Abazali abaningi babona ukwephulwa kwemingcele njengokuziphatha okungafanele. Ingane iyawazi umthetho, iyayiqonda into elindelekile, bese iwaphula noma kunjalo. Lokhu kuvame ukuba okomuntu siqu, okukhathazayo, nokudida, ikakhulukazi uma kwenzeka kaningi. Abazali basala bezibuza ukuthi kungani izingane zibonakala ziphonsela inselelo imingcele ngisho nalapho imingcele icacile futhi iqhubeka njalo.
Iqiniso liwukuthi izingane aziphuli imingcele ngoba zifuna amandla noma isiphithiphithi. Ziphula imingcele ngoba zizama ukuphendula umbuzo wangaphakathi mayelana nokuphepha, ukuxhumana, nokubikezeleka. Ukuhlola imingcele akukhona ukungasebenzi kahle kokuba umzali noma uphawu lwengane enobunzima. Kuyingxenye evamile futhi enenjongo yokukhula.
Ukwephulwa Kwemingcele Kuwuphawu Lokukhula
Izingane zihlala zizama ukuqonda umhlaba ezihlala kuwo. Imingcele isiza ekuchazeni lowo mhlaba, kodwa iba nenjongo kuphela uma ihloliwe. Lapho ingane iphula umngcele, iqoqa ulwazi mayelana nokuthi yini eqinile, yini eguquguqukayo, nokuthi kwenzekani uma izinto zingaqiniseki.
Lokhu kuhlolwa akubalulekile noma akukho ukukhohlisa. Kuqhutshwa uhlelo lwezinzwa olusakhula oludinga ukuba luqinisekiswe. Izingane zidinga ukuzwa imingcele kaningi ukuze zithembe ukuthi leyo mingcele izoma, ikakhulukazi uma imizwa iphezulu.
Izingane Zephula Imithetho Uma Zingazethembi Noma Zingahlalisekile
Ukwephulwa kwemingcele kuyanda uma izingane zingazethembi ngokomzwelo, zithukuthele kakhulu, zikhathele, zilambile, noma zicindezelekile. Lezi zimo zinciphisa ukulawula kwangaphakathi futhi zandisa isidingo sesakhiwo sangaphandle.
Uma izingane zingazethembi ngaphakathi, zifuna ukuqiniseka ngaphandle. Imingcele inikeza lokho kuqiniseka. Ukuyihlola kuyindlela yokuhlola ukuthi indawo isaphephile futhi iyabikezeleka yini.
Lokho okubonakala njengokuphikisa kuvame ukuba isicelo sokuqinisekisa.
Imingcele Imayelana Nokulawula, Hhayi Ukulawula
Abazali abaningi bahumusha ukwephulwa kwemingcele njengenselelo egunyeni. Lokhu kubeka izinto ngale ndlela kwenza ukusebenzisana kube nomqondo wokuphikisana, okuvusa ukungezwani kuzo zombili izinhlangothi.
Eqinisweni, imingcele isekela ukulawula. Inciphisa ukungaqiniseki futhi isize izingane ukuhlela ukuziphatha kwazo lapho imizwa imangalisayo. Izingane ziphula imingcele hhayi ukuze zigweme imingcele, kodwa ukuze zizizwe zibanjwe yiyo.
Impendulo ethulile, ebikezelekayo ivame ukuthulisa ingane ngokuphumelelayo kunezinkinga ezinzima.
Kungani Ukuhlolwa Kwemingcele Kwanda Phakathi Nezingcuguquko
Izingcuguquko zibeka umthwalo omkhulu ohlelweni lwezinzwa. Izinguquko ezifana nokuqala isikole, ukuthutha indlu, ukwamukela umntwana, noma ngisho nezinguquko zansuku zonke ezifana nesikhathi sokulala noma ukushiya indlu zingandisa ukuhlolwa kwemingcele.
Phakathi nezingcuguquko, izingane zinamandla angaphakathi amancane. Zithembele kakhulu kubantu abadala ukuze banikeze isakhiwo nokuqinisekiswa. Ukwephulwa kwemingcele kuvame ukuba namandla ngaphambi noma ngemuva koshintsho, hhayi ngoba umngcele ungacacile, kodwa ngoba ingane idinga ukuquketwa okwengeziwe.
Ukungaguquguquki Kuphela Akukuvimbi Ukwephula Umthetho
Abazali bavame ukutshelwa ukuthi ukungaguquguquki kuzoqeda ukuhlolwa kwemingcele. Nakuba ukubikezeleka kuwusizo, akuyona yonke into.
Izingane zingawazi kahle umngcele futhi zisawuphule uma zingalawuleki. Lokhu akusho ukuthi umngcele wehlulekile. Kusho ukuthi ingane idinga usizo, hhayi ukwanda kwesimo.
Imingcele isebenza kahle uma ihambisana nokuxhumana nokuphepha ngokomzwelo.
Kungani Umthwalo Womzwelo Ubangela Ukuhlolwa Kwemingcele
Izingane zimunca amandla omzwelo endaweni yazo. Ukucindezeleka komndeni, ukungezwani kwabazali, amashejuli aminyene, nokukhathazeka okungashiwongo konke kwandisa umthwalo womzwelo wengane.
Lapho umthwalo womzwelo uphakeme, izingane ziba namandla amancane okulawula uqobo. Ukwephulwa kwemingcele kuba njalo ngoba zidinga abantu abadala ukuze basize ekuquketheni lokho kugcwala.
Yingakho ukuhlolwa kwemingcele kuvame ukwanda ngezikhathi zokucindezeleka emndenini.
Ukwephula Umthetho Akuyona Into Yokufuna Ukunakwa Ngendlela Esicabanga Ngayo
Ukuhlolwa kwemingcele kuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi ukufuna ukunakwa. Nakuba ukuxhumana kuyingxenye yesithombe, kunembe kakhudlwana ukusho ukuthi izingane zifuna ukuqinisekiswa, hhayi ukusabela.
Izingane zihlola ukuthi abantu abadala bahlala bekhona, bezolile, futhi bekhona yini ngisho nalapho imingcele iphonselwa inselelo. Ukusabela okunamandla ngokomzwelo okuvela kubantu abadala kungandisa ukungazethembi kunokukunciphisa.
Ukuba khona okuzolile kudlulisela ukuphepha ngokusobala kunokuqina.
Kungani Ukusabela Okunzima Kuphazamisa
Lapho imingcele igcinwa ngolaka, izinsongo, noma ukuhlazeka, izingane zingase ziyeke ukwephula umthetho okwesikhashana, kodwa ukulawula akuthuthuki.
Ukusabela okunzima kwandisa ukwesaba kunokuphepha. Izingane zingase zithobele, kodwa ukucindezeleka kwangaphakathi kuyanda. Ukwephula umthetho kuvame ukubuya kamuva ngendlela enamandla kakhulu.
Imingcele ephumelelayo inciphisa ukucindezeleka. Ezingaphumeleli ziyakwandisa.
Izingane Zifundani Uma Imingcele Igcinwa Ngokuthula
Lapho abantu abadala begcina imingcele ngokuqiniseka nangothando, izingane zifunda ukuthi imingcele ithembekile futhi ubudlelwano buphephile.
Zifunda ukuthi imizwa ayibangeli ukuthi abantu abadala banyamalale noma besabeke. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kunciphisa isidingo sokuhlola ngoba ukwethemba kuyakhula.
Imingcele ethulile yakha ukulawula kwangaphakathi kancane kancane.
Kungani Izingane Ziphula Imithetho Nabazali Ngaphezu Kwabanye
Izingane zivame ukuphula imingcele kakhulu nabantu abadala ezizizwa ziphephe kakhulu nabo. Lokhu kungase kuzwakale kungalungile futhi kudumaze kakhulu abazali.
Ngokombono wohlelo lwezinzwa, kuyaqondakala. Izingane zikhulula ukucindezeleka lapho zizizwa zithembekile ngokwanele ukuba zenze kanjalo. Ukuhlolwa kwemingcele kungenye indlela leyo ncindezeleko evela ngayo.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi abazali benza okungafanele. Kuvame ukusho ukuthi ubudlelwano bunamandla.
Ukucindezeleka Kwabazali Kuthinta Kanjani Ukwephula Umthetho
Lapho abazali becindezelekile kakhulu, imingcele ingase ingaguquguquki noma igcwale imizwa. Izingane zikuzwa lokhu kungazinzi futhi zihlola kaningi.
Lokhu kudala umjikelezo lapho ukucindezeleka kwanda kuzo zombili izinhlangothi. Ukwephulwa kwemingcele kuyanda, futhi abazali bazizwa bengaphumeleli.
Ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka kwabazali kuvame ukunciphisa ukuhlolwa kwemingcele ngaphandle kokushintsha umngcele uqobo.
Yini Ngempela Esiza Ukunciphisa Ukwephula Umthetho
Izingane ziphula imingcele kancane uma zizizwa ziqondile, zixhumekile, futhi zisekelwe. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukuphumula okwanele, izimiso ezingaguquguquki, ukutholakala ngokomzwelo, kanye nokusabela okuzolile.
Kuhlanganisa nokubona lapho ukwephulwa kwemingcele kuwuphawu kunokuba inkinga yokuziphatha. Ukusabela ngokufuna ukwazi kunokukhungatheka kushintsha indlela izinto ezenzeka ngayo.
Inhloso akukhona ukuqeda ukuhlolwa kwemingcele, kodwa ukusekela izingane ngakho.
Imingcele Isabaluleke Kakhulu
Ukuqonda ukuthi kungani izingane ziphula imingcele akusho ukususa imingcele. Imingcele ibalulekile ukuze kuphephe futhi kukhule.
Umehluko usendleleni imingcele egcinwa ngayo. Imingcele ethulile, eqinile, futhi exhunyiwe iphumelela kakhulu kunezengcindezelo noma ezisabelayo.
Izingane zikhula kahle uma imingcele izwakala iphephile kunokuba ijezise.
Lapho Ukwephula Umthetho Kuzwakala Kungapheli
Ezinye izigaba zihlanganisa ukuhlolwa kwemingcele okunamandla okuzwakala kungapheli. Lokhu kuvame kakhulu ngesikhathi sobusana, izikhathi zokukhula, nezikhathi zokucindezeleka okukhulu.
Lezi zigaba zidlula, ikakhulukazi uma abantu abadala behlala beqinile futhi besekela. Ukulawula okwanda akuvamile ukukunciphisa.
Ukubekezela nokungaguquguquki kokuba khona kubaluleke kakhulu kunemithetho eqinile.
Imingcele Nokuphepha Ngokomzwelo
Imingcele idlulisa ukunakekelwa lapho idluliswa ngenhlonipho. Ibonisa izingane ukuthi abantu abadala banaka futhi bazimisele ukuzivikela.
Lapho imingcele ingabikezeleki noma igcwele imizwa, izingane zizizwa zingaphephile futhi zihlola kakhulu.
Ukuphepha ngokomzwelo kuyisisekelo esivumela imingcele ukuba isebenze.
Imibuzo Ebuzwa Njalo Mayelana Nokuthi Kungani Izingane Ziphula Imithetho
Ingabe izingane ezephula imingcele zizama ukulawula abazali?
Cha. Ukwephulwa kwemingcele kumayelana nokufuna ukuphepha nokuqinisekiswa, hhayi ukulawula noma ukukhohlisa.
Ingabe imingcele kufanele ishintshe lapho izingane zihlala ziyihlola?
Umngcele ngokwawo uvame ukuhlala unjalo. Okudinga ukulungiswa kuvame ukuba ileveli yokusekela nokuxhumana okuzungezile.
Ingabe ukungayinaki imingcele kuyasiza?
Ukungayinaki kungase kusebenze ekuziphatheni okuncane, kodwa izimpendulo ezingaguquguquki, ezolile ziphumelela kakhulu emingceleni ebalulekile.
Kungani ingane yami iphula imingcele kakhulu uma ikhathele?
Ukukhathala kunciphisa ukulawula. Lapho izingane zikhathele, zithembele kakhulu esakhiweni sangaphandle nasekusekelweni.
Ingabe ukwephulwa kwemingcele kuwuphawu lokungabi umzali omuhle?
Cha. Kuwukuziphatha okujwayelekile kokukhula futhi kuvame ukuba uphawu lokuthi ingane izizwa iqinisekile ngokwanele ukuba ihlole.
Kufanele ngikhathazeke nini ngokwephulwa kwemingcele?
Uma ukuziphatha kuzwakala kungenasizathu, kungaphephile, noma kuqhubeka kanye nezinye izinto ezikhathazayo, usizo olwengeziwe lungase lube lusizo.
Isizathu sangempela sokuthi kungani izingane ziphula imingcele akukhona ngoba zifuna ukwenza impilo ibe nzima. Zihlola ukuthi umhlaba ozizungezile uqinile ngokwanele yini ukuze uzibambe lapho zizizwa zingazinzi ngaphakathi. Imingcele iyindlela izingane ezifunda ngayo ukuthi ukuphepha kuhlala kuphi. Lapho abazali bephendula ngokuqinile nangokuzola nangokuxhumana, ukuhlolwa kwemingcele kuncipha kancane kancane, hhayi ngoba izingane ziqondiswa, kodwa ngoba zizizwa zithembekile ngokwanele ukuba ziyeke ukubuza umbuzo.
