Ukuzalwa kwakho kungenye yezinto ezibalulekile empilweni yakho. Ufanelwe ubulili futhi kubhekiselwe kubo ngendlela efanele.
Ukungaphathwa ngendlela efanele nganoma yisiphi isikhathi kuzwakalisa ukucindezeleka, kungasebenzi, futhi kubangela ukukhathazeka. Uma kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakho -- isikhathi lapho usuvele uzizwa usengozini futhi udinga ukusekelwa -- okuhlangenwe nakho kungase kucasule nakakhulu. Ngeshwa, ngenxa yesimo sesimo sasesibhedlela, lapho abantu abaningi bengena bephuma ekamelweni lakho futhi amashifu ashintsha, kanye nokungabaza okuqhubekayo kwamasiko ukufunda, ukubheka, nokuhlonipha izabizwana, amathuba okuba ungaphathwa ngendlela efanele (noma wena, uzakwethu/abalingani bakho, kanye/noma umuntu(abantu) abasekelayo uphezulu. Emzamweni wokuvikela indawo yakho yokuzala, sithemba ukuthi amasu alandelayo angasiza ekunciphiseni amathuba okungaziwa kahle ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakho. Sebenzisa lawa maqhinga alandelayo angasiza ekunciphiseni ithuba lokungaphathwa kahle ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakho.