Ibhulogi yakamuva Mnakekeli Othandekayo, Umngane Othandekayo usulungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/dear-career-dear-friend/Bangitshele ukuthi ngifanelekele usizo lokunakekelwa kwezenhlalakahle. 'Ukuphumula', bakubiza. Bangifakela imali ku-akhawunti, bathi angitholele 'abasebenzi'.Ngangingafuni abasebenzi. Ngangingabafuni abantu engingabazi emzini wami. Ngangifuna ukulungisa ingane yami, kodwa akekho owayengisiza ngalokho. Ngangilahlekile, ngaphelelwa yithemba.Wangena endlini yethu, nasezimpilweni zethu ngalolo suku, futhi awukaze uhambe.Awuzange unake ngenkathi indlu ibhilide. Wawungenandaba ngisagqoke izingubo zokulala. Ukhulume walalela, wabukela futhi wafunda. Uthathe iziyalezo ngezinye izikhathi zingakasuki emlonyeni wami. Umunce njengesipontshi.Akukho okuxakayo noma okungajwayelekile kuwena, awukhwabithi uma isidlo sakusihlwa sihlala emathangeni akho, kuphonswa amathoyizi kuwe, kukhishwe izinwele. Lapho esesimweni esibi kakhulu usabonakala ukutholile okuhle kwakhe. Unesineke futhi umnene kodwa uqinile futhi ugxile. Uzothile, uhlelekile, futhi uyashesha; konke engifuna ukuba yikho.Uletha isipiliyoni kodwa futhi nomqondo ovulekile. Uthatha isiqondiso kodwa futhi ungiqondise.Ubuza ngaMI. Uyabakhathalela futhi uyalalela. Ungenzela itiye ungihlalise phansi ngiphuze. Uyazwela futhi unozwelo kodwa awusekeli noma ukwahlulela.Sinezinsuku ezinhle futhi sinezinsuku ezimbi. Sifunda ndawonye. Sicabanga ngezinsuku ezidlule futhi sizizwa siziqhenya ngokufeziwe. Uke wangibona ngisesimweni esibi kakhulu, futhi ngingcono kakhulu kunokubi kakhulu. Ukhipha konke okusemandleni ami. Uyangibonisa ukuthi kulungile ukuba yimi, futhi ungiqinisekise ukuthi ngenza umsebenzi olungile.Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi wabelane ngezindaba zakho, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sesingabangane. Ungithululele isifuba, ugubhe wakhala nami. Ngiwubukile umsebenzi wakho nempilo yakho yasekhaya ishintsha futhi ithuthuka. Lapho impilo ibinonya futhi usezingeni eliphansi kunawo wonke, ngandlela thize uthola amandla kuye futhi kuphambukisa ubuhlungu bakho.Lapho ebhekene nobunzima nezikhathi zobunzima bangempela, usidonsele ndawonye.Ngibe yisiphithiphithi esihlakazekile wena ube umbhoshongo wamandla. Ngikubukele ujabulela yena futhi ngokwenza kanjalo ngiye ngakhumbula indlela yokumjabulela futhi.Umenze inhlekisa! Ungitshela amahlaya awafundile aphinde amazwi agangile nezenzo eziwubulima. Unamahlaya akho ayimfihlo nemishwana futhi uthanda ukuthi unezimfihlo.Ube nesibindi! Lapho ngesaba kakhulu ukuphuma endlini, wangibonisa ukuqina.Awuzange untengantenge ekubukekeni nasekubenyeni, awuzange ukhathazeke ngezithiyo ezingaba khona. Inhloso yakho eyinhloko bekuhlala kuwukumnika yonke into ayifunayo nayidingayo, ngesimo sengqondo esihle 'sokuklomelisa-konke'. Ungifundise ukukhulisa isikhumba esishubile.Bathi, ungaqashi abangani. Bathi, ungumphathi wabo, hhayi umlingani wabo.Bangitshele ukuthi nginikeze iziyalezo ezicacile futhi ngigcine imingcele. Yenza izinkontileka. Ngisakhohlwa ukuthi ulapha ukuzokhokhelwa; ungenza ngizizwe ulapha ngokuthanda kwakho hhayi ukuzohola.Igama lakho liyamenyezwa ngokuphinda lapho usuzofika, futhi uyabuka futhi uyalinda ngokujabula.Indlu izizwa isizungu uma uhamba futhi uvame ukuhamba sekudlule isikhathi ngoba usuke ugxile komunye nomunye.Uke waba ngumelaphi wakhe, itekisi yakhe, uthisha wakhe, kanye nommeli wakhe. Futhi ube umngane wakhe omkhulu.Ingane yami ingumuntu ongcono ngokwazi wena.Okuthunyelwe Mnakekeli Othandekayo, Mngane Othandekayo kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
