Amakhono okuphila ahambisana nokuthuthuka, futhi angasiza ingane yakho ukuthi iphumelele kamuva ekuphileni. Zitholele amakhono empilo abaluleke kakhulu ingane yakho okufanele iwazi nezindlela zokuwahlanganisa esimisweni sakho sansuku zonke.
Encwadini yakhe ethi " Mind in the Making ," u-Ellen Galinsky uchaza amakhono ayisikhombisa adingekayo ukuze uphumelele kuzo zonke izici zokuphila, kuhlanganise nesikole, ubudlelwano, nomsebenzi. Izingane zingakwazi ukufunda lawa makhono kusukela zisencane.
Imaphi Amakhono Empilo Abaluleke Kakhulu Ukuze Izingane Ziwafunde?
- Gxila kanye nokuzithiba
- Ukubuka-Ukuthatha
- Ukuxhumana
- Ukwenza Izixhumanisi
- Ukucabanga okubucayi
- Ukubhekana Nezinselele
- Ukuziqondisa, Ukufunda Okuhlanganyele
Ayini Amakhono Okuphila?
Kwesinye isikhathi othisha bachaza lawa makhono njengokuthi “ ukufunda ukufunda” amakhono , angathuthukiswa ngokwenza imisebenzi yansuku zonke eyenziwe ngamabomu.
Ngezansi, sihlola amakhono ayisikhombisa abalulekile empilo futhi sinikeza izindlela ezilula zokuwakhulisa.
Imisebenzi Yekhono Lokuphila Ongayifaka Emigudwini Yansuku zonke Yengane Yakho
1. Gxila kanye nokuzithiba
Izingane zikhula kahle amashejuli, imikhuba, kanye nezinqubo , ezingagcini nje ngokudala umuzwa wokuphepha, kodwa futhi siza izingane zifunde ukuzithiba futhi ugxile. Khuluma nengane yakho ngokuthi yini ongayilindela usuku ngalunye. Hlela ikhaya lakho ukuze ingane yakho yazi ukuthi izibeka kuphi izicathulo, amajazi, nempahla yomuntu siqu. Siphila emhlabeni onomsindo, ogcwele iziphazamiso, imisebenzi ethulile efana nokufunda incwadi, ukujabulela umsebenzi wezinzwa s , noma ukuqedela iphazili ndawonye kungasiza ingane yakho ukuthi yehlise ijubane futhi ikhulise ukugxila.
2. Ukuthatha Umbono
Ukucabanga ngombono womunye akuzifikeli ngokwemvelo ezinganeni eziningi, kodwa kungathuthukiswa. Xoxa ngemizwa yabalingisi kanye nezisusa ezincwadini ozifundile, isib. Bhekisisa ukuthi abanye bazizwa kanjani , isib, “u-Alex wayephatheke kabi ngokuthi akazange alithole ithuba. Ngiyazibuza ukuthi yini esingayenza ukuze azizwe engcono.”
3. Ukuxhumana
Izingane zidinga ukuxhumana komuntu siqu okuthinta inhliziyo nsuku zonke ukuze zakhe amakhono anempilo ezenhlalo-ngokomzwelo , okuhlanganisa ikhono lokuqonda nokuxhumana nabanye. Nakuba ijubane ezithuthukisa ngalo la makhono lingase lihluke, izingane kudingeka zifunde ukwenza kanjalo " funda" izinkomba zomphakathi futhi ulalelisise. Kumelwe bacabangele lokho abafuna ukukukhuluma kanye nendlela ephumelela kakhulu yokwabelana ngakho. Ukuxoxa nje nomuntu omdala onentshisekelo kungasiza ekwakheni lamakhono. Chitha isikhathi nsuku zonke ulalele futhi uphendule ingane yakho ngaphandle kweziphazamiso.
4. Ukwenza Izixhumanisi
Ukufunda kweqiniso, kusho uGalinsky, kwenzeka lapho sibona ukuxhumana namaphethini phakathi kwezinto ezibonakala zihlukene. Lapho senza ukuxhumana okwengeziwe, kulapho senza khona umqondo nencazelo eyengeziwe ngomhlaba. Izingane ezincane ziqala ukubona ukuxhumana namaphethini njengoba zinjalo hlela izinto zasendlini eziyisisekelo njengamathoyizi namasokisi. Izenzo ezilula, njengokukhetha izingubo ezifanele isimo sezulu, zibasiza bakhe ukuxhumana. Bonisa ukuxhumana okwengeziwe okungacacile ekuphileni, noma ezindabeni ozifundayo, isb, “Le ncwadi ingikhumbuza ngesikhathi sikhetha amagobolondo olwandle olwandle.”
5. Ukucabanga Okubalulekile
Siphila ezweni eliyinkimbinkimbi lapho abantu abadala kudingeka bahlaziye ulwazi futhi benze izinqumo ngezinto eziyinkulungwane nsuku zonke. Enye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu izindlela zokwakha ukucabanga okujulile kungomdlalo ocebile, ovulekile. Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho inesikhathi nsuku zonke sokudlala yodwa noma nabangane. Lo mdlalo ungase uhlanganise ukwenza izindima (ukuzenza izicishamlilo noma amaqhawe amakhulu), izakhiwo zokwakha, ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi, noma ukudlala imidlalo yangaphandle yomzimba, efana nomaka noma umacashelana. Ngokudlala, izingane zakha ama-hypotheses, zibeka engcupheni, zizame imibono yazo, yenza amaphutha , futhi uthole izixazululo—zonke izici ezibalulekile ekwakheni ukucabanga okujulile.
6. Ukubhekana Nezinselele
Esinye sezici ezibalulekile esingaba naso ekuphileni yileso resilienc e —ukwazi ukubhekana nezinselele, ukubuyisela emuva ekuhlulekeni, futhi uqhubeke uzama. Izingane zifunda ukubhekana nezinselele lapho sakha indawo enenani elifanele lesakhiwo—hhayi nje ukuthi sibe nemingcele, kodwa eyanele ukubenza bazizwe bephephile. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi izame izinto ezintsha futhi vumela ingozi enengqondo , njengokugibela esihlahleni noma ukugibela ibhayisikili. Nikeza inselele entsha lapho ebonakala elungile, isb, “Ngicabanga ukuthi usukulungele ukufunda ukubopha izicathulo zakho. Ake sikuzame.” Gxila kakhulu emizamweni kunempumelelo, isb, “Ukufunda ukubopha izicathulo zakho bekunzima ngempela, kodwa uqhubekile nokuzama. Wenze kahle."
7. Ukuziqondisa, Ukufunda Okuhlanganyele
Ingane ethanda ukufunda iba umuntu omdala ongavamile ukuba nesithukuthezi ekuphileni. Ukuze ukhuthaze uthando lokufunda, zama ukunciphisa ithelevishini futhi ukhuthaze ukufunda okuningi, ukudlala, kanye ukuhlola okuvulekile . Khombisa ilukuluku nomdlandla wokufunda empilweni yakho ngokuvakashela umtapo wolwazi ndawonye, ngokugcina izinto zobuciko, ngokwenza imidlalo itholakale, kanye kuvumela ezinye izinkinga ekhaya .
Ngokulandela lawa macebiso alula, ungakwazi ukusiza kalula ingane yakho yakhe amakhono abalulekile.
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