Umbhali: UMarie Dunleavy
Ukuba nengane enesidingo esikhethekile emndenini akusho ukuthi kufanele uthuke . Njengezinye izingane, izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zingafunda ukuphila impilo evamile futhi zifinyelele amandla azo aphelele . Isiqondiso, ukufundisa nothando kuyizithako eziyinhloko ekukhuliseni ingane ekhethekile futhi kuyisize ifinyelele amakhono aphelele.
“Ukwethuka” kwabazali lapho bezwa ngesimo sengane yabo kungase kuthiwe kubangelwa okuthile okuvamile imibono eyiphutha ekusebenzelaneni nezidingo ezikhethekile zezingane. Le mibono eyiphutha iholela emcabangweni wokuthi alikho ikusasa eliqhakazile lezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Ngaphandle kwalapho lezi zinganekwane ziqondwa ngokugcwele futhi zilungiswe, abazali ngeke bazi ukuthi izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zisazofinyelela amakhono azo aphelele. Nazi izingane ezikhethekile ezi-3 eziphezulu imibono eyiphutha kanye neqiniso ngabo:
- Ukuba ngumzali nokufundisa ingane ekhethekile kuzokuphuca yonke injabulo yakho futhi esikhundleni salo kube nobunzima.
Lokhu kungase kube yiqiniso kwabanye abantu abangayithandi nhlobo ingane - kodwa ingabe lukhona lolu hlobo lomuntu? Abazali bangakwazi kanjani ukuyithanda ingane yabo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iziphi izidingo zayo? Ukuba ngumzali nokufundisa ingane ekhethekile akusona isizathu sokungajabuli. Konke kusesimweni! Ukukhulisa ingane enezidingo ezikhethekile akukuphuci injabulo yakho. Ungase ungajabuli kodwa ukuzikhethela kwakho. Ungakhetha ukujabula nokwaneliseka ngokunakekela nokufundisa ingane yakho ekhethekile. Kunokuba uzivumele uboshwe yileso simo, zilawule. Hlela imisebenzi ethokozisayo ezokusiza ukuthi ujabulele ngesikhathi esifanayo ushiye okuhlangenwe nakho okuphumelelayo kokufunda enganeni yakho.
- Izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile azisoze zafinyelela amakhono azo aphelele.
Lena enye inganekwane. Njengazo zonke ezinye izingane, izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zingafinyelela amakhono azo aphelele. Bangakwazi ukukhuluma, ukufunda nokuxhumana nabanye abantu. Banamandla okuphila impilo ejabulisayo, eyanelisayo nephelele. Kodwa ngeke bakwazi ukufeza lezi ngokwabo. Badinga isiqondiso nokufundiswa okufanele ukuze babe abantu abangcono kakhulu abangaba yikho. Akufanele ube umahluleli wamandla engane yakho. Makahlole futhi afunde. Kunezinsiza zemfundo eziningana ezibhekelela ukufundisa izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile ezifinyelela amandla azo aphelele.
- Akekho oqonda ubunzima bokuba umzali nokufundisa izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile .
Abekho abantu ababili abafanayo. Ithiyori yomehluko ngamunye iyiqiniso kodwa ayisebenzi ezimeni. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubhekene nenselelo yokuba ngumzali noma ukufundisa izingane ezikhubazeke ngendlela ehlukile kodwa awuwedwa. Abanye abazali noma othisha abaningi bake babhekana nesimo esifanayo. Okuwukuphela kwento ehlukile yindlela abantu abasingatha ngayo izimo ezikhethekile ezifana nalezi. Kukhona ngisho izisekelo nezinhlangano ezibhekelela ukusiza abazali nothisha babhekane nenselele yokufundisa nokukhulisa izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile.
Ukukhulisa nokufundisa izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile yi- umsebenzi olula uma wazi ukuthi ungasisingatha kanjani lesi simo. Ungabi novalo! Yazi okuyiqiniso nokungelona. Ungahluleli isimo ngokusekelwe emibonweni eyiphutha emsulwa . Inqobo nje uma wazi okufanele ukwenze, ukukhulisa izingane kanye nokufundisa izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile kuzoba a okuhlangenwe nakho okwanelisayo nokwanelisayo .
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