Ibhulogi yakamuva Ukuthi “Buyela Esikoleni” kubukeka kanjani kithi isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/what-back-to-school-looks-like-for-us/Kubazali, usuku lokuqala lwesikole luvame ukugqugquzelwa imizwa eyahlukene.Ukujabula, ukukhathazeka, nethemba kuvame ukuhambisana nokubheka emuva kancane.Ihlobo seliphelile futhi izingane zethu sezikhulile unyaka wonke.Kwabanye, kunomuzwa omkhulu wokukhululeka, njengoba kuqala ukubuyela esimisweni.Njengomama, nginogqozi unyaka ngamunye ngesiqalo esisha. Njengomama wengane enokukhubazeka okuningi nezidingo ezikhethekile, NAMI NGETHUKE.Ukulindela ukumehlisa nokuba kude naye kugcwalisa imicabango yami ngokukhathazeka.Ingabe zonke izidingo zakhe zizoqondwa futhi zihlangatshezwe? Kuthiwani uma enesimo esiphuthumayo sezokwelapha futhi ngingekho? Ingabe wonke umuntu uzowubonisa umusa nozwela? Yiziphi izithiyo nezimpi esizobhekana nazo kulo nyaka wesikole?Ngosuku lokuqala lwebanga lesithupha, njengoba siphuma ngomnyango, isikhwama sakhe sezincwadi esisha sha, esihle, esibomvana siyachichima.Izimpahla zesikole “ezijwayelekile” azibangeli ukuthi kuqhume ngendlela efanele.Awekho amapensela afakwe ngaphakathi.Asikho irula noma isikelo.Ngeke adinge iphepha lokubhalela noma umshini wokubala.Isikhwama sakhe sezincwadi esisindayo silenga ngemuva kwesihlalo sakhe sabakhubazekile, siphethe izinto ezibalulekile, ezidingekayo.Iqukethe izingcezu zempilo yakhe okufanele zihambe naye, nomaphi lapho eya khona.Ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngibuyekeza ngokwesaba uhlu lwami lwengqondo lwezinto azozidinga:Amanabukeni, okosula, ukhilimu wamanabukeni, izingubo ezengeziwe...Imithi yokudlikiza, imijovo, umuthi wokuhlenga ukuquleka, ithangi lomoya-mpilo eliphathwayo…Uhlelo oluphuthumayo lokudlikiza, amafomu okuxilongwa kwezokwelapha, amafomu okuphatha imithi…Esikhundleni sephepha lemininingwane elimnandi, elinekhasi elilodwa elithi “All about Me” izingane ezincane eziliyisa kothisha ngosuku lokuqala, indodakazi yami ine-BINDER ehlelwe kakhulu.Yibhukwana elikhulu, elinezindandatho ezintathu, eliphelele ngokuhlukaniswa kokuxilongwa kwakhe nokuthi kuthinta kanjani ukuphila kwakhe kwansuku zonke nokufunda.Igcwele ulwazi mayelana nokudla kwakhe okuqinile, izidingo zezinzwa, izimbangela zokuquleka kanye nokungenelela.Kanye nesikhwama sezincwadi esigcwele ngokweqile kanye ne-binder eyanele, iveni yethu igcwele inqwaba yezinye izinto ezibalulekile zansuku zonke...I-Ankle-Foot Orthotics, I-Knee-Ankle-Foot Orthotics, Idivayisi Ekhiqiza Inkulumo, ibhokisi lesidlo sasemini elihlotshiswe ngama-unicorn futhi ligcwele ukudla okuhlanzekile, okungenalo ubisi, nokudla okungenalo i-gluten.Njengoba silungiselela ukuhamba ekhaya, ngiyayibona injabulo emehlweni akhe lapho ngimbuza ukuthi uyafuna yini ukuya “eSikoleni Esikhulu” sakhe. Ushaya izandla zakhe ezincane ngokugcizelela futhi ukusineka okumnandi kunwebeka ebusweni bakhe.Ngiqeda ukwesaba kwami okwamanje futhi ngijabulela injabulo emsulwa ayikhiphayo.Lapho sifika, ngiqunga isibindi futhi ngisebenze kanzima ukuze ngibambe izinyembezi.Ngithumela ingane yami engakhulumi ngomlomo enezidingo zezokwelapha eziyinkimbinkimbi emhlabeni futhi, futhi kuyethusa.Njengoba ngiphushela isihlalo sakhe endleleni yokuhamba futhi ngibuka injabulo yakhe, ngiyazikhumbuza ukuthi ithimba lakhe elinekhono likhona futhi imfundo yakhe nezinhlelo zezokwelapha ziqinile.Uyakudinga lokhu...ngidinga lokhu.Sibingelela othisha bakhe abahle; banginikeza uzwela olukhulu futhi bangiqinisekise ukuthi ingane yami izothandwa, futhi ibe sezandleni ezinhle.Emizuzwini embalwa kamuva, ngiba nokukhala okusheshayo evenini yami, futhi ngabona ukuthi angizange ngiwuthwebule umcimbi ngesithombe!Ngibe sengigijimela ngqo ku-Starbucks ukuze ngithole umvuzo wokwehlisa ingcindezi we-espresso noshokoledi. Konke kuzolunga.Amahora osuku lokuqala azodlula, kancane kancane, kodwa ekugcineni sesikwazile ukubhekana nalo msebenzi wokuqala wokubuyela esikoleni.Ngokujabulisayo, akuthathi isikhathi eside ukuthi isimiso sethu esisha siqale.Ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa nje, ngikhunjuzwa indlela isikole esiyizuzisa ngayo intombazane yami.Abazali bezingane ezikhubazekile kanye nezidingo ezikhethekile, sikutholile lokhu.Njalo ngonyaka, “Ukubuyela Esikoleni” kwethu kungase kubonakale kuhluke kancane; kungase kube inselele kakhudlwana, kodwa siyadlula kukho futhi siqhubekele phambili.Sinemigomo emikhulu okumele siyifinyelele!Okuthunyelwe Ukuthi “Buyela Esikoleni” kubukeka kanjani kithi kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
