Njengoba abantu abaningi bazi, ukungingiza kuwukuphazamiseka kokukhulumisana okuhilela ukuphazamiseka kokugeleza kokukhuluma okuqhubekayo. Ebonakala ngemisindo emide, ukuphindaphindwa kwamagama noma imishwana, amagama agcwaliswa njalo njengokuthi “uh” nelithi “um,” kanye nokuthula noma ukuzabalaza ngamazwi ngaphambi kokusho igama, ukungingiza kuvame ukuhambisana nokuziphatha kwesibili, njengokugwema ukubheka amehlo noma ukunyakaza okungahambi kahle. izingalo noma imilenze ukuphoqa amagama. Lokho abantu abangakuqapheli ukuthi lesi sifo singokwemvelo futhi izimpawu zingahluka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Imbangela yangempela yokungingiza ayaziwa. Nokho, ucwaningo lwamuva lusikisela ukuthi kukhona ukuxhumana ngofuzo. Nakuba ukucindezeleka ngokuvamile kuphumela ekwandeni kokungingiza, akuwona umsuka. Kunalokho, ukungingiza ngokuvamile kubangelwa ufuzo futhi kuthinta amadoda aphindwe kahlanu kunabesifazane.
Izingane eziningi zasenkulisa ezineminyaka ephakathi kwengu-2 nengu-5 ziba nezimpawu zokungakwazi ukuthuthuka kahle noma ukungingiza. Esinye sezizathu ukuthi izingane zisaxhumanisa amaphethini azo okukhuluma futhi zithole ulimi kulesi sigaba. Nakuba amaphesenti angaba ngu-75 kuya kwangu-80 edlula lesi sifo, ayikho indlela yokwazi ngokuqinisekile. Ukungingiza kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi kudinga udokotela ohlola izifo zolimi lokukhuluma onolwazi olunzulu lokwelapha lesi sifo ukuze azi ngokuqinisekile nosizo. Umgomo wokusebenza nezingane ezincane ezingingizayo uwukuqeda ukungasebenzi kahle lapho ufundisa futhi uhilela abazali.
Izinketho ezihlukahlukene zokwelapha eziqondile nezingaqondile ziyatholakala kubafundi basenkulisa abangingizayo. Uhlelo olulodwa lokwelapha okuqondile i-Lidcombe Programme ye-Early Childhood Stuttering. Lolu hlelo lokwelapha ngokuziphatha luba nombono womzali ngenkulumo eqephuzayo futhi ngezinye izikhathi acele ingane ukuthi ilungise inkulumo engamalimi. Lolu hlelo lusebenza kahle kakhulu futhi kufanele lusetshenziswe nodokotela wezifo zenkulumo oqeqeshwe yi-Lidcombe. Ezinye izindlela eziqondile zihlanganisa ukwelula amagama nokumodela indlela yokukhuluma elula ukuze uthuthukise ukushelela. Izindlela ezingaqondile ngokuvamile zihlinzekwa ngokuhambisana nokungenelela okuqondile. Inhloso iwukushintsha indawo yokukhuluma yengane ukuze kwandiswe inkulumo eqephuzayo kuyilapho kunciphisa izidingo ezibekwa enganeni. Zonke lezi zindlela zisebenza kahle kakhulu lapho usebenza nodokotela onolwazi lokungingiza.
Cishe iphesenti elilodwa labantu liyangingiza. Ukuze uthole uhlu olubanzi lwezinto eziyingozi, vakashela stutteringhelp.org .
Funda ngezindlela zokusebenzelana kahle nezingane zakho ukuze unqande ukungingiza. Iziphakamiso zihlanganisa ukubuka ngqo emehlweni engane yakho ukuze ubonise ukuthi ulalele ngempela umlayezo, unciphise imibuzo futhi uvumele isikhathi sokumisa isikhashana esengeziwe. Futhi, gwema ukubeka ingane yakho obala njengokubuza umbuzo othi, “Tshela u-Anti Rose ukuthi wenzeni esikoleni namuhla.” Lokhu kufaka ingcindezi eyeqile enganeni.
Ezinye izinkomba zifaka: Gwema ukuphawula njengokuthi "khuluma kancane." Kunalokho, zama ukumodela iphethini yenkulumo enensayo, ekhululekile. Ukubambezeleka ukuphendula enganeni yakho ukuze uvumele ukuhlaba ikhefu okwengeziwe futhi unciphise ukucindezela kwesikhathi enganeni. Ngokufanayo, zama ukuthi ungaceli ingane yakho ukuthi iphinde umusho onamalimi. Kukhulisa ukuqwashisa nokukhungatheka kuphela. Ngokufanayo, vumela ingane yakho iqedele imisho ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
Uma ingane isifinyelela eminyakeni ecishe ibe ngu-7, kuba nzima kakhulu ukuyeka ukungingiza. Indlela esetshenziswayo ngalesi sikhathi ingeyodwa ukuze ihlangabezane nezidingo zeklayenti. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi indlela esetshenziswayo, kubalulekile ukuba abazali banikeze ukwamukelwa nothando olungenamibandela. Imigomo yengane endala ayikona nje ukuthuthukisa ukuqephuza kodwa ukukhuthaza amakhono okuxhumana aphumelelayo nokwakha ukuzethemba. Abazali kufanele babe yingxenye ebalulekile yenqubo yokwelapha. Xhumana nodokotela wezifo zolimi ukuze uthole isiqondiso esengeziwe uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho iyangingiza.
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