Ubuciko bungaba indlela enhle, evezayo yazo zonke izingane. Kodwa ezinganeni ezinolimi, izinselele zemizwa noma zezinzwa, imisebenzi yobuciko ingaba nenjongo ngokukhethekile. Ubuciko buvula imigudu yokuxhumana yezingane ezinekhono lokukhuluma elilinganiselwe futhi bunikeza amathuba okukhula okuthintekayo, ukuhlela okubukwayo, ukulawula ukuhamba kahle kwezimoto kanye nokusebenzisana kwesandla neso. Ukukhiqiza umkhiqizo onamandla, obambekayo kukhuthaza ukuzethemba kwezingane. Futhi, izingane eziningi ezihlangabezana nezinselele zokufunda, ezithinta imizwa noma ezinye zinesiphiwo sobuciko futhi ziqhubeke nempilo yokudala.
Abazali bangakhuthaza izingane ukuthi zihlole amakhono azo obuciko ngezindlela eziningi. Le mibono yokudala ivela kubelaphi bezobuciko kanye nama-paraeducators.
Ungacabangi ukuthi ingane inokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambili kwezobuciko.
Ezinye izingane zingase zihlobane kuphela nezithombe ezingokoqobo, eziyizithombe futhi zidinga ukufundiswa lapho zisebenza ngemifanekiso nezithombe ezingabonakali. Qala ukwethula ingane yakho ngokudweba ngokuthinta ucezu lwelaminate olucacile phezu kwesithombe bese ucela ingane yakho ukuthi ilandele umkhondo, usebenzisa ipeni elizwakalayo elisula kalula. Lokhu kusiza izingane zifunde mayelana nemiphetho, izimo kanye nezinto eziphathekayo, kuyilapho kuvumela izingane ukuba ziphumelele ngokulandela umkhondo okuphelile.
Imidwebo ehlangene ingakhuthaza ingane ukuthi yengeze imininingwane engase ingacabangi ngayo iyodwa.
Wena njengomuntu omdala ungase uqale umdwebo, njengowendlu. Khona-ke wena nengane yakho ningashintshana ngokunezela imininingwane efana nomnyango, ushimula, ibhokisi leposi, ibhayisikili elisendleleni, amafasitela, utshani, izimbali namafu. Qhubeka nomdwebo ohlanganyelwe inqobo nje uma ingane yakho inentshisekelo. Bese ubuyela emsebenzini wobuciko ngolunye usuku futhi wengeze imininingwane eyengeziwe. Bhangqa ulimi lomlomo nemininingwane ngayinye njengoba idwetshwa. Isibonelo sithi, "umama ubasa umlilo ngoshimula" ngenkathi udweba isakhiwo. Zijwayeze isipelingi nezabizwana, futhi uvumele umcabango wengane ukhuphuke ngesikhathi sokudweba nokufunda ngasinye. Izinketho zemfundo azipheli.
Nikeza imodeli ukuze usize ingane idwebe okuthile okuqondile.
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane ziyazuza ekuqondisweni mayelana nokubonisa izithombe ezingokoqobo. "Ngenkathi kwakhiwa umdwebo wendwangu onesici esihlala, umfundi wami kwakufanele akhethe isilwane azosibonisa," kusho umelaphi wezobuciko/i-paraeducator uLucy Courtney. “Wayenesithombe sesilwane sangempela asikhethile, kodwa nokho umdwebo wakhe wawungeyona intuthwane eyaziwayo. Ngibe sengiyidweba intuthwane ibhekile. Ngamshiya yedwa futhi wadweba intuthwane eyayifana kakhulu neyami—intuthwane ekholakalayo.”
Zama ukudweba isinyathelo ngesinyathelo.
Lokhu kungaba umsebenzi wekilasi lonke noma iqembu lokudlala elinothisha noma umzali oholayo.
Nikeza ngezindlela ezihlukile.
Ingane eyodwa ingase ithande ukulawula nokucindezela kokusebenzisa amapensela anemibala. Enye ingane ingase ithande ukukhululeka kwamapeni—umbala osheshayo ngaphandle kokudinga ukucindezela. Abanye bajabulela ukudweba ngoshoki, ikakhulukazi uma upenda udonga olungathungathwanga ngopende webhodi/ibhodi elimnyama futhi unikeze izinti zoshoki ezinobubanzi obuhlukahlukene nemibala. Amakhrayoni angase abe nzima kakhulu; kunzima ukulawula imiphetho yamakhrayoni, futhi ingcindezi iyadingeka ukuboleka umbala omuhle kumdwebo wekhrayoni. Upende unzima nakakhulu ukuwulawula futhi unenkinga yesici esingcolile. Amaphrojekthi wobuciko kufanele afezeke futhi enze umqondo enganeni. Uma kungenjalo, umsebenzi ungase wenziwe kodwa ngokunqanyulwa okusobala, ergo ukuntuleka kwenzuzo.
Vumela ubuciko buhlukaniselane ekubhaleni.
Ukubhalwa kwejenali yansuku zonke kwakukhathaza umfana oyedwa ebangeni lesi-2. Usuku ngalunye wayedweba inqola yesitimela abhale umusho owodwa, “Isitimela sami sihle.” Lapho ecelwa ukuba abhale umusho wesibili, wayengeza okuthile okujwayelekile njengokuthi, “Kuhle.” U-Courtney waqaphela ukuthi ngenkathi ukubhala kumile, imidwebo yayithatha imininingwane ekhulayo: Izimoto zaba amabhokisi noma izimoto eziyisicaba ezinezici ezengeziwe emasondweni, izimoto ezengeziwe zengezwa esitimeleni, futhi abantu baqala ukuvela ezimotweni zesitimela. Imidwebo yaqhubeka ithuthuka, ngisho nalapho ukubhalwa kwakuhlala kumile—kwaze kwaba unyaka olandelayo, lapho amasango ezikhukhula evuleka futhi umntwana eqala ukubhala umdlalo wesikrini!
Ubuciko bungavula umnyango wokuxhumana ezinganeni ezingakhulumi noma ezingakwazi ukuveza imizwa yazo.
Kwesinye isibonelo esidabukisayo, uthisha othile wenza umsebenzi wobumba amasonto amaningi nomfana ongakhulumi. Isikole esisola ukuhlukunyezwa kwengane nguyise, nokho asikwazanga ukufakazela lutho. Isonto nesonto, ingane yayisebenza ngaphandle kokuzwakala emfanekisweni womfanekiso omnyama, onsundu. Ngelinye ilanga kwathula kwathi cwaka. Umfana wabona enye ingane imbhekile wayesethi, “Umama ungiphatha kabi.”
Ubuciko bungahlinzeka ngendawo yokubuka yokudala indaba. Izingane zingakhuthazwa ukuthi zenze abalingiswa nemidwebo eveza abalingiswa babo ezimeni ezihlukahlukene. Imiqondo efana nokulandelanisa nokubikezela ingafundiswa kusetshenziswa lezi zifanekiso ezibonakalayo.
Ingane yakho izochuma kanjani kwezobuciko? Jabulela inqubo yokudala futhi ubukele ingane yakho ithuthuka.
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