Izingane zethu bezingekho emakilasini azo izinyanga ngezinye izikhathi ezizizwa sengathi yiminyaka. Sikhathazekile ngezifundo okungenzeka ukuthi bayaphuthelwa, inkundla yezemfundo okungenzeka ukuthi balahlekelwe. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, izingane eziningi zikhathazeka ngokuthi ziyophinde zikwazi yini ukubloma nabangane bazo. Uma singakwazi ukuhlalisana nabanye abantu, siwenza kanjani amakhono okuxhumana nabantu? Futhi yini esingayenza ezinganeni, okwathi ngenxa yokungezwani kokukhula, zase zidonsa kanzima emphakathini?
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane uStephanie Mihalas, oqondisayo Isikhungo Senhlalakahle eNtshonalanga LA, ithi ukuba kude nesikole kungaba nomthelela kumakhono omphakathi wezingane kuyo yonke iminyaka yobudala. Izingane ezincane ziphuthelwa yithuba lokuzijwayeza ukushintshana, ukwabelana nokuma emgqeni. Izingane ezindala kanye nentsha iphuthelwa ngabakhi bamakhono njengokuthi bangasebenza kanjani kumaphrojekthi weqembu lokusebenzisana. Kuyiqiniso, kwesinye isikhathi kuba khona ukuxhumana ku-Zoom, kepha akufani neze. “Kunohlobo oluhlukile lwamandla ne-vibe uma usekilasini, kodwa uma usuqedile nge-Zoom, noma ngabe bafaka abantu emakamelweni e-Zoom ahlukene, lolo hlobo lokubambisana oluhlangene luyashintsha,” kusho uMihalas.
Ungase ungakwazi ukushintsha ukuzizwisa kwengane yakho okungokoqobo, kodwa kunezinto ongazenza ekhaya ukuze usize ukunakekela - ngisho nokwakha - amakhono abalulekile omphakathi.
Uma kubhekwa ukuthi imindeni eminingi iye yahlanganiswa ndawonye izinyanga, ungase unganqikazi kancane ukuze nibe nobudlelwane ndawonye. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Amy Wilson, umqondisi wezokwelapha I-Autism Learning Partners e-Laguna Hills , ikukhuthaza ukuthi ukwenze noma kunjalo. Uthi: “Nika izingane isikhathi usuku nosuku ukuze zidlale nawe nezingane zakubo.
1. Dlalani ndawonye. Uma ufuna igumbi elincane lokuphefumula, cabangani ukudlala imidlalo eku-inthanethi ndawonye, ​​kodwa ezingxenyeni ezihlukene zendlu. U-Mihalas uthi imidlalo lapho izingane zenza khona ama-avatar azo kanye nokuzidela kungabanikeza ithuba lokuziveza. Futhi ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi iDungeons and Dragons ingathuthukisa amakhono omphakathi nempilo yengqondo.
2. Sebenzisa imicabango yakho. Uma nindawonye etafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa, yeqa izingxoxo ezivamile mayelana nosuku lwawo wonke umuntu. “Kungenzeka ukuthi wonke umuntu wayelapho,” kusho uMihalas. Kunalokho, gxila emibuzweni eyahlukene. Qala isitatimende bese ucela wonke umuntu ukuthi agcwalise izikhala. "Ngifisa sengathi i-genie ingangilethela ...." “Ngifisa sengathi ngabe nginephupho mayelana….”
3. Hamba ngezinyawo. Ukuhamba kahle ngemva kwesidlo sakusihlwa kuzothatha ukusebenzelana kwakho kuyise endaweni entsha. Thola wonke umuntu emkhankasweni wokusho izinto ezine ozibonayo, izinto ezintathu ozizwayo, izinto ezimbili ozihogelayo, njll. ukuzijwayeza ukubambisana nokushintshana.
Umgomo wayo yomithathu le misebenzi uwukwenza wonke umndeni ujabule ndawonye, ​​ukuze lo mkhuba wamakhono okuxhumana nabantu ungazizwa njengomsebenzi onzima. Ukwakha amasiko amasha ambalwa nakho kungakha amakhono ahlala impilo yonke.
