Ibhulogi yakamuva yokuhlala esibhedlela isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/hospital-stays/Selaliswe kaningi ezibhedlela nendodakazi yethu eneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili, kwatholakala ukuthi inesifo sokuwa inezinyanga eziyi-18. Unesifo sokuwa esiyinkimbinkimbi okunzima kakhulu ukuselapha. Ukuhlala okunye bekusabisa, okunye kuyahlekisa (ngizochaza) kanti okunye sekucishe kushayeke emshinini.Ukuhlala kwethu okokuqala kwaba phakathi nokuxilongwa kwakhe. Njengoba ikamelo lethu elincane laligcwele abantu, sashaywa uvalo. Kuqinisekiswe ukuthi uyaquleka. Kwayalelwa izivivinyo zemibandela eyahlukene (namanje angazi ukuthi zaziyini zonke) kodwa ngokushesha sase sibhekana neqiniso lokuthi mancane amathuba okuba impilo ilandele indlela esasiyicabanga.Lezo zindawo zokuhlala bekungaba ezokuqala kweziningi kithiSafika nge-ambulensi kwabanye abalandelayo, nokuquleka isikhathi eside. Okunye ukuhlala kwakungezophenyo ukuze kubonakale ukuthi wayezohlinzwa yini, okunye kwakungowokuhlinzwa uqobo (uneVagus Nerve Stimulator).Ezinye zamuva nje kube ezesithuthwane esingaxhunywanga. Muva nje siphuthunyiswe esibhedlela ngenxa yokuquleka isikhathi eside. Ngesikhathi sifika egunjini labathembele kakhulu, wayesevele walala ngokushesha, wagxuma waphuma embhedeni futhi esayina 'ekhaya'.Umhlengikazi wangitshela ukuthi uyaqala ngqa ukungenisa umuntu ewodini wabe esebakhulula, ngesikhathi evala ikhefu lomunye umuntu (kwabe kuyindida leyo).Ngakho, amanye amathiphu ngokuhlala esibhedlela. Yilokhu okungisebenzelayo:Ithi ngiyabonga futhi ube muhle kubantu (kulungile ukucasulwa ochwepheshe ngaphakathi, bangabantu, futhi ngenze ingxenye yami efanele yokukhipha amehlo lapho izinto zishiwo kancane kunokuzwela).Thola inethiwekhi yakho yokwesekwa, uma unenhlanhla yokuba nabangane kanye / noma umndeni okunikeza usizo, yisho yebo. Batshele ukuthi yini oyidingayo (ngivame ukuyofuna ukudla).Ungesabi ukubuza abahlengikazi imibuzo; likhona igumbi lokudlala? kukhona lapho engingenza khona itiye? Isikhathi esiningi abahlengikazi basuke bematasa kakhulu ukuthi bangakwazi ukukuchazela uma ufika.Thola ukunethezeka kwasekhaya - itiye lakho olithandayo, ushokoledi, ingubo yokulala, noma yini ekwenza uzizwe ungcono. Ama-headphone alungele ama-podcast uma ingane yakho ilele kakhulu.Thatha izingubo ezithokomele - ngiyofuna ama-leggings noma ama-joggers futhi ngivame ukuletha ama-slippers ukuze ngigxumeke phakathi.Nakuba ukuhlala kwethu kuye kwasabisa ngezinye izikhathi, abaningi babo ngiye ngazizwa ngiduduzekile. Ngizophetha ngokwabelana ngesenzo esisodwa somusa esiyingqayizivele engasithola ngenkathi sisevikini eledlule ubusuku obune.Umhlengikazi wangizwa ocingweni kumyeni wami ngimcela ukuba athumele ushokoledi ongu-85%. Ngemva nje kocingo wavela nama-mini bar amabili, u-75% no-85% ethi “Angikwazanga ukubamba uma ubufuna u-75% noma u-85%”, wanginikeza wona womabili. Ngangingase ngikhale. Lowo shokoledi wawunambitheka kamnandi.Okuthunyelwe Ukulaliswa esibhedlela kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
