Ibhulogi yakamuva Kuthiwani 'Ngenye I-Halloween' Kulo nyaka? isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/how-about-an-alternative-halloween-this-year/I-Halloween ngokwezwi nezwi isho ubusuku bangaphambi kwe-All Hallows Day noma i-All Saint's Day, umkhosi wosuku ogujwa ngo-1st November unyaka ngamunye.Igama elithi Halloween liwuhlobo olufushanisiwe lwe-All Hallows' Evening olugujwa ngo-31st October.Umsuka nencazelo yomkhosi we-Halloween kuthathwe emikhubeni yokuvuna yamaCeltic yasendulo, kodwa namuhla i-Halloween iyisikhathi sonyaka izingane eziningi ezisibheke ngabomvu; isikhathi sokucabanga nokuzijabulisa, isikhathi sokugqoka kanye nezindaba ezithusayo, isikhathi 'sokukhohlisa noma ukuphatha' izigigaba namaswidi amaningi!Ukukhangisa nokumaketha okuzungeze i-Halloween kubonakala kukhuphukela phezulu kakhulu njalo ngonyaka, nezitolo ezinkulu ezinikezela iziqhingi eziphelele, ngezinye izikhathi ezimbalwa zazo, ekuthengiseni kwazo kwe-Halloween.Ukukhangisa kusekela lokhu ngenqwaba yezikhangiso ze-TV ezibonisa izithombe zezipoki, izipoki, amathanga, nezicabucabu. Bese kuba ne-BBC Strictly Come Dancing 'Halloween Special'!Nakuba i-Halloween ingaba isikhathi esijabulisayo sonyaka ezinganeni eziningi, kungaba isikhathi esinzima ngempela kwabanye, kuhlanganise nezingane eziningi ezinezidingo ezengeziwe.Kubo kungase kube isikhathi esididayo, esibangela ukukhathazeka, noma ngisho nesikhathi esesabekayo kakhulu.Kodwa akudingekile ukuba kube njalo; uma sima isikhashana ukuze sicabange ngezinto abangase bazithole zinzima nokuthi singabeka kanjani ezinye izinto ukuze zibasize, bangahlanganyela ngokuphephile nokuzijabulisa okuthile kodwa ngenye indlela.Ngakho-ke, yiziphi ezinye zezinto ezimayelana ne-Halloween izingane ezinezidingo ezengeziwe ezingazithola zinzima kakhulu, futhi yini esingazinikeza yona 'Kwenye I-Halloween' yethu esikhundleni salokho:1. Ingozi Engaziwa?Sitshela izingane unyaka wonke ukuthi zingakhulumi nabantu ezingabazi, bese kuthi ngobunye ubusuku kuvele kulunge ukuthi zihambe zingqongqoza eminyango yabantu abangabazi. Lokhu kungaba nzima kakhulu kwezinye izingane ezihlukene ngemizwa, ngokwesibonelo, ezingaba ngokoqobo kakhulu ekuqondeni kwazo futhi ezingadideka kakhulu ngalokhu.Kungani kulungile ukukhuluma nabantu ongabazi namuhla kodwa bekungenjalo izolo? Yini eshintshile? Izoba yini imithetho kusasa? Kungani?2. Inkohliso noma Yangempela?Ukugqoka okugqamile kungase kwesabise ngempela ingane edonsa kanzima ukuhlukanisa phakathi komgunyathi nongokoqobo. Ngokwandayo, sibona izingubo zokugqoka ziba ngokoqobo ngokwengeziwe ngegazi elingamanga kanye nezimonyo zekhwalithi yama-movie okwenza abantu babukeke besabeka ngempela.Lapho lowo mugqa weqiwa enganeni ekholelwa ukuthi umuntu ngempela unokulimala okubi kakhulu noma uphendulwe into embi ngempela, ukwesaba kwabo okungokoqobo. Lawula ukuncibilika okukhulu, ukungalali ebusuku, nokukhathazeka okuphindelelayo.3. Ngiyesaba Kwanele Kakade!Ukukhuluma ngokukhathazeka, ezinye izingane ezinezinkinga eziqhubekayo zokukhathazeka zingathola lonke ibhizinisi lokuphuma 'iqhinga noma ukwelapha' licasula kakhulu ngokwalo. Izimanga, ukwesaba, abantu abagxumela ngaphandle, konke kungasabisa.Uma kunzima ukubhekana nokukhathazeka kwansuku zonke ababhekana nakho mayelana nokuphuma ngosuku oluvamile, khulisa lokhu izikhathi eziningi lapho kuhileleke i-Halloween!4. Kuthiwani Ngami?Bese kuba khona izingane ezinezidingo ezengeziwe noma ukukhubazeka ezingamenywa emicimbini noma ukuyophuma 'ngokukhohlisa noma zokuphatha' ngoba zibhekwa 'njengezihlukile' (imvamisa abanye abazali, hhayi ezinye izingane). Nali elinye ithuba lokuthi bazizwe beshiywe dengwane, benqatshiwe, futhi bengamenywanga ngoba abakafakwa... futhi.5. Izinkinga Zabazali!Akuzona izingane kuphela. Abazali bezingane ezine-ADHD bangase bangabongi ngokuthi izingane zabo zinikezwe inqwaba yamaswidi anoshukela anemibala lapho zilele ubusuku bonke nengane efuthelwa ushukela ngokweqile!Kunenqwaba yezinye izizathu ngaphandle kwalezi ukugwema i-Halloween, kodwa kunezindlela eziningi zokunikeza enye indlela ye-Halloween yazo zonke izingane, kodwa ikakhulukazi izingane ezinezidingo ezengeziwe kanye nemindeni yazo ukuze nazo zihlanganyele; nansi imibono eyi-10:10 Imibono Ewusizo 'Ehlukile Ye-Halloween'Zilungiselele kusenesikhathi, uzinikeze uhlelo lwesikhathi olubonakalayo lokuthi kuzokwenzekani, kanjani futhi nini. Lokhu kuzobasiza ukuba bangakhathazeki kakhulu ngalokho okungenzeka.'Prime' abanye omakhelwane abanobungane abaziwa yizingane futhi ongabavakashela ngokuphepha wazi ukuthi ngeke benze lutho oluthusayo noma olumangazayo. Ngokwesibonelo, bangakhanyisa izibani zabo zangaphandle kanye nebhakede lamaphakethe amaswidi noma ukudla okulula ukuze izingane zizijabulele ngokuphepha. Mhlawumbe izingane zingacula ingoma eziyithandayo njengethi 'ngiyabonga'.Uma useduze nasemaphandleni, noma ipaki, hamba uhambo lwasekwindla (noma ugoqe, qiniseka ukuthi umzila wakho uyafinyeleleka), uqoqa ama-conker nama-fir cones, ukukha amajikijolo amnyama, ukukhahlela noma ukulahla amaqabunga awile, ubheke phezulu ezinkanyezini. . Khumbuza izingane ukuthi ziphathe amathoshi futhi zibe noshokoledi oshisayo namabhisikidi alungele uma ubuyela ekhaya.4. Nikeza izivikeli ezindlebeni zezingane ezizwelayo emsindweni omkhulu ukuze noma yimiphi imisindo engalindelekile, iziqhumane njll. kungabi yinkinga.Khetha ezinye izingubo, 'ezikhanyayo nezikhanyayo'. Kuningi mayelana nokugqoka kunokuba ubani ongabukeka esabisa kakhulu futhi kunezinketho eziningi ezingashaqisayo, ezinhle, ongakhetha kuzo.Unalokhu engqondweni, mhlawumbe isingathe enye 'iphathi ekhanyayo', umgubho ophikisana nesiko lezinto ezikhanyayo, ezikhanyayo, ezimibalabala nezinhle. Ilayisha ukuhlukahluka okwengeziwe ngokugqoka, ubumnandi obufanayo, futhi akukho okwesabisayo! Ubani ongagqoka imvunulo egqamile?!Khetha amaswidi angenashukela, noma okungcono kodwa zama ukudla okulula okunempilo okunetimu ezungeze i-Halloween (ama-satsumas 'njengamathanga amancane' anobuso obumomothekayo njengesibonelo).Mhlawumbe uze ube 'nepikiniki yasendlini yasekwindla' lapho nendlala khona izingubo zokulala futhi nijabulele idili ndawonye, noma uma isimo sezulu sisihle i-barbeque yasekwindla enokukhanya okuningi ukuyigcina ikhanya.9. Uma uphethe iphathi elula noma ipikiniki yasekwindla/i-barbeque, cabanga ngokuthi ubani ongase asale ngaphandle futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uyakhumbula ukubamema.Zithokozise kodwa qhubeka ubheka ukuthi ingane ngayinye izizwa kanjani. Uma bedonsa kanzima, yiba nento abayithandayo belungile ukuze bakuzame kalula lokho futhi bajabule ngendlela ehlukile (ukubaza amathanga - akudingekile ukuthi besabe, ukwenza ama-mini-pie amathanga, ukuhlobisa imbiza ukubeka. ukukhanya kwebhethri ebusuku, umshini webhamuza, ukubhoboza ama-apula, ama-marshmallows athosiwe…)Futhi babe 'nendawo ephephile' abangafinyelela kuyo uma nje bedinga ukuphumula kuyo yonke imisebenzi, bagcwalise ngezingubo zokulala ezithokomele, amakhushini, futhi banikeze ukukhanya okuthambile.Ngethemba ukuthi i-'Alternative Halloween' iyimpumelelo enkulu kini nonke kulo nyaka, ikakhulukazi kulabo kini abanakekela izingane ezinezidingo ezengeziwe!Okuthunyelwe Kuthiwani 'Ngenye I-Halloween' Kulo nyaka? ivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
