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Bambalwa abantu abakhuluma ngokukhubazeka entsheni. Izincwadi zabazali azikutsheli ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nengane enezidingo eziphakeme ezingakhulumi futhi omude futhi onamandla kunawe. Ngimgcina kanjani, nabanye, bephephile njengoba amandla akhe angokomzimba ekhula kodwa ukuqonda kwakhe kungakhuli? Kuyokwenzekani kuye uma kuphela isikole? Ngimnakekela kanjani ukuphila kwami ​​konke? Lena ngeminye yemibuzo engiyithola izulazula engqondweni yami njengoba ngilele embhedeni ebusuku ngizama ukulala. Uneminyaka engu-13 kuphela kodwa umonakalo angawenza ekuncibilikeni mukhulu kakhulu kunangesikhathi esemncane, izindawo engingamyisa nazo ziba zincane ngosuku futhi nemikhiqizo ayidingayo ukuze ahlangabezane nezidingo zakhe ibiza kakhulu. Nokho okulindelwe umphakathi manje kukhulu kunangaphambili. Kuphelile ukubukeka kozwelo noma uzwelo futhi esikhundleni sazo kwandisa ukwahlulela nokusola. “Awumtholile yini ukuthi ayeke ukwenza lokho manje?” “Usemdala kakhulu ukuthi angenza lokho.” "Impela kufanele ngabe usebenzisa izindlu zangasese zama-gents eminyakeni yakhe?" Bese uba nezidingo ezengeziwe zokuthomba. Ukuwashwa kwezinwele kuhlukumeza wonke umuntu ngakho nje umcabango wokumshefa uyangethusa. Ukuvuma kuba yinkinga enkulu futhi. Uma engavumi ukuphuza imithi ebalulekile noma ukuvakasha endlini yangasese noma ukuwasha ingabe kufanele avume ukuthi cha uma engayiqondi imiphumela? Kodwa umenza kanjani umuntu omude futhi onamandla kunawe enze noma yini angayifuni? Zahamba izinsuku emphakamisa ngokomzimba emsusa phakathi nomgwaqo esekhetha ukuvele ahlale phansi noma amgwazise 'kuqala bese.' Ingabe ngivumela intshebe namadevu kukhule nakuba engenalo ikhono lokukugcina kucocekile futhi kuhlanzekile? Khona-ke usunenkinga enkulu kakhulu eyake yaba khona: kuthiwani ngekusasa? Ezinganeni ezifana nendodana yami ezinezidingo eziyinkimbinkimbi ezihlale zifunda ezikoleni zochwepheshe ayikho inketho eningi ngeminyaka yabantu abadala. Ikolishi noma inyuvesi ayifaneleki futhi kuba wukuthuthela ekunakekelweni komphakathi kwabantu abadala lapho lowo muntu enakekelwa khona ngabanakekeli emphakathini noma basenkulisa. Kumayelana nokumjabulisa bese umbuyisela ekhaya futhi. Imayelana nezindleko, ibhajethi kanye nezimpi ezingokomthetho zamandla ommeli. Kumayelana nokufaka isicelo sezinzuzo egameni lakhe angazi nokuthi zikhona. Njengoba abanye abangontanga yakhe manje benza ukukhetha kwezifundo esikoleni becabanga ngemisebenzi yesikhathi esizayo indodana yami isajabule ngokubuka i-Peppa Pig ku-YouTube. Ngenkathi enye intsha ikhula izimele futhi iya ezindaweni nontanga usekhaya njengenjwayelo engenabangani nenkulumo. Uma emdala kuba nzima ukubona umehluko nsuku zonke. Ngakho bambalwa abakhuluma ngokukhubazeka ngemva kweminyaka ethile njengokungathi lapho izingane ziqeda esikoleni samabanga aphansi izidingo zazo ziyashabalala. Akulula ngandlela thize ukukhuluma ngentsha enengqondo nekhono lomntwana osacathula. Ngizohlala ngingumama wakhe kodwa ngeshwa nami ngizodinga ukuba umnakekeli wakhe. Uyibhungu elikhubazekile futhi ngelinye ilanga lizoba umuntu omdala okhubazekile. Akumelwe sikhohlwe ukuthi izingane ezikhubazekile ziyakhula, okungenani ngomzimba uma kungenjalo engqondweni. Ukube nje abantu abaningi laphaya bebezimisele ukukhuluma ngalezo zinsizwa ezikhubazekile njengami ezisenezidingo zokunakekelwa kwengane encane. Mhlawumbe ngaleso sikhathi bengingeke ngizizwe ngingedwa njengamanje. The post Udinga ukunakekelwa kwengane encane kodwa isidumbu sowesilisa appeared first on Firefly Blog . ************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
