Ibhulogi yakamuva ngangingazi ukuthi umhlaba wawunobulungiswa kanjani kwaze kwaba yilapho ngithola ingane ekhubazekile isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/i-never-knew-how-unfair-the-world -ngaba-ngaze ngaba-nengane-ekhubazekile/Angiyena lowo ongenalwazi. Bengilokhu ngiqonda ilungelo nokuthi akuwona wonke umuntu onamathuba alinganayo empilweni. Kodwa ngamazwi afana nokufakwa, ukucwasa, nokubekezelelana manje ekusetshenzisweni kwansuku zonke ngangicabanga ukuthi umhlaba ushintsha ngendlela enhle. Lokho kwenzeka ngaze ngaba nengane ekhubazekile.Umhlaba awunabo ubulungiswa, futhi abaningi basabhekene nokungalingani cishe yonke indawo abaya kuyo. Iqiniso elibuhlungu liwukuthi labo abakhishwa inyumbazane kakhulu futhi ababandlululwa kakhulu banendlela encane yokwenza ushintsho. Ngakho, egameni lendodana yami uqobo, kanye nezigidi zabanye abantwana abakhubazekile; abantu abasha, kanye nabantu abadala ngethemba ukuthi lokhu kwenza labo abangaba nomthelela ekushintsheni bacabange kakhulu futhi benze okwengeziwe.Izinsiza zangaphandleEnye yezinto zokuqala engazibona lapho indodana yami isencane ukuthi amathuba okudlala ngaphandle ayengenabulungiswa. Amafreyimu okukhuphuka, akakwazanga ukwenza; wayengenakho ukulawula umzimba ukuze ahlale kuwo ngokuphephile futhi ngisho nokushelela kuncane kakhulu ukuba ngimhlalise edolweni lami. Ngo-9 nje indodakazi yami yayinengekile yileli qiniso yabhalela 'abakhi bepaki' ibuza ukuthi kungani bekhohlwe umfowabo. Kubuza umbuzo othi ngo-2022, kungani sisakhohlwa ngabakhubazekile uma sitshala izinto zokudlala esidlangalaleni okufanele zifinyeleleke kuwo wonke umuntu? Akulona iqiniso.Ukuntuleka kokufinyelelekaBese kuba nokuntuleka kokufinyeleleka. Kungani kusenezakhiwo ekhulwini lama-21 ezingenawo umgwaqo? Impela amarempu azuzisa wonke umuntu futhi avumele amathuba alinganayo kubo bonke? Nokho izitebhisi zisewumkhuba futhi amakheshi kusewumcabango osemuva. Ngisho nasemabhilidini lapho lezi zisezingeni elifanele, kuvame ukuba namaphasishi amancane noma izindawo ezivimbekile ezivimbela abantu nokwenza kube nzima ukuqondisa isihlalo esinamasondo. Akubona kuphela labo abasebenzisa izihlalo ezinamasondo abanalobu bunzima njengama-pram, ama-buggies, ngisho nezithuthuthu zokuhamba zonke zidinga amarampu, ukufinyelela okubanzi, kanye namakheshi anele okusebenza nawo. Ukufinyelela okulungile kudinga ukuba ngcono kakhulu.ImfundoManje ake sidlulele kwezemfundo. Ukuntuleka kokuzikhethela emfundweni eyisipesheli kanye nama-hoops okudingeka ukuthi ugxume ukuze uthole indawo kwenza imfundo yengane efana neyami ibe ngokungenabulungiswa. Ngokuvamile ukukhetha akugcini nje ngokukhawulelwa, akukho! Amathuba avame ukuba nomkhawulo futhi ukuhamba kuyisidingo. Uma ukufakwa kokujwayelekile kuyinketho, ukuntuleka okukhulu kwezimali ngokuvamile kwenza kungenzeki futhi kungenzeki. Njengoba izikole zisabuka izingane ezinezidingo ezengeziwe njengomthwalo wezinsiza eziyivelakancane esikhundleni sokuba negalelo elibalulekile emphakathini wesikole. Abanalo ithuba elifanelekile.Izindlu zangaseseManje ku-taboo abambalwa abazizwa bekwazi ukukhuluma ngayo: izidingo zokunakekelwa komuntu siqu kanye nendlu yangasese. Ngihambise indodana yami enxanxatheleni yezitolo muva nje. Elapho wadinga ukungena ezindlini zangasese. Lapho ngiwathola, ngashaqeka lapho ngithola izintokazi nama-gents zivuliwe futhi zingena mahhala, kodwa wonke ama-cubicle abakhubazekile avaliwe! Ngiphethe ukhiye okufanele ube ojwayelekile kuzo zonke izindawo ezinjalo. Kodwa njengamabhilidi amaningi le nxanxathela yezitolo isebenzise izingidi ezihlukene okusho ukuthi bekufanele ngithole isisebenzi ngosuku olumatasa bese ngihamba ngibuyela ezindlini zokugezela ukuze ngifinyelele ezinsizakalweni eziyisisekelo. Into wonke umuntu ayithatha kalula. Ngabe lokho kulungile? Ngisho nalapho sithola ithuba lokungena igumbi lalingafanelanga izidingo zendodana yami futhi lalakhelwe abantu abadala noma abantu abangakwazi ukudlula lokho abakhubazekile ngokomzimba. Ngaphumelela ngoba yilokho esengikujwayele iminyaka engu-13 manje. Kodwa akulungile ngokwanele. Akumele ngibhekane namanje. Akulungile kimi noma indodana yami.Impilo ayilungile endodaneni yami; hhayi kahle akakwazi ukukhuluma, ukufunda noma ukubhala. Akulungile unesimo sofuzo esiqhubekayo; akulungile ukuthi kudingeke ukuthi athole izibulala-zinzwa ezivamile ezingu-16 eminyakeni embalwa edlule iyodwa. Akulungile ukuthi unezikhathi eziningi zezokwelapha futhi udinga ukunakekelwa kwamahora angu-24 izinsuku ezingu-7 ngesonto. Kodwa ukuphila kwakhe bekungaba kuhle ukube labo abanekhono nokuqonda bebethatha isikhathi esengeziwe ukuze benze izici zokuphila kwakhe zibe lula futhi zibe nobulungisa. Njengokuba nezindlu zangasese ezihlangabezana nezidingo zabantu abakhubazekile zangempela, ukufinyelela okungcono ezindaweni kanye nesimo sengqondo sokuthi abantu abafana nendodana yami banendaba.Ngoba abantu abakhubazekile banendaba, futhi kufanele baphathwe ngendlela efanele.Okuthunyelwe ngangingazi ukuthi umhlaba wawunobulungiswa kangakanani kwaze kwaba yilapho ngithola ingane ekhubazekile kwavela kuqala ku-Firefly Blog .************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -sekela/
