Ibhulogi yakamuva 'Kodwa ubukeka...ejwayelekile...' namanye amazwana angasizi alungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/but-he-looks-so-normal- nokunye-okungasizi-ukuphawula/Hhawu. Bekungenzeki kaningi eminyakeni yamuva (isihlalo esinamasondo/isilinda sikaoksijini/umshini wokumunca uhlobo lokuwunikeza) nokho bekuyinkulumo esayizwa kakhulu esemncane. Kufanele ubukeke kanjani ngempela nesifo sokuwa esisongela ukuphila engingase ngikubuze? Ngisho namanje izithombe zingakhohlisa ngempela.Isithombe esikule posi ngesidala, kodwa siyintandokazi - wayenjalo, eziqhenya ngokukwazi ukuhlala engasekelwa eduze kukaBaba wakhe. Ukumbheka lapha, ufana nanoma iyiphi enye ingane ephile kahle ejabule. Eqinisweni, lokhu, njengazo zonke izithombe, isifinyezo sesikhathi - isikhashana lapho ethole khona ibhalansi yakhe kahle.Kwathatha imizuzwana nje, awusiboni isandla sikaBaba wakhe sibekwe ngokucophelela ngemuva kwakhe silungele ukumbamba njengoba elahlekelwa yileyo bhalansi, ukuquleka kwathatha ngokushesha futhi walala kakhulu ntambama engekho, evikelwe inja yomngane wethu emangalisayo (eyayibamba. kanye nathi akazange ashiye ohlangothini lwakhe).Bese kuba nokunye okweqisayo. Ababonayo mfana wami bahluleke ukubona umfana ohlakaniphile, onezihlathi abakwazi ukuxhumana, uyidimoni kuma-boardgames, uthanda ukubhukuda kanye ne-LEGO ... esikhundleni sokugxila ezindabeni.Babona ingane ekhubazekile, futhi ikhumbula konke enakho nakwaziyo ukukwenza. Kuwukulahlekelwa kwabo ngokuphelele njengoba engeke abanikeze isikhathi sosuku... unomkhuba omubi kancane wokukhahlela abantu abakhuluma phezu kwakhe ezinsimini bese bebukeka bemsulwa ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngeke ngithi ngiyamsola. Imicabango mayelana namakhono ayo iyinhlupho indodana yami ebhekana nayo cishe nsuku zonke kodwa ayisoze yabhekana nayo kulabo abayithandayo.Into nje ezomkhawulela wumcabango wakhe.U-Anti wakhe amthanda kakhulu wayemteketisa ngokuthi u-Spaceman (uthanda izindaba zesikhala, amarokhethi nokundiza phakathi kwezinkanyezi), othisha bakhe bayaqhubeka nokumcindezela ukuba afeze izinto azithola zinzima njengamanje futhi sizoqhubeka nokumjabulisa.Enye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu umuntu angayenza komunye umuntu ukuyisula ngaphambi kokuba athole nethuba lokuzama, eqinile noma ngenye indlela. Izingane ezikhubazekile zinamandla amakhulu njengabo bonke abanye, zidinga nje umuntu okholelwa kuzo futhi ozozinika ukuzethemba zokwelula amaphiko azo futhi zifunde ukundiza.Okuthunyelwe okuthi 'Kodwa ubukeka...ejwayelekile...' namanye amazwana angasizi avele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/
