Uma uke wasolwa ngokona ingane yakho ngokuyigona lapho ikhala, lungiselela ukupompa isibhakela, ngoba ucwaningo olusha luqinisekisa ukuthi umuzwa wakho wemvelo ulungile!
Ingane ikhala ngesizathu
Ucwaningo oluholwa ngu Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseNotre Dame uDarcia Narvaez ithole ukuthi izingane zizokhula zibe abantu abadala abanempilo futhi abajabule kakhudlwana uma banabazali abanothando, abazwelayo nabadlala ngabo kusukela zizalwa.
“Kwesinye isikhathi sinabazali abathi uzomosha ingane uma uyilanda uma icindezelekile. Cha, awukwazi ukumosha ingane,” kusho uSolwazi Narvaez I-WSBT .
Sonke siyazi ukuthi kungaba khona ziningi izizathu zokukhala kwengane kanye noSolwazi Narvaez uthi abazali abalokothi benze iphutha ngokufuna ukunikeza induduzo.
“Okunye wukulandela imizwa yakho ngoba thina njengabazali sifuna ukubamba izingane zethu,” usho kanje.
“Sifuna ukuyigcina iseduze leyo ngane, silandele lowo mqondo. Sifuna ukuyithulisa futhi ijabule ingane ngoba ukukhala kuyakhathaza.”
Ucwaningo lwakamuva
Ucwaningo oluphothuliwe nguSolwazi Narvaez nozakwabo ababili luzoshicilelwa esihlokweni esizayo kujenali Isayensi Yentuthuko Esetshenziswayo .
Laba abathathu bahlole abantu abadala abangaphezu kuka-600 mayelana nempilo yabo yobuntwana, kusukela ekutheni kungakanani ukuthintwa kothando kanye nokudlala ngokukhululekile ababenakho njengezingane kuya esilinganisweni sesikhathi somndeni esihle ababesijabulele.
Ehlanganisa izimpendulo, wathola abantu abadala abanokukhathazeka okuncane nempilo engcono yengqondo yilabo ababenokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kwasebuntwaneni.
"Lezi zinto ngokuzimela, kodwa futhi zahlanganiswa ndawonye, zabikezela impilo yengqondo yabantu abadala, ngakho-ke babecindezelekile kancane, bangakhathazeki kakhulu, kanye namandla abo omphakathi - babekwazi ukuthatha umbono wabanye abantu," kusho uSolwazi Narvaez. I-WSBT .
"Babengcono ekusebenzelaneni nabanye futhi babe nezinhliziyo ezivulekile."
Umlayezo oya kubazali
USolwazi Narvaez ukhuthaza abazali ukuthi baphendule ezidingweni zengane yabo - ukuyibamba, ukuyithinta futhi ukuyinyakazisa ngendlela abafuna ngayo, bazi ukuthi iyilungele.
Uthi: “Okwenziwa abazali ngalezo zinyanga neminyaka yokuqala kuyithinta ngempela indlela ubuchopho obuzokhula ngayo ukuphila kwabo konke.
“(Izingane) zikhula kangcono ngaleyo ndlela. Futhi uzigcine zizolile, ngoba zonke izinhlobo zezinhlelo zisungula indlela ezizosebenza ngayo.
"Uma ubavumela ukuba bakhale kakhulu, lezo zinhlelo zizongena kalula ekucindezelekeni," uyanezela.
Thola idolobhana lakho
Kukhona olunye uhlangothi kukho konke lokhu.
Ngokwami, ngathola kunezikhathi emasontweni ami okuqala ambalwa njengomzali omusha lapho ukukhala kwakubonakala kungapheli.
Ngangizizwa ngikhathele futhi ngezinye izikhathi kwakudingeka ngiphumele ngaphandle kwekamelo lendodana yami, ngiyishiye ikhale ohlakeni lwayo, iphefumule.
Umyeni wami wayesemsebenzini futhi sasihlala amahora kude nomndeni wami oseduze kanye nohlelo oluqinile lokusekela.
Kulapho uSolwazi Narveaz ethi umphakathi wabanakekeli ubalulekile.
Masibhekane nakho, kuyilapho ingqondo yakho engokwemvelo ingase ikutshele ukuthi ulande umntwana, uma ungazange ulale futhi ungasitholi isikhathi sokudla akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi lezo zifiso zisebenzela kuphela ukondla (mina) icala lomama.
USolwazi Narvaez uthi ogogo nomkhulu, omalumekazi, omalume nabangane kufanele babambe iqhaza elibonakalayo.
“Sidinga, njengomphakathi seseke imindeni ukuze inikeze izingane ezikudingayo,” kusho uSolwazi Narvaez.
“Ngempela asizange siphenduke sibe umzali oyedwa. Umlando wethu uwukuba nomphakathi wabanakekeli abazosiza - isigodi, ukuze kuthi lapho umama noma ubaba edinga ikhefu, kube khona othile olungele ukungena.
Umthombo: http://babyology.com.au/health/cant-spoil-baby-new-research-says-comfort-crying-babies.html
