze baqinisekise ukufa okuhloniphekile, okunesithunzi.” ( Ukuphila Komndeni Esikweni Lamathafeni AmaNdiya | LoveToKnow )Ngokubona kwami, yilokhu okushiwo umndeni.Ngikuthola kudabukisa kakhulu ukuthi ukunakekelwa komkhaya, kwabanye, akukho. Ngiye ngizibuze ukuthi kungani silapha uma singanakekelani futhi sinomusa komunye nomunye ngothando nangozwelo? Ngikholwa ukuthi lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezibalulekile ukuthi sisemhlabeni.Ziningi ezinye izindlela zokuthatha kancane futhi sizinakekele ngesikhathi samaholide, futhi lokho kufanele kuqhubeke unyaka. Sonke siyazazi lezi zinto, kodwa ngeke kubuhlungu ukuzisho noma kunjalo.Sonke singasebenzisa isikhumbuzo salokho okudingwa imizimba yethu, kuhlanganise nami: ukuzivocavoca (okungenani thatha uhambo), ukunethezeka esilwaneni esifuywayo, ukulala ngokwanele, ukudla ngendlela ongakwazi ngayo. Ngiyazi, cishe akunakwenzeka ngamaholide. Kungaba nzima ngempela ukungabi nama-dessert kuyo yonke imibuthano. Ngisho ukuthi, kufanele sizame ama-dessert abangani bethu! Thatha izingxenye ezincane ukuze ujabulele ngaphandle kokweqisa.Yizo zonke lezi zinto esizaziyo. Ngiyethemba ukuthi le bhulogi izokunikeza isikhuthazo esincane namandla. Khumbula ukuzijabulisa futhi uzinike isikhathi sokungenzi lutho.Ukunakekela kuningi kumuntu oyedwa, futhi akekho ongazi ukuthi kunjani aze ahambe endleleni yomnakekeli.Okuthunyelwe Indlela Yomnakekeli: Ukusinda Ngamaholide kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
