Njengoba ungase ucabange, kukhona okuhle nokubi.
Lapho Kuzwakala
Abazali abaningi babiza ukuphepha njengesizathu esiyinhloko sokunikeza ingane yabo umakhalekhukhwini . Bafuna ukukwazi ukufinyelela ingane yabo noma nini lapho bedinga khona. Bafuna futhi ukunikeza ingane yabo ukulondeka kokukwazi ukubafinyelela noma nini lapho idinga.
Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho isekhaya yodwa ngemva kwesikole noma izihambela yodwa ekhaya, kusho uBarbara Greenberg, PhD, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo e-Fairfield County, CT.
Uthi: “Uma ngempela umakhalekhukhwini ungowokufinyelela abazali bazo noma izingane ezinelungelo lokuhlala ndawonye ezingase zidideke ngokuthi iyiphi indlu yomzali okufanele ziye kuyo, lokho kuyiqiniso ngandlela-thile,” usho kanje.
UGreenberg uthi akahambisani nengane eneminyaka engu-6 ubudala ukuba nomakhalekhukhwini kwezinye izimo eziningi.
Kala Izingozi
Uma ingane yakho ine-smartphone, iyakwazi ukufinyelela kumawebhusayithi okungenzeka awafaneleki. Angase abone okuqukethwe okunodlame futhi okungenzeka kuhlobane nokufa noma ucansi.
UGreenberg uthi: “Izingane eziningi zinezinto ezingaziqondi engqondweni yazo.
Kuphinde kube nodaba lokungalali kahle, kusho uGreenberg.
“Izingane ezinama-smartphone zilingeka ukuba zingalali kuze kube sebusuku kakhulu zidlala imidlalo futhi zithumelelana imiyalezo nabangane.”
Omakhalekhukhwini nabo baletha ubungozi bokuxhashazwa ku-inthanethi.
“Ngaphambili, uma usungene endlini wawuphephile,” kusho uGreenberg. "Kodwa ngomakhalekhukhwini kanye nenkundla yezokuxhumana, akekho umuntu ohlale ephephile [ekuqinelweni]."
Izingane ezinomakhalekhukhwini nazo zingahlukaniswa nabantu, usho kanje. Ukuthumela imiyalezo eminingi kanye nenkundla yezokuxhumana kusho isikhathi esincane nabangane mathupha.
Kunezinye izizathu zokungaziniki izingane omakhalekhukhwini ngaphambi kokuba zilunge.
Abanye abazali bazivikela ngokweqile izingane zabo kangangokuthi bafuna ukuxhumana nazo njalo ngaphandle kokucabanga ngezingozi ezingase zibe khona, kusho uMark L. Goldstein, PhD, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane eChicago. Izingane ezincane ezinomakhalekhukhwini zinganikeza ulwazi kubantu abangalungile.
Kukhona futhi ubungozi bokukhuthaza ukuncika, uthi.
Yiqiniso, izindleko yinto okufanele ucabange ngayo, futhi. Ngemva kokuthenga ifoni, udinga uhlelo lwedatha oluhlukile noma ukwengeza ingane yakho kweyakho. Ingakanani idatha ayisebenzisayo izothinta ibhili lakho.
Ukwenza Isinqumo
Ingane yakho isilungele ukuthola umakhalekhukhwini lapho ingahlala nawe ukuze ikwenzele imihlahlandlela yokuwusebenzisa, kusho uGreenberg.
“Uma bengazimisele ngokwenza lolu hlu, abakalungeli.”
Ezinganeni eziningi, lokhu kwenzeka eminyakeni eyi-12 noma engu-13, uthi. Abazali kufanele benze isinqumo, hhayi ogogo nomkhulu abanezisusa ezinhle noma abangani abapha ingane yakho ngocingo.
“Uma bebona into ethusayo, ingabe bayiphatha kahle? Ingabe beza kuwe uma kukhona okungahambi kahle? Ingabe banayo intuition enhle?” Greenberg uthi.
Cabanga ukuthi kungani ingane yakho ifuna umakhalekhukhwini, kusho uGoldstein. Ingabe ufuna ukuthumela abangani imiyalezo? Noma uchithe isikhathi ku-Facebook? Ingabe ufuna ifoni ngoba ingane yakini noma umzala omdala unayo?
“Bheka amakhono okuqonda engane yakho ukuze ikwazi ukusebenzisa umakhalekhukhwini ngendlela efanele, futhi okubaluleke nakakhulu, ingabe isikulungele ngokomzwelo?”
Yahlulela ukuvuthwa kwengane yakho, kusho uGoldstein. Ingabe uye wabonisa umthwalo wemfanelo ngezinye izindlela, ngokwesibonelo, ngokuqeda umsebenzi wesikole ngesikhathi nokuhlanza ikamelo lakhe?
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Umakhalekhukhwini Okuphephile Nokubophezeleka
- Sebenzisa izinhlelo zokusebenza noma izilawuli zabazali ezikhawulela ukuthi ingane yakho ingakhuluma nobani futhi ithumele umbhalo kanye nezinhlobo zamawebhusayithi engawabuka.
- Ungayivumeli ingane yakho ukuthi ilayishe imidlalo yevidiyo nezinhlelo zokusebenza.
- Khawulela ingane yakho ocingweni oluyisisekelo kune-smartphone.
- Yiba yisibonelo esihle ngocingo lwakho.
- Setha imikhawulo yesikhathi sesikrini.
- Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi uzoqapha ukusebenzisa kwayo umakhalekhukhwini eduze.
- Yazi amaphasiwedi abo.
- Thatha iselula yengane yakho okungenani kusasele ihora ngaphambi kokulala futhi uyishaje ngaphandle kwekamelo lokulala.
- Khuluma nezingane zakho ngezingozi zokuthumelelana imiyalezo ngocansi.
Umthombo: https://www.webmd.com
