Izinto Ezingu-10 Okufanele Uhlale Uzisho Ngengane Enezidingo Ezikhethekile

Njengabazali, sifuna ukusho izinto ezifanele ezinganeni zethu, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ezinganeni ezinezidingo ezikhethekile.

Sifuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi sisebenzisa ulimi olwakhayo olukhuthaza izingane zethu futhi luzibonise ukuthi ziyathandwa futhi ziyaziswa. Ngeshwa, abantu abaningi bengahlosile basebenzisa ulimi olubi olungase lube nomthelela omubi ekuzethembeni kwezingane zethu.

Kulesi sihloko, sizoxoxa ngezinto eziyishumi okufanele uzisho njalo ngengane enezidingo ezikhethekile.

1. "Ngiyakuthanda njengoba unjalo."

Izingane zethu kudingeka zazi ukuthi zithandwa ngalokho eziyikho, hhayi lokho ezingakwazi ukukwenza noma ezingakwazi ukukwenza. La mazwi agcizelela ukuthi uthando lwethu ngabo alunamibandela futhi alusekelwe emakhonweni noma ekulinganiselweni kwabo.

2. "Uyakwazi ukufeza izinto ezinkulu."

Izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zingase zibhekane nezinselele, kodwa futhi zinamandla namakhono ahlukile. Ngokuqaphela amakhono abo namandla abo, singasiza ekwakheni ukuzethemba kwabo nokuzethemba.

3. "Ngiyaziqhenya ngawe."

Izingane zethu kufanele zazi ukuthi siyaziqhenya ngazo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani. Bungaza abakufezile, okukhulu noma okuncane, futhi ubazise ukuthi ukuzikhandla kwabo nemizamo yabo kuyaziswa futhi kuyaziswa.

4. "Ngikhona ngenxa yakho."

Izingane zethu kufanele zazi ukuthi siyabasekela nokuthi siyohlala sikhona ukuze sizisize. Lesi sitatimende siyabaqinisekisa ukuthi ababodwa futhi sizobasiza babhekane nanoma yiziphi izinselele abangase babhekane nazo.

5. "Asiyisebenze ndawonye."

Ukubambisana nezingane zethu emigomweni nasezinseleleni zazo kungabasiza bazizwe benamandla futhi bekhuthazekile. Kuphinde kubakhombise ukuthi sitshale empumelelweni yabo futhi sizimisele ukubasiza bayifinyelele.

6. "Ungenza noma yini oyibekele umqondo wakho."

Ukukhuthaza izingane zethu ukuba ziphuphe ezinkulu futhi ziphishekele izinkanuko zazo kungabasiza ukuba bafinyelele amakhono abo aphelele. Ngokukholelwa kuzo, singabakhuthaza ukuba bazikholelwe bona ngokwabo.

7. "Ngilalele."

Ukulalela imicabango, imizwa, nezinkathazo zezingane zethu kungabasiza bazizwe bezwiwa futhi beqondwa. Kuvula nokukhulumisana futhi kuqinise ubuhlobo bethu nabo.

8. "Awuchazwa ukukhubazeka kwakho."

Izingane zethu zingaphezu kokukhubazeka kwazo. Lesi sitatimende siyavuma ukuthi ukukhubazeka kwabo kuyingxenye eyodwa kuphela yokuthi bangubani futhi akuchazi njengomuntu.

9. "Ubalulekile kimi."

Izingane zethu kudingeka zazi ukuthi ziyaziswa futhi zibalulekile kithi. Lesi sitatimende sigcizelela ukuthi zibalulekile ekuphileni kwethu futhi siyabazisa ubudlelwano bethu nazo.

10. "Ngiyakukholwa."

Ukukholelwa kubantwana bethu kungabasiza ukuba babe nesimo sengqondo esihle futhi banqobe noma yikuphi ukungabaza okungenzeka babe nakho. Kuphinde kugcizelele ukuthi sinokholo emandleni nasemandleni abo.

Ulimi oluhle lungaba nomthelela omkhulu ekuzethembeni kwezingane zethu, ukuzethemba, kanye nenhlalakahle yazo yonke.

Ngokusebenzisa ulimi olubungaza amandla ezingane zethu, oluvumayo izinselele zazo, futhi oluqinisa uthando lwethu olungenamibandela nokusekelwa, singazisiza ziphumelele futhi zifinyelele amandla azo aphelele.