Ibhulogi yakamuva Iseluleko Esingcono Kakhulu Ngenkathi Ukhulisa Ingane Enezidingo Ezikhethekile isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/the-best-advice-while-raising-a-child-with-special -izidingo/Ngithole itimu eyodwa evamile ohambweni oluhle lweminyaka engama-30 engibe nalo kuze kube manje nendodakazi yami, nokuthi zonke izeluleko ezinhle kakhulu engake ngazithola, zazivela kwabanye abazali abanezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile.Baningi kakhulu abanye abangase bazame ukusiza, futhi ngikholwa ukuthi inhloso yabo inenhloso enhle; nokho, ngaphandle kokuhamba le ndlela akunakwenzeka ukuthi abanye bazi ngokweqiniso ububanzi balokho esikuphilayo. Hhayi nje izilingo, izimpi, namanxeba, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu ukunqoba, injabulo, ubudlelwano obumangalisayo, nothando olungenamibandela.Ngiyethemba ukuthi le bhulogi izosiza abanye benu bazali abasha nabanakekeli abasanda kuqala kulolu hambo. Ekuqaleni kohambo lwami, ngangivame ukuncika futhi ngiphile ngokweseluleko sodokotela, othisha, abangane nezihlobo. Nakuba iseluleko sabo ngezinye izikhathi sasisihle, futhi siwusizo, ngangihlale nginomuzwa wokuthi okuthile ngakho kwakungaphelele.Lapho indodakazi yami iqala isikole, ikilasi lomdanso, nama-Special Olympics, ngahlangana nabazali abaningi!Sasiba-5 esasihlangana masonto onke ukuze siphuze ikhofi ngesikhathi izingane zethu zisekilasini lokudansa. Kuma-Olympics Akhethekile, bekunesikhathi esiningi sengxoxo ngenkathi silindile futhi sibuka imidlalo.Kunohlobo oluhlukile lokuxhumana esinalo. Kuwukuqonda okungokwemvelo kanye nozwelo. Ziningi izindawo zokuthola izeluleko, futhi ngiphakamisa ukuthi ngizisebenzise zonke, ngiyazi ukuthi ngizenzile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngangifuna labo abazi ngempela ukuthi kunjani ukuba sezicathulweni zami.Othisha besikole abangcono kakhulu indodakazi yami eyayinabo kwakuyilabo ababenezingane zabo ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Bonke othisha bakhe babebahle, ngibabonga bonke; nokho, kwakukhona nje okuhlukile, nokukhululeka, kothisha ababesohambweni olufanayo.Ziningi izeluleko engazithola kwabanye abazali ebengingeke ngizazi ukube bebengekho.Le bhulogi akufanele ikhulume ngezeluleko ezithile, ngoba kunolwazi oluningi nosizo sonke esiludingayo, kodwa ukwazisa abanye ukuthi abanye abazali bangaba, futhi ngokuvamile, bangabaqondisi bethu abangcono kakhulu.Sonke singasebenzisa usizo ukuze sinakekele izingane zethu ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Abanye bethu abazali abashadile, kanti abanye banezinselele ezidinga usizo. Ngiphakamisa ngokuqinile ukuthi ujwayelane nabanye abazali kulolu hambo.Ezinye zazo zizosala futhi ezinye zizohamba, kodwa zonke zingathinta inhliziyo yakho futhi zisuse isisindo emahlombe akho. Abanye babanye abazali bangase babe abangane bakho abakhulu kanye nesifuba sakho.Ngiyaqonda ukuthi “Kuthatha isizwe” kusho ukuthini.Impilo enezidingo zethu ezikhethekile izingane ithatha isizwe. UNkulunkulu anibusise nonke bazali abahle nabanakekeli. Ngiyazi ukuthi lolu hambo lungakhandla, kodwa futhi lungaba luhle futhi lujabulise. Lapho uba nosizo olwengeziwe nesiqondiso ungajabulela kakhulu izehlakalo ezithinta inhliziyo.Ezinye zezeluleko ezilula zingenza umehluko omkhulu ekuphileni kwezingane zethu. Lesi sithombe ngesendodakazi yami nengubo yayo enesisindo. Omunye umzali wancoma futhi wenza le ngubo. Kwenza umehluko omkhulu ekuphileni kwakhe lapho imizwa yakhe iphakama, noma ezizwa ekhathazekile.Okuthunyelwe Iseluleko Esingcono Kakhulu Ngenkathi Ukhulisa Ingane Ngezidingo Ezikhethekile ivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
