Ibhulogi yakamuva Ungawakhawuli kakhulu... isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/dont-limit-them-more/Indodana yami eneminyaka engu-13 ubudala ikhubazekile. Ziningi izinto angeke akwazi ukuzenza:Akakwazi ukukhuluma.Akakwazi ukufunda.Akakwazi ukubhala.Akakwazi ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo.Akakwazi ngisho ukugeza noma ukuzigqokisa.Futhi namanje akakwazi ukugxuma.Ukuba nabo bonke lobu bunzima kumenza angakwazi ukuya lapho angaya khona nokuthi yini angayenza.Akakwazi ukuphuma ayodlala nabangani noma ukukhahlela ibhola engadini. Akakwazi ukujoyina iqembu lezemidlalo noma ukugibela ibhayisikili. Udinga ukugadwa umuntu omdala ngaso sonke isikhathi.Ukuthatha konke lokho (kanye nokunye okuningi engingakubala futhi) kucatshangelwa okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe ekuphileni kungaba okulinganiselwe kakhulu.Abantu bangaqonda uma ngingakaze ngimyise emtatsheni wezincwadi noma endaweni yokubhukuda noma epaki.Abantu abaningi bangajabula uma bengikhathazekile ukumyisa ogwini lolwandle noma ngisho ngiyoshaywa umoya. Ngangivame ukuba yilokho kanye: ngilangazelela ukumyisa noma yikuphi.Kwathi ngolunye usuku ngabona okuthile okubalulekile:Ukukhathazeka kwami kwakumkhawulela ngisho nangaphezu kokukhubazeka kwakhe!Ngakho ngamthatha wabhukuda noma ngabe konke ayekwenza kwakuwukuhlala nezinyawo zakhe zilenga emanzini.Ngamyisa epaki noma nje wayehlezi phezu kwemishini yezingane ezincane ebuka ezinye izingane zidlala kuyilapho yena eshaya izandla ehleka.Ngimthathe ngimdlalele kamnandi yize bekumele ngimthwale noma ngingene naye ngimeseke. Ngamyisa emtapweni wolwazi ukuze abheke futhi ezwe izincwadi nakuba ayengakwazi ukufunda neyodwa yazo.Khona-ke kuleli sonto elidlule ngimthathe okokuqala evakashele epaki ye-trampoline nakuba engakwazi ngisho nokugxuma!Angizange ngicele noma ngilindele noma yisiphi isaphulelo. Ngangifuna ukuthi afakwe njengawo wonke umuntu futhi athole impatho efanayo ngisho noma kufanele ngihlale phansi ukuze ngibeke amasokisi akhe futhi ngimqondise ngokucophelela ngengalo endaweni ye-trampoline.Eqinisweni, isikhathi engake ngasho ngezinselelo zakhe kwaba wukubuza ukuthi singayeqa yini i-video yezokuphepha njengoba engayiqondi noma ahlale eyiqedile abuze ukuthi ngingakwazi yini ukuhlala naye isikhathi sonke.Ukuma kuma-trampolines kwakungenakwenzeka ngendodana yami. Wayengakwazi ukulinganisa futhi wayesaba.Ngakho wahlala phansi ngenkathi mina ngihlezi eduze kwakhe njengoba ezwa futhi ebuka abanye eduze kwakhe.Wayengakwazi ukugijima njengabo noma agxume kodwa wahlala lapho umzimba wakhe wawubhampa njengoba emamatheka nokuhleka kwakhe kwanda.Ube nesikhathi esihle kakhulu ejabulela umsebenzi ngendlela yakhe eyingqayizivele.Ukuba khona kwakhe bekungavimbeli omunye umuntu ukuthi adlale noma abangele ukuphazamiseka.Eqinisweni, ezinye izingane eziningi zazifuna ukwazi futhi zajabula lapho ngithi zingagxuma eduze ukuze ezwe ukunyakaza kwazo. Wengeze enjabulweni yabo ngokuba khona nje futhi wenza nabanye babone ukuthi ziningi izindlela zokuzijabulisa kunendlela evamile wonke umuntu ahlanganyela kuyo.Wathi esenele ngamsiza sabuyela ekhaya njengabo bonke abantu.Emuva ekhaya ngalobo busuku wabheka amakhadi akhe okuxhumana futhi wamamatheka njengoba engibonisa i-trampoline emamatheka.Ngendlela yakhe, wangitshela ukuthi ube nesikhathi esimnandi futhi ufuna ukubuyela emuva.Sesivele sibuyile futhi futhi ngiyasola ukuthi singase sibe abavamile lapho. Ingabe ingane yami iyoke ikwazi ukugxuma ngempela? Ngiyakungabaza kodwa lokho akusho lutho.Okubalulekile ukuthi ingane yami angiyikhawuleli ngaphezu kwalokho eyikho kakade. Kungase kudingeke sizivumelanise nezimo futhi senze izinto ngendlela ehlukile kodwa lokho kulungile.Kulungile ukhathazeke uma ingane yakho inezidingo ezengeziwe kodwa ungayikhawuleli ngaphezu kokukhubazeka kwayo kakade.Ungavumeli ukukhathazeka kwakho kubavimbele ekuzijabuliseni, nokho lokho kubukeka kubo.Okuthunyelwe Ungakukhawuleli okwengeziwe... kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog .************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
