Emasontweni ambalwa edlule sibe nezigameko ezishaqisayo zokuzama ukuthumba izingane endaweni yaseGauteng. Kufanele siqinisekise ukuthi izingane zethu zivikelekile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kunamathiphu okuphepha komuntu siqu esikholelwa ukuthi abazali bangawalandela ukuze benze umehluko ekuphepheni kwezingane zabo futhi banikeze wonke umuntu ukuthula kwengqondo.
Kuyasiza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi izingane zakho zazi kahle ukuthi zingayigwema kanjani ingozi engaba khona, nokuthi yini okufanele ziyenze uma kwenzeka okuthile okubi kuzona.
- Izingane kufanele njalo zihamba ngezinyawo ziya noma zibuya esikoleni nomngane noma nabangane. Uma ingane yakho ihamba yodwa, kuwumqondo omuhle ukubuza uthisha noma abanye abazali ukuthi bayazazi yini ezinye izingane zasendaweni abenza okufanayo. Amanye amadolobha aseqalile “amabhasi ahamba ngezinyawo”, lapho abazali bendawo bevolontiya ukuya nokubuya esikoleni neqembu lezingane zesikole ukuze baqinisekise ukuphepha kwazo.
- Namathela emigwaqweni oyaziyo futhi ungalokothi uthathe izindlela ezinqamulelayo ezindaweni ongazazi noma ezithule
- Uma ulandwa esikoleni, hlala ulinde ngaphakathi emagcekeni ukuze ilifti yakho ifike; ungaphumi emagcekeni uyobabheka emgwaqeni
- Khumbula, abazali bakho abasoze bathumela umuntu ongamazi ukuba azokulanda. Ungalinge ungene emotweni yomuntu ongamazi noma ethi umuntu omthandayo ulimele kufanele akulande. Kungumqondo omuhle ukucabangela ukusebenzisa isistimu yephasiwedi, ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi umuntu okuqoqayo empeleni ungumngane wabazali bakho noma othile ongamethemba.
Uma kufika umuntu ongamazi, ungakhulumi naye kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubonakala enobungane kangakanani. Uma othile ezama ukukubamba, ukulwa, ukukhahlela nokuklabalasa ngokuthi akayena umama noma ubaba wakho.
Kwezinye izimo izingane kudingeka zizibone ziya noma zibuya esikoleni futhi zihlale matasa kuze kube yilapho umama nobaba bebuyela ekhaya kusihlwa.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izingane zazi ukuthi zingavumeli muntu ukuba angene endlini ngaphandle kwemvume yakho. Uma uzofika sekwephuzile, yazisa izingane zakho ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka futhi uzinikeze umbono wokuthi zingalindela nini ukuba ube sekhaya.
Dweba uhlu lwezinombolo zocingo ezibalulekile. Lolu hlu kufanele lubandakanye abezimo eziphuthumayo kanye nezinombolo zomsebenzi kamama nobaba kanye nomakhalekhukhwini. Yigcine kumakhalekhukhwini wengane yakho, futhi uyinamathisele ocingweni lwasendlini noma eduze nalo. Kubalulekile futhi ukubachazela ukuthi kufanele zisetshenziswe nini.
Wonke umuntu ekhaya kufanele futhi azi ukuthi ungalusebenzisa kanjani uhlelo lwakho lokuvikela ikhaya - kuhlanganisa nezingane - nokuthi zisetshenziswa nini futhi kanjani izinkinobho zokwethuka.
Chofoza ukuze ubuke: Inguqulo Ye-inthanethi
