Ukuba umzali nokwamukela ingane eyodwa kuyisenzakalo esishintsha ukuphila. Izindaba zokushaywa kwenhliziyo okubili esibelethweni zivame ukusigcwalisa ngesasasa, ukulangazelela nokukhathazeka.
Imicabango eminingi ingase igcwale ezingqondweni zethu lapho sithola amawele: Ingabe izingane zethu zizoba nempilo? Sizobanakekela futhi sibanakekele kanjani abantwana abangamawele? Indlela yokondla izingane ezimbili ngesikhathi esisodwa? Kuthiwani uma zifana futhi ngingakwazi ukuzihlukanisa? Singagijima kanjani ngemva kwabantwana ababili abasacathula? Singaba kanjani ubulungisa futhi silinganisele lapho sibhekene nezingxabano zezelamani?
Amathiphu Okukhulisa Amawele
- Cela usizo lokukhulisa izingane. Kungaba umzali oyedwa noma umndeni wabazali ababili, finyelela umndeni wakho, abangani nomakhelwane ukuze uthole ukwesekwa lapho ukhulisa amawele. Ngokuvamile abantu bayakwamukela ukumenywa ukuba bagone, bamfunze noma badlale nengane. Wonke umuntu uthanda ukuzizwa edingeka. Abangane bakho noma umndeni wakho uzokujabulela ukumenywa ukuze ube nezingane ukuze uthathe isihlwathi.
- Yakha imizila namashejuli. Umjikelezo ohlelekile futhi obikezelwayo usiza ilungu ngalinye lomndeni ukuthi lisebenze ngendlela elikwazi ngayo ukusebenza kahle. Inqubo yansuku zonke isiza izingane zakho ukuba zizizwe ziphephile ngoba ziyazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani nalokho okufanele zikulindele ngokulandelayo. Ukuthola izingane ohlelweni olufanayo lokulala, uma kungenzeka, kukuvumela imizuzu embalwa ukuthi ungagijimi ngesivinini esigcwele. Njengoba izingane ezingamawele zikhula, nazo zizojwayela ukulandela isimiso.
- Xhumana nabanye abazali bamawele. Abazali bamawele banganikezana usekelo olucebile ngokwabelana ngolwazi lwabo nolwazi lwabo ekukhuliseni amawele. Imiphakathi eminingi inabazali bamakilabhu angamawele. Amakilabhu endawo angatholakala ngeNhlangano Kazwelonke Yomama Bamawele.
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