Family Meals: The Importance of Quality Time
- March 19, 2021
- Ally Cohen
- Parenting Advice
Enjoying family meals together helps with bonding & developing healthy eating habits. Learn why eating dinner as families matters.
When you think about family meals, what comes to mind? Typically, it may be special occasions and holidays when your family sits together at the table, perhaps with guests. Family members cook, eat a well-balanced meal, practice manners, talk, and engage. Why doesnt this happen more often?
In many homes, family dinners don’t happen for many reasons including long work or commute hours, after school activities, homework, varied schedules, "starving" children, or being a single parent doing it all. All of us experience times when the realities of life result in choosing fast foods instead of a healthy family meal, often eaten in shifts or staring at a screen.
Of course, busy schedules and complicated lives can make it challenging for families to to enjoy quality family time, but family meals should be seriously considered due to the enormous benefits to everyone’s well-being. According to a 2011 study published by Cornell University, children who regularly enjoy family meals are 35 percent less likely to have eating disorders, 24 percent more likely to eat healthier foods, and 12 percent less likely to be overweight.
Benefits of Family Meals
- Bonding and making memories. Eating meals together allows time for family bonding and may even improve mental health. Eating together seems to contribute to fewer emotional and behavioral issues and greater feelings of mental well-being, according to a report published in the April 2012 issue of Journal of Adolescent Health. Children may not recall what they ate, but the memories of being together, without electronic interference, become ingrained.
- Sharing experiences. During shared mealtimes, children and parents share their experiences, observations and ideas, hopes and dreams. Additionally, mealtime conversations expand children’s language skills, thus enhancing their reading abilities.
- Learning about each other. Being together at a table can be a relaxing time for each family member to share their best and worst experiences of the day.
- Contributing. The planning and preparation of meals and cleaning up afterward presents meaningful opportunities for your family to work together. Relationships are enhanced when siblings or a child and parent work side-by-side to discuss menus, shop, prepare food, and finally sit down together. Everyone’s contribution is meaningful.
- Establishing routines. The routine of family meals can provide a sense of security and a feeling of belonging in the family. Furthermore, children thrive on predictability—knowing what will happen and when.
- Developing healthy eating habits. Typically, home-prepared meals include more protein, vitamins and fiber, and less saturated fat, sugar and sodium than restaurant or take-out food. Children learn to eat a variety of healthy foods by being exposed to them early in life. Families have differing opinions about how to encourage children to eat nutritious foods, but common to all is that they need to be offered, and enjoyed by other family members.
But merely understanding the benefits of family meals does not help busy parents get nutritious food to the table. It is important to be sure you are preparing quality meals for everyone.
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