Njengabazali, sonke sifuna ukubona izingane zethu zikhula zibe abantu abajabulayo nabaphumelelayo abakwazi ukufeza amaphupho abo. Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu esingayenza ukuze sibasize kule ndlela ukuvula amandla abo futhi sikhuthaze uthando lokufunda kusukela besebancane.
Empeleni, ukuvula amandla engane yakho kumayelana nokudala indawo ekhulisayo futhi esekela izintshisekelo zayo nezinkanuko, futhi eyikhuthaza ukuba ihlole imibono nemiqondo emisha. Lokhu kungathatha izinhlobo eziningi, kusukela ekunikezeni ukufinyelela ezincwadini nasezinsizeni zemfundo, kuya ekubhaliseleni imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole ehambisana nezinto abazithandayo.
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Esinye isici esibalulekile ekukhuthazeni uthando lokufunda ukwenza imfundo ibe mnandi futhi ihehe. Izingane zifuna ukwazi ngokwemvelo futhi ziyakuthanda ukuhlola nokuthola izinto ezintsha, ngakho ukuthola izindlela zokuhlanganisa lokhu ekufundeni kwazo kungaba yimpumelelo kakhulu. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokumane ufunde incwadi yokufunda, zama ukuthatha ingane yakho ohambweni oluthile noma usebenzise imisebenzi eyenziwayo ukuze uyisize iqonde imiqondo eyifundayo.
Esinye isici esibalulekile sokuvula ikhono lengane yakho ukugxila emandleni nasemakhonweni ayo, kunokugxila ebuthakathakeni noma ekulinganiselweni kwayo. Ngokwakhela phezu kwamandla abo futhi ubasize bathuthukise amakhono abo ahlukile, ungabasiza ukuthi bazizwe beqiniseka futhi bekhuthazekile ohambweni lwabo lokufunda.
Yiqiniso, zonke izingane zihlukile, futhi lokho okusebenza komunye kungase kungasebenzi kwenye. Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi uhlale uvumelana nezidingo nezithakazelo zengane yakho, futhi ube ovumelana nezimo endleleni yakho yokukhuluma. Ngokuthatha isikhathi sokuqonda amandla abo angawodwana, izinselelo, nesitayela sokufunda, ungalungisa indlela yakho ukuze usekele kangcono ukukhula nokuthuthuka kwabo.
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Ekupheleni kosuku, ukukhuthaza uthando lokufunda kumayelana nokudala indawo enhle nesekelayo ekhuthaza ukuhlola, ilukuluku, nokukhula. Ngokutshala imali emfundweni yengane yakho futhi uyinikeze amathuluzi nezinsiza ezidingayo ukuze iphumelele, ungayisiza ivule amandla ayo aphelele futhi ifeze amaphupho ayo.
Ngokungeziwe kulawa macebiso, sincoma kakhulu incwadi ethi " Raising Confident Children: A Guide for Parents " ka-4aKid. Lo mhlahlandlela ophelele unikeza ingcebo yezeluleko ezisebenzayo namasu okukhulisa ukuzethemba kwengane yakho, ukukhuthaza ukuzimela kwayo, nokusekela ukukhula kwayo ezifundweni nokomuntu siqu. Ngesitayela sayo esihehayo nesifundeka kalula, le ncwadi iqinisekile ukuthi izoba isisetshenziswa esibalulekile sabazali abafuna ukusiza izingane zabo ziphumelele.
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Ngakho uma usukulungele ukuvula ikhono lengane yakho futhi uyisize ibe ngcono kakhulu engaba yiyo, sikukhuthaza ukuba uthathe ikhophi yencwadi ethi " Raising Confident Children: A Guide for Parents " namuhla. Ingane yakho izokubonga ngakho!
