Ukonga ithusi, kodwa ngenani elingakanani?

Saving coppers, but at what cost? - 4aKid
Ibhulogi yakamuva Igcina ama-coppers, kodwa izindleko zini? isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/saving-coppers-but-at-what-cost/ Njengoba sekusondele isikhathi sokubuyela esikoleni futhi ngizithola sengithenga umfaniswano nezikhwama zesikole kufika incwadi mayelana nalo nyaka ngezinhlelo zokuhamba zendodana yami ekhubazekile. Kuphinde kube enye inkampani, umshayeli ohlukile kanye nomzila ohlukile. Kungani? Ngoba omunye ufake ibhidi yomzila owawushibhe amasenti kunenkampani yeminyaka edlule ngakho bathola inkontileka manje esikhundleni salokho. Ngenxa yalawo masenti esindisiwe kubaphathi bendawo, manje ngizophinda, futhi, ngizoba nezinyanga zomntwana wami ezilimaza, eklabalasa, edidekile, ekhathazekile futhi ecasukile njengoba izama ukuzivumelanisa noshintsho futhi ngizabalaza ukuyisiza futhi ngimethembe. abangazi baphinde bathuthe indodana yami esengozini engakwazi nokukhuluma. Lokhu sibhekana nakho njalo ngonyaka owodwa hhayi ngoba abantu bangaphambili bebengafuni ukwenza umsebenzi ngomunye unyaka kodwa konke kungenxa yenqubomgomo okusho ukuthi inketho eshibhe kakhulu kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi isetshenziswe noma ngabe imuphi umthelela kumsebenzisi. Abukho uzwelo ngengcindezi noma ukucasuka okukubangelayo noma ukuqonda noma ukuqwashisa ngezinga lokukhathazeka okubeka ingane yami (kanye nathi) ngokungenasidingo. Kushibhile, futhi ngokusobala, yilokho kuphela okubalulekile. Akuzona ezokuthutha zesikole kuphela ezinalesi simo. Kuyafana nangezinsiza zokwelapha azidingayo ukuze aphephe nesithunzi sakhe. Kwaphela iminyaka sinomkhiqizo omuhle owawusilingana kahle, ukhululekile futhi unikeza ukusekelwa okudingekayo. Khona-ke indodana yami yadlula umkhiqizo futhi kwadingeka sidlule ohlelweni lokuthola usayizi olandelayo. Ngeshwa manje usayizi olandelayo womkhiqizo ofanayo awufani nokulingana kahle, futhi awukhululekile enganeni yami, futhi awumniki isithunzi noma ukusekelwa okufanayo akudinga kakhulu. Ngicele omunye umkhiqizo esikhundleni salokho kodwa ngaziswa ukuthi lawo angeke anikezwe ngoba abiza openi abambalwa ngaphezulu! Manje ngenxa yokuba nemikhiqizo engafaneleki kahle sekufanele ngiwashe izingubo zakhe kaningi, nginikeze izinguquko eziningi esikoleni nsuku zonke futhi ngize ngilahle izingubo emasontweni amaningi njengoba umkhiqizo ubuvuzile noma ungahlali endaweni ngakho-ke izingubo zishintshile. wonakala. Okonga amapeni eziphathimandla zezempilo kungibiza amaphawundi amaningi isonto ngalinye futhi kubangela indodana yami ukucindezeleka nokuphatheka kabi okungaxazululeka kalula ngokuzimisela ukusebenzisa ingxenyenamba encane kakhulu yomkhiqizo oyilungele. Ngiyazi ukuthi ingane yami ibiza kakhulu futhi njengomuntu osemusha okhubazekile uzodinga ukunakekelwa okungu-24/7. Ngibonga kakhulu futhi ngiyabonga nganoma yikuphi ukwesekwa noma usizo esilutholayo. Lokhu akukhona ukungabongi kumayelana nesistimu ebona ukonga izindleko kuphela ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye futhi enqabe ukubheka ngale kweqiniso lokuthi inketho eshibhe kakhulu ayihlali ilungile. Ngithola ukuthi amabhajethi anomkhawulo. Ngiyakuqonda ubuhlakani nokuziphendulela. Umbuzo wami uthi: ingabe izindleko nomthelela wokonga ithusi kuwufanele ngempela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi? Kuthiwani ngombono oqinile wokuthi izidingo zomuntu okhubazekile zazihamba phambili kunoma yiziphi izinqumo? Kuthiwani uma empeleni sibazisa abantu abafana nendodana yami ngokwanele ukuze sibone ukuthi ngokonga openi abambalwa empeleni ubiza kwenye indawo kakhulu futhi unomthelela kwezinye izindawo eziningi njengemfundo yayo nempilo yomndeni ngokungadingekile? Kuthiwani ngothile endaweni ethile oma futhi acabange ukuthi 'ingabe lokhu kuyasizuzisa ngempela ukonga openi abambalwa?' Impela indodana yami ikufanele lokho? Ingabe ngempela sicabanga ukuthi kuncane kakhulu ngezingane ezikhubazekile kanye nabantu abasha ukusho ukukhetha okushibhile kuphela okuyoke kubenzele kona? Okubuhlungu kunakho konke ukuthi imindeni eminingi efana neyami ibhekana nalolu suku nosuku. Izingane eziningi ezikhubazekile, intsha, kanye nabantu abadala baye batshelwa ukuthi abakwazi ukukuthola ezikudingayo ngenxa nje yokuthi akuyona indlela eshibhile. Isithunzi sabo, ubuhlungu, ingcindezi nokukhathazeka kwabo akubonakali kunendaba nakancane. Konke okuke kubonakale kubalulekile ukonga amakhopha ambalwa ngaso sonke isikhathi noma kuyini izindleko ezishiya imindeni isele ukuze ithathe izingcezu zesistimu ebiza amapeni ambalwa agcinwe ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Okuthunyelwe Ukonga ithusi, kodwa izindleko zini? ivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog. ************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/